skyejade

@skyejade (16)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Should we smile even when we are sad?

getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 3 Oct 10

Hello, Sometimes everything seems so funny and comforting that we become happy at once. But there are times when everything seems to go against us. You really can't be happy all the time. Some people prefer to impose happiness to...

sadness

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skyejade smiling when we are sad is just a compensation of feeling down. some people are consciously trying to forget the bad feelings in order to divert their attention .Also, acting you're happy despite of being sad is a way of lessening burden in your part..

5 Oct 10

Have you ever really been in love?

zionsphere @zionsphere (673) • United States 4 Sep 10

How did you know it was love? When I first knew I was in love, it was because I suddenly became aware that I cared more about him being happy, than about him being with me. I actually tried to fix him up with his crush!...

love

true love

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skyejade you will know it is love if you always wanted to be with that person even you don't like him/her anymore. It is a mixed feeling of happiness and satisfaction/contented being with someone you love.

5 Sep 10

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how to find a good job?

skyejade @skyejade (16) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

One of my friends ask me "Is the course we've taken is really for us?". I don't know what to answer to her question but even we got a college degree we can't exactly say we will have a good job. So please give me your opinion How...

job

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this is not the only country that had failed Hostage crisis

LaadieGerald @LaadieGerald (138) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

THere are other people out there saying that this is happening accross the world. so, i think it's not right for them to judge us so much about this incident. What i don't understand is that while we are mourning with the...

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skyejade I agree with your opinion but maybe our government officials should really respond for this, not only our President will act but ALL the government officials e.g., senators and congressmen especially to those newly elected officials who promised to respond in...

26 Aug 10

How can I help my friend open up?

jonnifc @jonnifc (1017) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

I have a friend who is 33 years old and has never had a boyfriend. She studied in an all-girls school all her life except in college, where we met. She loves reading novels so much that her books are her "babies". She works but...

help my friend to lighten up

reading novels

single

snob

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skyejade There are many ways to be approachable I suggest that you give her an online friend e.g. chatmate so she can slowly be exposed to the outside world since you have to increase your friend's interaction with others. Eventually you have to involve her socially ,...

26 Aug 10

About the philippines' hostage crisis issue

sirzhang @sirzhang (229) • China 25 Aug 10

I am so sorrow about the victims. Maybe only meeting death face to face, we can feel shocked and scared. I have been always thinking if i were trapped in such an terrible situation. what should i do? Such as earthquake, flood or...

hostage

victim

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skyejade In my opinion, first you to do is PRAY to God to guide you and help you to be safe in such situation. Then, TRY TO CALM DOWN and OBSERVE what is happening. For natural calamities, there is so many things you can do depending on the situation such earthquake...

25 Aug 10

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Do you paste any decoration onto your cell phone?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 25 Aug 10

It's a bad experience for me to paste the decoration onto my cell phone, I spent some time to paste something to my back of my cell phone, after I did, I found it's not good looking, so I decided to tear it from my cell phone cap,...

cell phone

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skyejade I've never tried putting decorations on my cellphone. I just think that this will just look good on the first few days or weeks and eventually it will bored me of looking those decorations so I chose not to try putting something on my cellphone.

25 Aug 10

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Do you think HISTORY has any value?

bluemoonpavilion @bluemoonpavilion (4658) • Singapore 24 Aug 10

We can view events from the past and saw the many mistakes that men made, and yet sometimes we see the same things being repeated and repeated again. Especially for nations who have a long history and have witnessed many events...

history

lessons learnt

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skyejade Yes, because history made the future. it's all about history that we learn something new , enhance things , and made difference to our lives.

25 Aug 10

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i liked it, but why do i feel guilty?

cuttyrish @cuttyrish (2667) • United States 25 Apr 09

i loved that item, so i bougt it...then why do i feel guilty..... have your bought anything that you liked, but felt guilty afterwards? you went to a store, and saw that your want to get that thing that you like, but by the...

guilty

happiness

shopping

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skyejade yeah, i encountered this situation a lot.Specially when I'm hungry and i want to buy all the food on the counter but when i bought those food and ate the half it , i feel guilty why i'm buying those food . also, i had an experienced when buy something not...

26 Apr 09

is money more important?

iamcapricorn @iamcapricorn (338) • Philippines 26 Apr 09

I have this experience with a very close young relative, I called him to borrow some books for my son who is in college and have the same course as he had, he was already a graduate and all his books and other equipment where just...

money

people

relationship

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skyejade maybe money is important nowadays, specially we are experiencing global crisis. However, in your situation you can discuss it with your relative and ask him/her if you can just borrow those books for your son and return it later.

26 Apr 09

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Studying in fast food restaurants... you can concentrate?

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 23 Feb 09

I have seen this trend of going to the fast food restaurants to study since I was a student more than 10 years ago. And being curious as to why people prefer to study in a fast food restaurant, I too went to try it out once. I...

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skyejade same as you, i can't concentrate studying at fast food restaurants . its because there's a lot of distractions in that place , i'm just wasting my time if spent a night studying there.

23 Feb 09

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is it not too late to continue studying considering i´m getting old?

bombshell @bombshell (11256) • Germany 22 Feb 09

somehow mylot is more encouraging site to continue my dreams to become a pharmacist.reading all topics about education is more enteresting.this year i´m getting old means i´m going to 36 yrs old and somehow i have a great...

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skyejade if i were you , i will continue to finish my studies. 36 is not really an old age. life starts at 40 so you have 4 years left to achieve that dream. in life, you have to have at least a goal that will fulfill yourself. so that you will not regret when your...

23 Feb 09

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Make up or Break up - When is it time to call it quits?

lordkhomar @lordkhomar (20) • United States 22 Feb 09

Question for everyone. Me and my girlfriend have been living together for a few years now. For the last year or so her daughter (16) has been impossible to live with. We are constantly fighting over her lack of parenting,...

break up

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skyejade you have to think again if you really love her. and if you don't love anymore, then go and pack up your things. There's a lot of women out there who will love you more and listen to you. Don't push your self to be with somebody who will never listen to you....

23 Feb 09

whats your motivation?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 22 Feb 09

when i get on mylot which i haven't in awhile it seems like i can't get motivated to do a lot of posting and i don't really know why honestly because sometimes it comes easy to me and then at other times it doesn't really come...

motivation

what

your

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skyejade my motivation in posting here is that i just want to talk online .. using my capacity to write .. also to have more friends and acquaintances.!

23 Feb 09