savengt

@savengt (89)

Singapore • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Failing to Plan is Planning to Fail.

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Frustraited with hubby & dishwasher.

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 22 Jan 09

My hubby works long hours but he also only works 3-4 days a week. On his days off he won't do much of anything unless it's an absolute necessity. Granted I'm not the most domestic but YEASH! I've got a huge list of things I...

dish

dishwasher

winter

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savengt Well, i see a communication issue here, talk to your husband and let him understand your frustrastion. Work something out that both of you can have some time together to relax.

22 Jan 09

Love is a Double Edged Sword

rosdimy @rosdimy (3926) • Malaysia 22 Jan 09

I am of the opinion that love is a double edged sword. On one side it cuts though life with ease, since love can motivate people to excel in the things that they do. In one case a man succeeded in life because the love he chose...

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savengt Love is a single edged sword. If you choose the right love in your life, it add wings to your life and you excel with flight. If you choose the wrong love in your life, you try to sharpen it along the way.

22 Jan 09

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Take em, or Leave em?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 22 Jan 09

I am thinking of joining a volleyball team that meets up every Monday night from 7-9pm. This is very exciting for me! I haven't had much of a life since my twins have been born, don't really have a lot of people I socialize with...

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savengt With Children, it is difficult to time anymore. Even if there is time, you might want to spend it with your Husband. Well, if the volleyball team can help to make your life more healthy, then yes, employ a babysitter, keep them safe at home. make sure you...

22 Jan 09

What did you do when someone kept interrupting?

rosdimy @rosdimy (3926) • Malaysia 18 Jan 09

Many of us have experienced incidents where someone keeps butting in when it was our turn to talk. Annoying, was not it? My reaction depended on who my listeners were, and the occasion we were in. My alternatives were stop...

continue

ninja

stop

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savengt I guess we can be abit more patient and let the interruptor continue for a short while before interupting him and continue with what you want to say. It can be done in a polite and tactful way without offending anyone.

22 Jan 09

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What's age got to do with this?

qaseh56 @qaseh56 (25) • Malaysia 18 Jan 09

A few weeks ago, i tried to match one of my girlfriend to one of my male friend. After having a long conversation on the phone with my male friend about this girl, he finally pop up a question. He asked me about the girl age. So,...

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savengt He has his own preference. What you can do is to talk to him and understand why?

22 Jan 09

How many years was your longest relationship?

rieru08 @rieru08 (73) • Philippines 22 Jan 09

My sister had an 8-year old relationship. They had lived together and the only thing that lacks them is marriage. Our whole family had accepted his man completely. I was even yearning for being the bridesmaid already.But, so...

investment

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savengt Depends on both parties' committement and love, most importantly the common faith in Christ. I was with my wife for 11 years before we get married. Now happily waiting for our second baby in Sept!

22 Jan 09

Would you accept or would you not?

lovesummer @lovesummer (1162) • Malaysia 22 Jan 09

In such a situation where you met a girl/guy that you seemed to click and like each other but you were not sure if you want a relationship. This guy/girl is having a very disastrous disease like for example says she/he has some...

complicated relationship

love

promise

relationship

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savengt Let's talk about only going steady stage. If both of you have started in a relationship before knowing of the illness, then both should faced the illness battle together till the end as faithful partner to each other however even so, either party has the...

22 Jan 09

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My hubby's ex wife is running my life and I"m tired of it!

Bella75 @nixxi76 (3191) • Canada 21 Jan 09

I feel that my hubby's old life is catching up with him. I've had all I can take of baggage from his ex wife and their old marriage. When they divorced, she told him that she was not going to let him ever be happy and stop him by...

child maintanence

child support payments

family

hubby

unemployment

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savengt Deal with it with your hubby, let your hubby know that you are his wise choice.

22 Jan 09

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I Love You

bestie @bestie (3272) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

1.Someone tells you they love you, you say. 2.If you won a lot of money on the lottery, what would you buy first? 3.Do you miss anyone? 4.Who was driving the last time you were in a car? 5.Do you like your bed? 6.Will this...

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savengt 1. It will be my wife 2. Buy a car for my wife and a electric car for my baby, then keep the rest for investment. 3. Most of the time, my wife and baby. 4. I. 5. Yes, Simmons Pocketed Spring( Backcare) 6. Yes, A positive mindset is important. 7. Yes, Im...

22 Jan 09

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How long did you date before you got married?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 21 Jan 09

I met my husband in June of 2000, and got engaged around November of the same year. We didn't get married until August of 2002. We probably could have gotten married sooner, but I wanted to convert over to my husband's...

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savengt I dated my wife for 11 years since 09 Nov 1995 and got married on 11 Nov 2006. We got married in Church and went for Pre-marital counselling a year before the wedding. We got married at 27. I think it doesnt matter how long you date before you settle...

