riani2009

@riani2009 (581)

Indonesia • Age 48

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Would you likek to know the future? If so, would you try to change the future?

StephanieAnnC @StephanieAnnC (4274) • United States 31 May 10

Would you like to know what the future holds? Would you try to change it? Do you find yourself wondering about what the future holds?

future life

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riani2009 Honestly, sometimes I really want to know my future will be. Am I gaoing to be a successful person or just lije this "common person". But, I realize that I am not God ... I am only human and I would like to let my future mysterious so that I am not going to...

31 May 10

Why do we always have to help other countries/nations?

canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 17 Jan 10

I know that I am going to get slammed for this, but why do we, as a nation, send billions of dollars to foreign countries and underdeveloped nations when America is falling apart? I read on another discussion someone was upset...

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riani2009 You should ask your government why they always want to be number one in everything ..and if you know the asnwer then it will answer your question too...

17 Jan 10

which one do you think is more important in life knowledge or money ?

delabam @delabam (96) • Canada 17 Jan 10

which one do you think is more important in life having knowledge or money ? I personally believe that knowledge is more important than money .

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riani2009 I think both are important. I kkow some people who are very genius but also very poor because of their idealism of knowledge. I like to have both being a knowleable person but also very rich so that I can have a power to do good deeds for all human kind. I...

17 Jan 10

Can you read a book and listen to a music at the same time ?

shanrox @shanrox (382) • United Arab Emirates 6 Jan 10

I have wondered of reading a book and listening to my favourite songs at the same time, so that I dont need to spare different times for these. Have you ever done this ?

listening to music

reading a book

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riani2009 i like reading while listening..it makes me feel happy as if I am traveling in my imagination and the song makes it easier to imagine hehehehehe

17 Jan 10

Is it Wrong?

Zahra07 @Zahra07 (101) • United States 10 Dec 09

I have heared many people been loved over internet, and they got married. What you guys think, Do you think love over internet or in chatting is not ture or it can be ture? Is it like any real love Face to Face? Becuase when love...

chat

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riani2009 I meet my husband on line. I don't want to state it's not a true love because untill now we still learn to love each other.

10 Dec 09

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Who is more loyal in a relationship? man? or woman? why?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 7 Dec 09

In other words who cheats more? man? or woman? In my opinion man cheats on their partners much more than women, it is an Universal phenomenon. Why do men cheat more? They don't have that sincere thought of being...

cheat on

men

women

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riani2009 I think it depends on the condition because man and woman has a potential to cheat. But, woman likes to keep it as a secret in her heart and men tends to be aggresive and likes to shows off. It is a relative phenomenon because in my office it seems both few...

7 Dec 09

Do u bleive in god?

Crimsondevil @Crimsondevil (8) • United States 14 Nov 09

Whether yes or no justify ur statement as in why u believe or why don"t u believe..

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riani2009 Yes, I believe ini God as my creator because I am alive is not just instanly like this there is a process in it. And, only God makes me alive.

16 Nov 09

what is your strangest dream in life

badbasty @badbasty (77) • Philippines 15 Nov 09

me. the strangest dream i have is when im alone in a certain world of darkness. i don't know what is the meaning of this. you what is your strangest dream.?

deam

strange

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riani2009 The strangest dream is I was given a lot of books on LInguistics. And, there is a voice saying you should learn and translate them. May be it because I am dealing with a lot of books as my job.

15 Nov 09

Do you think Q&A implies a persons knowledge or a discussion

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 11 Nov 09

Do you think that question and answers session is the best way to make out the knowldge levels of a person on a certain topic or a discussion makes it easier to understand if the person has knowledge about the topic?

discussions

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riani2009 I don't know about it. But for sure I realize I can put a good question but I can't answer nicely because I can't put words right.

11 Nov 09

When is the suitable time to get married?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 11 Nov 09

Today, my colleague asked me this question. She is wondering when it is the suitable time to get married, whether it depends on the stability of the relationship, whether it depends on how many years the couple have been together,...

get married

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riani2009 I get married when Ithink that I need someone who can accompany me in good and bad. I feel tired being alone... I miss a family of my own although now my family life is still in the process of settle down.

