seriousnuts

@seriousnuts (508)

Philippines • Age 39

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staying away from tooo negative people

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 18 Apr 13

If there is one thing i would change this year that would be staying away from negative people... in where i am right now, i am surrounded by people who always complain they don't have money - i don't have too but sometimes...

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seriousnuts I too feel the same way as you do. Constantly complaining only exudes a negative aura. Negativity affects other people's moods. When people around me say negative things, I always end up feeling drained and down. Staying away completely from complaining...

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How does stress affect you?

gloryacam @gloryacam (5540) • Philippines 1 Oct 12

My friend was texting me at 4 in the morning (well at least that's what the time stamp says) saying she was still up at that time and that's it's probably because she's stressed out at work. I think that stress is making her lack...

coping

stress

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seriousnuts I think I'm quite the opposite. Whenever I'm stressed, I don't feel like eating at all. There was this time when I couldn't even swallow the food properly and felt so nauseated because of too much stress. Whenever I feel stressed, I would usually...

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Almost 30 - Without a Job

penrockerchic @penrockerchic (1903) • Philippines 20 Sep 12

Can you see yourself at the age of 30 and still without a job? How would you feel? I have these two not so close friends/ acquaintances who are in such a situation. One is almost 30 while the other is a little over 30 years...

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seriousnuts I know a lot of people who are just like them. Many of them are rich, some are just waiting to receive their inheritance. These people lack the drive in life because they already have everything they need and want. But I think that thinking that way is...

25 Sep 12

Competing in the "Miss Universe" Competition...

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 22 Sep 12

If you were offered a spot in the "Miss Universe" competition would you want to compete? Myself I wouldn't. I'm a pretty shy person and I wouldn't feel comfortable walking around on stage knowing that everyone was watching me and...

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seriousnuts I am also a pretty shy person so just like you, I wouldn't want to join the competition. I don't think I would want that kind of attention. Receiving a compliment about my beauty from my significant other is the only thing I needed. Each time he praises me, I...

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stop your sad music please. . .

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 24 Sep 12

My office mate is playing her laptop’s music softly. Suddenly, it was a very lonely song, that I cannot help but to request politely for a change of music. Thus now, she let me play my own music. And so , I played...

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seriousnuts Sad music is okay with me but I prefer to listen to them at night. It feels weird to listen to sad tunes during the day and it would only make me feel very sleepy. I like to listen to energetic songs too! Makes me happy and awake.

24 Sep 12

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Groupmates won't help at all!

tecchigurl @tecchigurl (672) • Philippines 18 Sep 12

This is really annoying me. I already gave ideas. Started the paper assigned. All I'm asking is some cooperation! We are nine in the whole group and I am not the leader. Seriously?! I know it's just another subject for them but I...

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seriousnuts That is the reason why I disliked group projects so much. I admit I don't go well with teamwork and it's really hard to encourage everyone to participate. People just have different priorities. It's even harder to get everyone to sit together and properly...

18 Sep 12

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So lucky to have found true friends in the Office...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 15 Sep 12

I know it is quite common to make friends at the workplace... but we can never be sure if they are to be a true friend to us, lest we are always guarded of what to expect and how to react with them... we declare most of those we...

bestfriends

true friends

workmates

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seriousnuts Great to hear that! It is always more motivating and enjoyable to go to the workplace if you have friends there. I dislike the idea about the workplace as a site of competition where people step on each other's toe just to get on top of the corporate ladder....

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Instant Millionaire

gloryacam @gloryacam (5540) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Has the thought of winning the lottery ever lured you into betting? Recently, two people hit the jackpot in our country. It was a whopping win because no one has won the prize for a while. I joined my officemates in buying...

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seriousnuts My father loves the lottery. I don't play much, but sometimes, I would also suggest some numbers to him before he goes to the Lotto outlet. I've never won. My father did win a few times, but only the small prizes. I guess it's not that bad to bet from time to...

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no nanny again!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Yes, i have no nanny again. sometimes you just cannot understand people. I am quite a very good person i believe.. i do not abuse and i even treat them like my own sister! Last Saturday night, we even went to a birthday party...

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seriousnuts How rude of her. I've heard several cases like this where the nanny would just ask a few days of vacation and would never come back. I'm sure that you are a very good employer, it's just that the nanny is too irresponsible to worry about your...

11 Sep 12

why i dont dream?

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 9 Sep 12

sometimes when group of friends start talking, there are a lot of subject brought out. some are fun and easy to interact with. but there is a subject that i really cant join in. its about dreams. once they start to talk about...

dream

remember

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seriousnuts We all have dreams when we sleep, but not all of us could remember them. You would remember your dream depending on the time you wake up. If you wake up during a deep stage of sleep (a stage when dreams occur), then you would remember the dream. I also seldom...

