sophia18

@sophia18 (106)

China • Age 40

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How come people cut off their hair when something happens?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 8 Feb 11

I've got a friend recently cut off her very very long hair becauase she broke up with her boyfriend. It is a big change for her for sure. I never cut off my long hair because of anything. Is it kind of a way that people to...

cut off hair

long hair

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sophia18 Yeah,it happened to me before,too.I think people do this because it's a way to relieve themselves when something extremely bad happened,by changing their look they can tell themselves:"Everything will be OKay,all the bad things will go away,and I am not the...

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Eating Fast

emine08 @emine08 (1551) • Indonesia 22 Jan 11

my friend said that i am slow in eating something. when we ate together, my friend was always the first and she had to wait for me to finish my food. but now i always the first because my hubby is more slow than me in eating some...

eating

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sophia18 I eat very slow and my mom is always worrying that my meal may get cold before I finish it,especially it is winter now.However,I'm not in a hurry,why not enjoy the meal with leasure and comfort.It is said that eating slowly is good for your health,anyway.

23 Jan 11

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I am wondering should I leave her,I am really afraid of hurting her

auyuelin @auyuelin (231) • China 22 Jan 11

We are in the same colleage and we come from the same city,so we are close friends,she is the one I can share my secrets. One day night,she texted me that"Do you want to be my boyfriend",I think that is a joke and answered"Yes,I...

embaressed

hurt

joke

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sophia18 It's not easy but I'm afraid you have to tell her the truth as soon as possible.She might get hurt and you may lose your best friend for this reason.But if you don't tell her and you can't be sure that you will fall in love with her one day,this embarrassing...

23 Jan 11

What do you think of make up?

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 30 Dec 10

Light make-up, heavy make-up? Women as well as teenagers love to apply make-up whenever they go out. But it all depends on a heavy or light make-up. Seriously on my opinion, I simply dont like heavy make-up which makes a women...

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sophia18 I seldom wear make-ups, so do many women around me.As I can remember,I only make up two or three times,when I have to give a show on the stage.I think make-ups are harmful to the skin,no matter how good they clare to be.I'm more asured of my point of view...

1 Jan 11

What are the real causes of violence and bullying in school?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 29 Dec 10

During my grade school and high school days, I was scared to be bullied by my classmates. I have a lot of classmates who always bully around. I guess the main reason for violence and bullying in school is because this child came...

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sophia18 In my opinion,not only family but social environment will influence greatly on the kids.Children are always observing the world,if they take interests in some things they may imitate,no matter the things are good or bad.So,bullying parents,TV shows that full...

29 Dec 10

Female Gods. Is There Any Female Gods?

Secret @IntrovertShy (2780) • Marikina, Philippines 28 Dec 10

I just would like to know if there is any religion that has a female God from the past up to the present? It seems all of the Gods in each religion here on earth is always a male. I just would like to know if there is a female God...

female gods

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sophia18 There are many female gods in Greece and Athen mythology.Also in a Chinese ancient legend,human being was created by a female god.

29 Dec 10

What are you doing at the bookstore?

emma90 @emma90 (530) • Indonesia 28 Dec 10

If you go to bookstore, what are you doing. Only buy some book that you need or you also read some book there or you only just read a book and you didn't buy that book. If I go to bookstore, it the signal that I got a bad mood...

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sophia18 I seldom go to the book store now.Only when I have to buy a book would go there.But once I get there,I feel unwilling to leave.I would randomly pick up a book and read it for a whole morning or afternoon.So I usually end up buying more books than I have...

29 Dec 10

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Have you ever thought about going back to school?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 10

I never went to college. I had my first child while I was in high school. I dropped out and got my GED before the rest of my class graduated.. but never got around to going to college. I kept telling myself I'd go back when life...

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sophia18 I graduated from college several years ago.After I got my job,I realized that I had wasted my time in the college for I hadn't grasp most of the knowledge taught there so that I couldn't apply it to my work.How regreted I was.If I could go back to school,I...

29 Dec 10

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Does anyone have time to read anymore?

oXAquaXo @oXAquaXo (607) • United States 28 Dec 10

Hey everyone! I'm in high school now, taking 6 AP classes, so I'm under a lot of pressure from my academic life. Along with that, I have tennis lessons, piano, college applications, SAT prep, art classes, various competitions,...

fun

read

time

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sophia18 I hardly read now.It's not because that I don't have time,but that I can't concentrate on it.Whenever I open a book my mind will stray away,I think that's much worse than not having enough time to read.

