takie23

@takie23 (142)

Age 44

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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He drinks, he smokes, he tries to kill himself.What can I do?

ladysilver @ladysilver (370) 6 Feb 12

My ex-boyfriend just finished his therapy after he tried to commit a suicide.Now he started drinking again and he smokes like a chimney.I still feel responsible for him, but I don't see how can I improve his life and help him...

blackmailing

love

relationship

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takie23 Your boyfriend is suffering from some kind of depression, a lot of youngsters are experiencing this nowadays,why don't you suggest to him to get some medical help? He probably locked away a lot of fears within during the period he was caring for you, and now...

7 Feb 12

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Advice About Anything

sacredcow @sacredcow (40) • United States 27 Oct 11

This may seem like a strange discussion/question, but does anyone have any pearls of wisdom or general advice or words to live by? Anything from what to do to get mustard stains out of a tablecloth to the meaning of life is...

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takie23 "People will treat you according to what you give out." I used to be frustrated thinking people are being mean, ignorant, rude, or disrespectful to me at times, before I realized it was what I've given out that gave some people to treat me in a bad way. I...

27 Oct 11

What do you think are the phrases we should avoid saying to ourselves?

enelym001 @enelym001 (8322) • Philippines 25 Oct 11

According to an article I read in yahoo there are phrases we should avoid using at work. Because saying such words are almost the same as throwing away your hopes and dreams, your goals in life, your promotion at work. Some of...

life

phrases

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takie23 The phrase would be; 'I can't do it.' or 'I don't have the ability to do it.' tell yourself either one of this and you're heading to failure. I do believe in positive thinking and the power of the mind a lot. If you are positive and determine, almost anything...

26 Oct 11

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If you could change one thing?

gjax57 @gjax57 (897) • United States 17 Oct 10

Hmmmmmmmm, I would want to say If I could change 1 thing it would be not to have gotten married so young. I wish I experienced life more before I made that leap into "forever" being with one person for the rest if my...

changes

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takie23 If I could change one thing it would be to have saved up more since I started working up until now, and acquired things bit by bit one by one until I am financially stable. In a sense, I want to give myself that opportunity of planning for myself to acquiring...

17 Oct 10

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your fear

huydiet71 @huydiet71 (87) • Thailand 17 Oct 10

hi mylotters each of us has a personal fear in our life. for me, I'm afraid of snakes, insects, and ghost... at once I think about these I have terrible fellings. and you? what do you fear, and why?

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takie23 I fear I would one day wake up and realise I have not been living.

17 Oct 10

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Do you buy stuff online / order it?

yogeshdhusa @yogeshdhusa (2236) • India 16 Oct 10

Daily I see TV add, where they show result . Like lose weight, reduce acne cream, I want to order it but afraid that it will be a cheat, if the product will be defective and not same as shown on TV. Have you tried it and satisfied...

online

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takie23 Depend on where and which website you're going to order from. I buy online sometimes especially on ebay if I am thinking of comparing price and get the best deal, and it was fine. I ordered, paid, and they sent the products. Everybody's happy.

17 Oct 10

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Why do people burst in anger sometimes?

jvculanagF @jvculanagF (66) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

It really bugs me a lot. I need help for this matter. I really don't understand people sometimes, because they easily get angry even the person he was talking calmly talking to him. What is your opinion on this matter?

anger

burst

calm

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takie23 I think 'anger' is one of our many human natures. Each individual have different level of it. Those who burst out in anger easily might be stressed and bottled up many things in his/her mind for so long, and no longer want to hold back. I personally think...

8 Oct 10

Who don't expect perfection?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 16 Sep 10

Perfectionism tends to have two components: a positive side, including things like setting high standards for themselves; and a negative side, which involves more deleterious factors, such as having doubts and concerns over...

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takie23 There are no perfect men in this world, only perfect intentions ~Pen Densham Perfectionist, most times, push people away simply because they can't bring themselves to the realization that NO ONE is perfect. Who don't expect perfection? MANY!, and the reason...

16 Sep 10

Should a man always pay for dinner when on a date with a woman?

asyria51 @asyria51 (2861) • United States 15 Sep 10

I have having a discussion about this at work today, and it seems that the younger the person the more likely they were to say that it doesnt matter who pays. Those who were part of the baby boomers, felt that it was proper for a...

