rinfour

@rinfour (250)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Is it easier to communicate now?

fannitia @fannitia (2167) • Bulgaria 9 Jan 11

Is it easier to communicate with each other now, when we have mobile phones and internet? A good friend of mine is so busy that she even don't answer her phone and the last time we met we settled our meeting with emails. My...

communication

internet

mobilr phones

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rinfour Hi! I think that it is easier to send MESSAGES now compared to the past. However, I believe that communication is all about sending a message, understanding what it means, and getting a reply. These days, people often have misunderstandings because of...

10 Jan 11

Do You Feel Shy...?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 29 Nov 10

Hey friend i'm curious to know what you do.. When you and your parents together see the movie at home and in many movie there are some vulgar scenes or hot scenes comes in the midst of the movie then what is your reaction means...

movies

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rinfour I do feel shy at times, when there are sensitive scenes in the movie. However, my family and I have been pretty open regarding the matter so I don't feel the unease that many others do.

21 Dec 10

Do you keep messages in your phone inbox?

jingbautista @jingbautista (2456) • Philippines 25 Nov 10

I have this friend of mine who always keep on sending text messages which causes my phone memory box full. All her forwarded text i like and i don't like deleting it. But,I cannot accept incoming text anymore due to phone memory...

text

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rinfour I used to save messages in my inbox. I would save random texts from my friends, changes in my class schedule forwarded by our president, or even quotes. It was fun reading the randomness of my friends when I'm waiting in line or stuck in traffic so I never...

26 Nov 10

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How do you appeal to your Staff when you are owing them Salary

segungb @segungb (169) • Nigeria 25 Nov 10

I am the Director of my establishment and we are owing the staff October salary while the November salary is due next week. How do you advise me to appeal to them. We have a huge outstanding with our clients.

owing your staff

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rinfour Well, I have been in this kind of situation with my boss. He was always delayed with our salaries but he didn't give us any explanations. I think your employees would really appreciate it if you were open with them regarding the situation. Just saying "sorry,...

25 Nov 10

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most men likes long hair for their girls?

Budettesky @Budettesky (95) • Philippines 25 Nov 10

some of the girls in my family and my girlfriends have long straight hair. sometimes when we plan to have a hair cut on the next day, my friends will call saying, they cancelled to cut their hairs because their man says no. I...

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rinfour Well, my brother would always scold us if my sister and I would cut our hair short. He wants us to have long, straight hair. When I had a perm, he went nuts. LOL He feels that when we have long hair it gives us a more feminine look. But when his wife cut...

25 Nov 10

do you like joining kriskringle at christmas seasons?

chiumee @chiumee (850) • Philippines 25 Nov 10

Christmas is fast approaching. do you ever like or unlike joining kriskringles among your work mates or classmates? i have some occasions i joined. but for some reasons some time few years ago, i had to exclude myself from that. i...

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rinfour When I was perhaps in first grade, I was happy to join in. But after the whole not getting anything fiasco, I have hated it with all my heart. LOL kidding aside, I was never a fan of this shenanigans because I never seem to get what I want. We would have...

25 Nov 10

What is your opinion about having a lesbian friend?

cassije74 @cassije74 (247) • Philippines 23 Nov 10

I try to treat all my friends equally but then it seems i had a hard time and uncomfortable having a lesbian friend... what is your idea if you have them?

hard time

lesbian friend

uncomfortable

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rinfour I have a couple of lesbian friends, and I treat them as I would my straight friends. They are quite fun to hang around with because I can break free from the girlish squeals of some of my friends; I can be the tomboy I was in grade school and they wouldn't...

25 Nov 10

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No joke...Woman are very strange

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 25 Nov 10

I have a story to tell... When i just came to australia, i met a girl that i like very much, she is funny and talkative ( which is good for me as sometimes i feel awkward when there is no conversation) anyways, we went out on our...

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rinfour Well, there are times when a girl has to listen to her friends. But she ultimately has to make the decision for herself. Perhaps she found that you were incompatible with each other and that's why she's keeping away. And her saying that she's staying away from...

25 Nov 10

How often do you hug your siblings?

chuyins123 @chuyins123 (2112) • Philippines 25 Nov 10

I have a sister who have just arrived last night from Vancouver. When she arrived, well she was so excited to see her husband and I really do understand her... So, I just find my place to where her belongings are situated, but she...