29 Dec 10

In which area are you good..singing. speaking or writing ?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 25 Dec 10

We often meet people with some talent and talent varies from person to person.Some are good speaker but poor witers, some are good writeres but poor speakers and some are good singers but not good either in speaking or in...

good luck

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sophia18 I am not good at any of the three,especially speaking.I find it hard to express myself clearly and appropriately,that's why sometimes I was misunderstood by others.So I admire those good speakers most,because they seem to talk, convince, persuade so easily and...

26 Dec 10

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Is appearance deceptive in many cases..?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 25 Dec 10

we meet people and it may not be possible to say whether other person is good or bad unless we move closely and study the person.Some who appear to be very nice are really crooks with some exceptions and similarly whose looks are...

good luck

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sophia18 I think I am the same with you.I often judge people by their looks,if the person looks beautiful,handsome,smart,kind or the like,I will be pleased to talk to him/her,even if he/she does something wrong,I will forgive him/her easily.However,it does not mean...

26 Dec 10

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which kind of movie do you like most..?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 25 Dec 10

Movies are of different kinds..action movies,romantic movies,social theme movies,war movies like that.Each kind is entertaing only otherwise we may not see movies at all.Each kind of movies gives importance to some aspect of...

good luck

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sophia18 I like almost all kinds of movies except horror movies,I don't want to frightened myself.

26 Dec 10

New Years Resolutions - 2011

benhilo @benhilo (871) • Tripoli, Libya 24 Dec 10

With one week left in this year, I have started to look towards the next. Have you? Have you made any resolutions yet? Mine are to quit smoking, diet and exercise more. Also, get a better job. How about you? What are your...

resolutions

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sophia18 Do better in my work,learn to cook, knit and such things,find some way to make more money,exercise....I want to do so many things,but all I want is to be a better woman,although I am pretty good now,hehehe.

25 Dec 10

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When the mind changes the world changes...

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 23 Dec 10

The God in His wisdom has favoured us with the faculty of thinking which are not available to animals and birds.The brain has the faculty of thinking.The happiness or unhappiness is in the mind only and in no other organ of the...

good luck

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sophia18 I agree.Sometimes it is hard to change our life,not to say changing the world.But we do can change our mind.If we look at the matter from another aspect, it might be quite different from it was before.Therefore,no matter how poor a condition we are in, we...

24 Dec 10

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who plays a more important role in bringing up children.....?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 23 Dec 10

After marriage when the couple beget children both the parents feel very happy and both feel responsible in bringing up the childen.The mother takes intensive care in the infant stage and as the child grows both become responsible...

good luck

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sophia18 Though they play different roles,both of them are very important in children's education.In my family,for example, my mom takes care of us and looks after our needs, therefore we feel more infinitely to our mom. However,whenever we have any trouble,we think of...

24 Dec 10

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In your opinion Printed Books vs EBooks Which is better and why?

singup @singup (666) • Malaysia 23 Dec 10

Which is better and why?

in your opinion printed books vs ebooks which is b

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sophia18 I prefer printed books because it's very convenient to take notes, on the other hand,EBooks are harmful to your eyes.

24 Dec 10

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Dreams are reflection of our thinking !!!! is it !!!!

Jotomy @Jotomy (6322) • India 22 Dec 10

Hi friends and members, Before i seldom used to dream, but of late i am getting dreams. But dreams are the same as i am doing and thinking what i do whole the day. When i go and see in front of the mirror i can see the tears...

dreams

reflection of our thoughts

thinking

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sophia18 In my country, we have an idiom which has the main idea like"if you think of something during the daytime, you will dream of it at night."That's to say,your dreams reflect your thought.It is indeed.whenever I am worried about something and keep thinking about...

22 Dec 10

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How do you get ideas for posting discussions in mylot.....?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 20 Dec 10

One should get ideas before starting any work and if you do not have definite idea it will end in a mess.So also when you want to start a discussion in mylot you should start with some definite idea.There are many sources to get...

good luck

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sophia18 I only started several discussions and almost all of them came from my life.I never think hardly about what discussion to post,but when I am working,having dinner,doing housework,watching TV,chatting with people around me,that is,just living my life as usual,...

22 Dec 10

Do you set high goals...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 21 Dec 10

whenever there is some work to be done or something to be achieved we set some target or goal and try to reach it.For some people targets are fixed by others like in jobs.For mamy either in personal life or in their field of work...

good luck

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sophia18 Usually I don't have a target in my personal life,but if sometimes I do have something to achieve,I would set two targets for myself,i.e.at best I will......and at least I have to ......Then I will try my best to achieve the high target,if I can't achieve it...

22 Dec 10

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