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takie23 I would say when man pays for dinner it shows that he's responsible and know what's right.

16 Sep 10

must do marriage in our life?

sinaj292 @sinaj292 (602) • India 16 Sep 10

In my country marriage is considered to be as a great thing to do with our life... It is a necessary thing with our life....but in some other western countries there is no such importance to marriage....... why it is like...

life

marriage

must

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takie23 To me, I don't see marriage as something that must or must not be done, rather something of individual. If you've met someone you want to spend your life with, then get marry. If you've not met anybody and enjoy single life as it is, then it shouldn't be...

16 Sep 10

Why do people make fun of others when walking down the street?

sauravshrm @sauravshrm (239) • India 16 Sep 10

Why do people find the need to laugh at someone who's just minding their own business walking down the street? I'm talking about snickering, giving dirty looks, whispering and pointing to their friends to laugh too or making sure...

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takie23 I would say 'human beings are of different kinds', in life we will experience not only the nice ones, but also the bads. The best approach is to learn not to be effected by opinions or actions of others towards you. Not that we should all be ignorant or...

16 Sep 10

What is the standard of beautiful girl?

llbo1981 @llbo1981 (1237) • China 17 Jul 10

Many people like the beautiful girl.But i think most of them love the beautiful girl who have well looking face only.Usually,the well looking face girl may not have kind-hearted. So i think the beautiful girl not only contain...

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takie23 Depend on what kind of beauty we are talking about. Beauty from the inside, or just the outside. Of course, we can't pinpoint beautiful faces to have good heart, but at the same time, we can't also say they don't have good heart either. It just need to be two...

17 Jul 10

What would you like to do if you can travel in space ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 17 Jul 10

Five ,four,three,two,one,zero,Fire.......There goes the first rocket to the moon.It was a very excited experience to see the first spaceman land on the moon.I imagined that if it was me who can walk on the moon and jump...

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takie23 If I have an opportunity to travel in space, I would have to turn down the offer (sorry :P). I love seeing photos taken from space, they are stunning, but to go there for real?, I don't think I would. The idea is too scary. I wouldn't do it.

17 Jul 10

not easy to be a kindly man...

ferry2046 @ferry2046 (146) • China 16 Jul 10

all my friends feel that i am easy to get along with.yeah,i don't wanna be angry with anyone and i always hang smiles on my cheek,whatever happened.so my friends think of me first when they had something to be done by others.i'm...

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takie23 I think it is very important to be focus, and I mean knowing exactly what you want and WHO YOU ARE. Being kind and 'mr. nice' is good, but too much of anything can never be good at least in my opinion. Having said that, I'd say, your life is yours and choices...

17 Jul 10

Do you have to have a goal at all times?

ladynetz @ladynetz (968) • Canada 16 Jul 10

I always have a goal in mind. Once I achieve it, I set up another one, and so on. There is never a moment that I relax. Always on the go. And if I have nothing to do, no goals set, I feel bored and depressed.It's just me or it s...

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takie23 It is the kind of person you are, and to me at least, that is one of the best qualities human beings could have. I believe there're a lot of people out there who's dying to be like you and couldn't. All you have to do to is just to keep the balance and know...

17 Jul 10

Your breaking point

321beep @321beep (16) • Canada 21 Jun 10

We have all been in this situation at one point in time. Maybe your having a bad day, maybe someone is bothering you and won't stop, and you've had enough. What does it take to get you to snap, and vent out(either verbally or...

emotions

questions and answers

reflecting

venting

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takie23 Prcisely at the point when I have had enough in a situation where someone continously bothers me knowing fully well that I am trying to avoid a confrontation with him or her. That's when I will snap, to make them back off.

21 Jun 10

Will you choose a profession that allow you to work alone or in group?

lanyoublue2008 @lanyoublue2008 (882) • China 21 Jun 10

Everyone has their own prefernece when choosing a profession.Some prefer to choose a profession allowing one to work alone because thet are more focused and productive when they work individually,But I think it is better for...

individually

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takie23 I prefer to work alone. I find it easier to think, create, and come up with ideas. It might be just me, but I love the fact that I have all the time and space to myself to do what needs to be done.

21 Jun 10