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rinfour Wow, that's sweet. My siblings and I do not hug, but we are still very close. We are not the type of family to express our emotions anyway. However we share thoughts and views freely without fear of being judged or cast out. : )

25 Nov 10

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my mom share info about my personal life with her friend

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 18 Nov 10

I just don't like my mom chitchat about my personal life, or even tell her friend about my relationship with my ex -girlfriend over the phone. Sometimes, when I pass by her room, the door was wide open, and I can overheard she was...

mom

personal life

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rinfour This also happened to me when I was MUCH younger. when i was in elementary I told my mom that I had a crush on a boy in my class, she babbled to EVERYBODY; my family, her friends, and even my siblings' friends! Almost 2 decades after, my cousins still tease me...

19 Nov 10

If you're not condemning him, then you're taking his side.

megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 18 Nov 10

This attitude with certain people just annoys me. No, I'm not taking your side or the side of the other person, I'm staying out of it. It irritates me that a person thinks that you are taking the other side of the argument, just...

neutral

not taking sides

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rinfour I agree, being neutral is sometimes the best way to approach a problem especially when it comes to friends and/or family. My friends actually know that i hate bashing people, especially friends so they know better than to expect me to take their side in...

19 Nov 10

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So hows the Harry potter and the deathly hollows first movie

peterpancomplex @peterpancomplex (438) • Philippines 18 Nov 10

no spoiler, just tell me your experience...im such a loser i haven't watched the movie yet...ohmygoodness i really want to watch it. is it that amzing? i hope i wont be disappointed, im anticipating too much.

hp7

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rinfour I was able to watch it without incident this afternoon. There were no lines because it was too early (all the people were at work or in school). Well, chances are you will be disappointed IF you anticipate it too much. Needless to say, the book is still WAY...

19 Nov 10

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Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows part 1

Jananipriya @Jananipriya (4) • United States 18 Nov 10

The part 1 of the film ends at the stage where the trio of Harry, Ron and Hermione Have found most of the horcrux and are ready to return to hog warts to find the diadem of ravenclaw, Harry knows that Lord Voldermort is also on...

fantasy

film

harry potter

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rinfour I don't think that the split was uneven. I just feel that greater detail would be put on the battle between Lord Voldemort. There wasn't much emphasis on fighting in the first part, but it would definitely be the focal point in the next and final installment....

19 Nov 10

Harry Potter and Deathly Hallow ( Now Showing)

syoti20 @syoti20 (5292) • Philippines 19 Nov 10

November 18, 2010 is the official showing of Harry Potter. I didn't watch it. I was a bit lazy to fall in line. Maybe I will be watching on the second week. I guess by that time Fall in line a little short. Did you already watch...

harry potter

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rinfour I was able to watch it, there was NO LINE in the cinema earlier. I guess because it is the first screening for the day and it is a weekday. :) I just wish they will show the two films a bit closer to each other. It was 2hours and 30minutes long BUT it felt...

19 Nov 10

meaningful xmas

gelay07 @gelay07 (588) • Philippines 19 Nov 10

christmas is once again be celebrated this year. few weeks from now it will already be xmas. i came from a prayer assembly and the topic was about how to make this coming christmas meaningful. a lot were discussed and in our...

share your blessings

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rinfour My family usually gives out our old clothes for the year to the needy. Along with that, we give them canned goods and noodles. Christmas is all about giving and sharing the blessings we received. But we also have to do this with an open heart and mind,...

19 Nov 10

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Is it possible for Science and Religion to coexist?

Andyvil @Andyvil (793) • Philippines 18 Nov 10

I have been watching a lot of documentaries about science and religion and each time I dig deeper I can't help but realize but think about the truth about my religious beliefs. Although I am still a firm believer that there is a...

religion

science

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rinfour I think that Science and religion can co-exist IF (and that is a giant if) we accept and RESPECT differences. I think that if we just let people believe what they want to believe and not push our opinions on them, then there will be peace (at least between...

19 Nov 10

Do you always maintain a playlist for songs or play random?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 18 Nov 10

I always maintain a playlist in my PC and in my laptop. It gives me good choice of sings and makes me to listen to the ones i love a lot. But in my mobile and in my mp3 player i play songs in random as they are totally new songs...

songs

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rinfour It really depends on my mood, sometimes I like to listen in random others I listen with a playlist. However most of the time I listen randomly because the songs on my cellphone are so limited. I do not sing well, but music is also my favorite. it really...

18 Nov 10

Should the husband bring most of the money in the family?

yna410 @yna410 (429) • Philippines 17 Nov 10

Starting a family is truly difficult. Just imagine all the responsibilities that come along with it. The couple has their own roles in building the family of their dreams. It's important that they make sure they provide what their...

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rinfour I think for a marriage to survive these tough times, biases and social misconceptions should be eliminated. It is time for the men to stop putting their egos first and start co-supporting their family with their spouse. I know for a fact that many men are ok...

17 Nov 10

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