9 Sep 12

Going out in Public with Soaking Wet Hair

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 6 Sep 12

At the mall today I was standing behind to girls in line at Tim Horton's and they were talking really snotty to each other about people that were walking by. There was a lady that walked by with really wet hair and these girls...

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seriousnuts NO, I don't think it's bad to go out in public with wet hair, especially in a place such as the mall. I have long hair and it takes time to dry it after shower, so it's not uncommon for me to go out with wet hair. I don't like using a blower and would prefer...

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helping people out

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

for some reasons i still could not help myself.. i still give even tho i am nearly left with nothing. and i know hubby will get mad at me for this again. my sister-in-law is pregnant right now and a few more months and she will...

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seriousnuts Hi jazel_juan. You are a good sister to your brother. I understand that helping each other is part of our culture. Even though a sibling has already married, our duties as their his/her family does not end there. My father had been in a similar situation. He...

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Still can't find the perfect match

enelym001 @enelym001 (8322) • Philippines 28 Aug 12

If you are wondering, well I didn’t get any boyfriend yet. Not even finished with the book I was talking about on my previous discussion... I’m not in a hurry now. I’m taking my time and enjoying life being...

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seriousnuts Wow, looks like you have a lot of admirers! Anyway, I strongly agree with you. There's no need to rush when it comes to love. I encounter so many people who enter into relationships not because of love but out of desperation. You are wise to choose...

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What is on insane person's mind?

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 8 Jul 12

I have seen insane people walking around in my neighbourhood and I am curious to know what is on their mind? Have any one of you have mental illness, I think depression, schizophrenia and bipolar disorder cannot be compared to...

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seriousnuts No, I don't have a mental illness, but I've talked to people who have been struck by these illnesses. They seem to be better than I have imagined and you can still talk to them just like normal people. Some of them are even highly intelligent. Others even have...

4 Sep 12

A Female Stranger Walks by with a Red Blotch on her White Pants....

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 2 Sep 12

Today I observed a woman in the mall that I felt bad for, as she was walking around with a huge red stain on her WHITE pants. You could clearly tell by the look on her face that she was aware that her monthly friend had made an...

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seriousnuts Poor lady, I also feel bad for her. I had been on similar situations a few times before. I used to wear an all-white uniform during my school days, so whenever my monthly friend came unexpectedly, it would create an obvious red blotch on my skirt. Luckily,...

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This grocer is selling their flood-soaked goods

cheerfulnuts @cheerfulnuts (604) • Philippines 2 Sep 12

This grocery store is located at the basement of a building a few blocks from my home. During the monsoon rains that had flooded Manila a few weeks ago, the entire store was submerged in water. After the floods, the store tried to...

contaminated food

flood in the philippines

grocery store

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seriousnuts This is really disgusting. I know that store and I try my best to warn as many people as I can against buying goods there. You are right, their actions should be reported to the authorities.

3 Sep 12

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Bag addicts, anyone?

Jenny1015 @jenny1015 (13366) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

Typically as a girl, shopping handbags is one thing that excites me. I used to buy about 3-4 bags in a year, regardless of the brand, just as long as I like the design and color and is within my budget. How many bags do you buy in...

shopping

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seriousnuts My current bag is a bit expensive and I love it so much. I don't think I would be replacing it anytime soon. I don't own a lot of bags but I do enjoy window shopping for them. For me, brand isn't important, but I make sure the bag should be durable enough to...

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and she said, the rapture is coming

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 31 Aug 12

Last night we heard the news of the earthquake hitting some parts of our country and honestly it was a scary thought. That was around midnight when i was still watching the news and then a friend texted me and saying..the...

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seriousnuts It's really scary to hear about some calamities taking place in different parts of the world. Recently, our country was hit by heavy rains and floods, and now, the earthquake. People are entitled to their own beliefs, but I think your friend picked out the...

1 Sep 12

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how do you view this?

jobfindonline @jobfindonline (1744) 31 Aug 12

you have a new thing and your friends noticed it. they mistakenly gave a comment that someone gave it to you? how would your feel or react? let's say your new thing is quite expensive and you bought it for yourself.. would you...

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seriousnuts Hi jobfindonline. You have a point for feeling that way. If I were in your position, I might feel insulted depending on the way they commented. If they say it was from a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend, they might mean it positively because just like what...

31 Aug 12

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These children are so sweet!

cheerfulnuts @cheerfulnuts (604) • Philippines 31 Aug 12

I was channel surfing when I saw an interview with a Taiwanese couple who are both celebrities. They teach their children the importance of gratitude, so they make it a habit to say "thank you" to each other. The mother shared...

children of celebrities

nice children

nice kids

parenting

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seriousnuts Hi cheerfulnuts. Wow, those children are really sweet. Their parents surely did a great job on raising their kids.

31 Aug 12

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