22 Jan 09

Staying together for the child's sake?

maple_kisses @maple_kisses (2156) • Philippines 19 Jan 09

[b][i]Now my baby's dad has been in contact with me regularly, asking about the baby, forcing child support. I know I should be angry with him for abandoning us but then again I've always been a forgiving person. Besides, no...

child support

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savengt Not only for the baby sake, but for your sake! You can seek for a happy family by sorting things out with your husband. There is no mention of divore here so i guess it is just him going ahead with what he thinks is right without your total agreement. Perhap...

20 Jan 09

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When we are away the boys will gossip.

CRIVAS @CRIVAS (1815) • Canada 18 Jan 09

Okay so I recently found out from my husband that when he is working, him and the boys talk about a lot of stuff, our relationship included. It got me thinking, Most guys I know don't like it when a women talkes to her friends...

boys

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savengt It is ok to talk about your partner but definitely not too personal or private issues. Nobody should know your spouse in depth as you do, like wise, nobody other than your spouse should know about your private life. Why do you need to share you private life...

19 Jan 09

Is Friendship Necessary For A Lasting Relationship?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 18 Jan 09

I wrote a poem over a year ago and it means a lot to me. It is exactly how I feel about finding that perfect someone in my life. I want someone that I can be friends with. I think that is the basis for having a long, lasting...

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savengt All relationship started off with friendship. Your best friend is always your spouses rightfully if you are married. Well maybe for your case, your other half is not too responsible and faithful and thus it will be difficult for him to be anyone's best...

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Finding the right combination in a mate... Is this possible?

tjades @tjades (3591) • Jamaica 18 Jan 09

I was talking to a guy I met recently who says that he just cant seem to find a woman with the three features that he'd like his wife to have. These are: * A beautiful character * Well shaped legs and to be honest I cant...

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savengt Yes, we all have our dream partner but most of the time, you have to change your criteria either because they are not practical or they became unimportant as you grow in maturity. A beautiful heart/character covers everything, you will look at your partner...

19 Jan 09

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Who gives in first?

Nhey16 @Nhey16 (2518) • Philippines 15 Jan 09

Just recently my guy and I had arguments which ended in fighting. Well, I do know that in every relationship, arguments and fighting are just normal, but whenever you have this fight with your love one, who usually gives in first,...

arguments

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savengt Cool down first and talk over with your partner over the issue again, make it a habit/agreement between you and your partner to not let the fight drag for more than a day and that both of you would sit down without blowing off and talk things out calmly. Seek...

16 Jan 09

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Would you tell your spouse

trisha_nava82 @trisha_nava82 (1379) • United States 15 Jan 09

Right away, if a sibling or a friend, made a pass at you. I know I would, that is just something that I could not keep from my husband. I believe if he had found out and I didn't tell him then he would think differently. I...

siblings

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savengt Yes, Do not keep anything between you and your spouse.

16 Jan 09

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I met my boyfriend's ex yesterday...:-//

blackeyedpeas @blackeyedpeas (445) • India 2 Jan 09

My boyfriend was at old friends reunion yesterday and his ex was also there. They shared a good relationship before and now they are good friends. Yesterday i got a chance to meet her and her little sister. They both were good to...

jealous

little sister

love

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savengt Actually meeting with his ex is really a torture. He should be on your side and never go for such reunion. Wait for the relationship to mature between both of you.

2 Jan 09

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What advice would you give someone on how to BE A GOOD MOTHER IN LAW?

hopeful327 @hopeful327 (189) • United States 28 Dec 08

Let's share! What are some tips to help someone be a good mother in law? My first tip is to never, ever talk about her behind her back, no matter how bad you think she is. Also treat her like a princess!

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savengt Keep out of your son/daughter-in law's matter/household.

29 Dec 08

stag party question

magicslate @magicslate (373) • Philippines 29 Dec 08

at what point would you say that a groom-to-be has gone too far with a stripper at his stag party?

stag party

stripper

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savengt In the first place, he should even be at a stag party with a stripper! Going to a stag party shows how reluntant he is to let go of commitment to the coming marriage.

29 Dec 08

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Is it right for husband to take your Christmas money (gift) to use for bills???

hopeful327 @hopeful327 (189) • United States 29 Dec 08

I have a friend who got 100$ as a Christmas gift from her MIL - her dh got 100$ too - he took her money to use to pay towards bills and food. She wanted to use it for new shoes, etc. Do you think that's right???????

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savengt Well, as a couple, it is good to share whatever you have together. If the household is lacking in cash to support the bills and household needs, then the money should go to settling all these first. Shoe are luxury to enjoy when there is spare...

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