11 Nov 09

Peace of Mind, how can you achieve it?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 5 Nov 09

Is it possible to achieve a peace of mind? How? For me, I think if there will be no problems in my mind left unsolved then I could have it. Others may say if you're already dead and your mind isn't working anymore, then thats...

mind

peace

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riani2009 I think my life is in the middle. Sometimes, I feel peaceful in my heart when I realize that my problem is compared with other's problem somehow not really big.. then I thanks to God because of it. On the other hand, being busy everyday to solve problem is...

5 Nov 09

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how many of you earn by blogging

shambhukumar @shambhukumar (763) • India 26 Oct 09

hello guys a great way and most effective way to make money is by blogging i could not find any thing better and easier than this method. you just make a blog on blogger and after 3 months with very good no. of quality and more...

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riani2009 I want to learn how to make maoney online by blogging. But, my writinng is not really good

26 Oct 09

What do you guys think of nightmares?

crystallight1l @crystallight1l (347) • Canada 22 Oct 09

I hate nightmares but sometimes they are funny and stimulates my adventurous side. :D What do mylotters think? Any examples? :)

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riani2009 I really welcome nightmares because nightmares have symbols in my life to be alert that the world is only temporarily. So, please come here nightmare...

22 Oct 09

When relationships fail, do you return all the gifts the other gave?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 13 Oct 09

I was just wondering, when a relationship fails, do you return everything (all those which are tangible though - you can't return food hehe) he/she has given you? If not,

relationships fail

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riani2009 I prefer not. I sense the value of the gift, let it be a memory of my life. Let the past be the past, but I think a gift is something that should be kept in my heart.

13 Oct 09

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Have people lost interest in Mylot?

divkris @divkris (1156) • India 11 Oct 09

I miss quality discussions and interesting responses from MyLot members. This is the main reason I've been out of mylot for a while. what do you think?

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riani2009 Dear friend, long time no hear your comment. I love your comment. Please don't quit from mylot. I think your comment is valuable. A long time ago I decided to quit but then I realize sometimes we need a rest for a while for the routinw that we read or listen,...

12 Oct 09

How do you know if you're a good mother or not?

magistical99 @magistical99 (34) • Indonesia 12 Oct 09

whats the measurement to tell if we have doing our job as a mother well.How dddo you know if you're a good mother or not? could somebody tell me how to...

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riani2009 I know I am a good mother because everytime I come back from work my kids run after me say mama.. mama.. with big smiles. All my tired day is gone by seeing their happiness. When they want to sleep they ask me to accompany them. I feel warm in my heart...

12 Oct 09

do you consider yourself a risk taker or just playing safe all the time...

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 12 Oct 09

Some people are born with an adventurous spirit, always trying something new. As if they can't live without boosting their adrenalins. They get easily bored when

adrenalin

new challenges in life

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riani2009 sometimes I take a chance as a risk taker after I rethink there is no way out than to be brave to take a chalange. But, I will be happy if I just play safe in some times. I feel bored if I always play safe all the time or I don't want to be a risk taker all...

12 Oct 09

How do u deal with cunning people..??

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 6 Oct 09

I m sad to state that I m not diplomat...I dont know how to deal with cunning people..and the people who use friends n then leave them when their aim is over...Such people dont even bother to reply or pay back...they just use and...

cunning people

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riani2009 life is take and give rule.. But, there is more if you could only to serve then you are better. We live in the world of agony.. the more we give actually the more we earn. Handling cunning people is simple ignore them. If you want to serve them, serve them...

11 Oct 09

My Son Doesn't want to eat at all, What should I do?

magistical99 @magistical99 (34) • Indonesia 8 Oct 09

I have 1 year old son whose usually so easy to take care of. He loves to eat, play and always cheerfull. But than last week, he got fever. then the doctor said, he should got medicine every 4 hours. And yes, his fever is gone...

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riani2009 I have that experience last month. My son got very traumatic with the spoon. But, I tried to overcome the problem by giving the food without the spoon. Give him cookies, bread, fruits, etc. Later after two weeks, I gave him food using the spoon but I gave it...

8 Oct 09

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Do you agree on "Teacher-student Love Relationship"? Your Opinions?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 5 Oct 09

You may have heard of such a situation: a girl is truly in love with her teacher though most people think it as a crush. Yes, nowadays, there are some students who are falling in love with their teachers. So, what is your opinion...

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riani2009 This happen to me. In fact I am a teacher and my student is a man. He likes me but I pretend there is nothing wrong. So, I ignore him. But, I incidentally see him when he stares at me and find myself in agony. Anyway, his age is older than me. But, I think...

7 Oct 09