tchris1645

@tchris1645 (23)

United States • Age 72

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When you die, would you want your spouse to visit your grave every day?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13388) • United States 16 Mar 07

How would you feel if your spouse or significant other visited you at your grave every day or almost every day? Would you want them to not visit you that often and move on with their life? I have heard of this one person here that...

death

moving on

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tchris1645 BOY!!!! what devotion!!!!!,i guess it really depends on the person. i would want mine to visit for a while, during mourning, however time will heal. i owuld definaltly want him to mourn me, dont get me wrong, but i would definaly want him to move on. just dont...

17 Mar 07

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Welfare scammers....why can't we stop them?

nelltx @nelltx (277) • United States 24 Feb 07

Ok, I know that this is a very touchy subject & I hope that I don't offend anyone, but here is my gripe. A lady down the street from me is on welfare, she lives in a very nice house & she just bought a brand new car. She is also...

abuse

scams

welfare

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tchris1645 i dont know if really it can be stopped. unless someone reports them and tells whats going on, but again, they dont have time to figure the crap out. i understand exactly what u r saying, and i feel the same way u do. i knew this lady that and this was years...

25 Feb 07

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Consoling someone who had to get her cat euthanized

scribe1 @scribe1 (1203) • United States 21 Feb 07

My friend, an ardent cat lover, recently had to get her 19 and 1/2 year-old cat named Elizabeth euthanized and is just broken hearted about it. I emailed her a note of sympathy, stating how sorry I was to hear the news and how...

euthanize

old sick cat

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tchris1645 its hard after something like that to try to explain how u feel about something like that. i feel for your friend, i to have had to put pets down. i guess it was one of the hardest things i had to do concerning a pet. some become like your kids. time heals all...

22 Feb 07

Do you ever wonder what they're doing when you're out?

JJLoa44 @JJLoa44 (346) • Canada 10 Feb 07

Sure, you come home and the dog is by the door. But do you ever wonder exactly what they're up to when you're at work? Surely they don't stay by the door the entire time ... We've often joked that we should get a webcam and set...

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tchris1645 Good question!!!!! i already know what mine r doing, dont need a camera!!!! i have two small ones and my daughter has a part lab. "dallas" is sweet and loving,however she gets lonesome and bored and therefore gets into stuff and strows all over the house.Now i...

11 Feb 07

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How do you tell someone they stink

hellsangelus @hellsangelus (670) • Oman 10 Feb 07

Theres this guy in our office who works on the site. Hes one of many that works on the site and drops in occassionally when he needs any work done at the office. Ofcourse we can spot him coming from a mile away because you will...

odour

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tchris1645 well, if ya dont want to hurt his feelings which im sure u dont, try going to someplace like walmart k-mart. look for the section that has trial sizes of different items, pick up a couple of this and that and tell him u had gone to a garage sell, and they had...

10 Feb 07

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Crackhead in the House

phatkat @phatkat (111) • United States 10 Feb 07

I just sent my husband to jail and possibly to the penn about 10 minutes ago; and for some reason, I have no sympathy for him. I have a 13 year old son whom is asleep right now (thank God). I had to make a decision to send him to...

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tchris1645 i had my brother living with me for a while... oh he claimed he was clean, yeah right! he had been living on the streets, i knew mother was worried sick about him,expecially when it was hot or in the winter he lived in a tent, in not a very good area of town....

10 Feb 07

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Rawhide bones okay for dogs???

monica1216 @monica1216 (509) • United States 9 Feb 07

So if you are knowledgable about dogs will you let me know what you think about raw hide chew bones for dogs? Are they safe and healthy treats? I have heard some people say they are really bad for dogs. Obviously though lots of...

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tchris1645 i haven given my dogs some, in fact all my life our dogs have always had them. i throughly recommend them for puppies becuase they r teething and its suspose to help keep them from chewing on shoes, furniture etc. i wouldnt get the little round stick ones...

9 Feb 07

My best friend is cheating on his wife, please tell me what to do?

destroyer @destroyer (784) • Pakistan 8 Feb 07

It aint as simple as it sounds! let me tell you the whole deal! during college days, we were best of buddies, me my friend Hammie (not revealing any real names for obvious reasons), sandara and Allison! we used to hang out...

cheating best friends

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tchris1645 dont say anything....chances r she may already know he's cheating and hopes that non one else knows.she may be in denial.she may not believe you what ever reasons and you may loose your best friend. maybe u should try to talk some sense inot your friend, but i...

8 Feb 07

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How do you not say anything????

fabwisp @fabwisp (1327) 8 Feb 07

Ok not really expecting much of a reply to this but need to let off a bit of steam! I've just been reading through some discussions and what gives people the right to think that they can judge someone else? No one knows what...

parenting

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tchris1645 well,first of all, kids dont come with instructions!!! boy i sure wished they did when i was raising mine!!! parenting is an experiment becuase the kids dont come with instructions and raising them is like an experiment. if it works great if it dont then try...

8 Feb 07

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Is this Domestic Abuse? Please help me decide

slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

is this abuse of some kind spousel abuse you tel

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tchris1645 oh yeah heres definaly something wrong here.he is mentally abuseing her, the sad part about all of it is that theres nothing u can do. she has to be the one to do it, its gonna get worse, pretty soon shes not gonna be able to talk to anyone on the phone or...

4 Feb 07

Garbage collectors..Do you look down on them?

shobasvk @shobasvk (787) • Malaysia 1 Feb 07

When i was a kid,i always look down on garbage collectors as im more in high class society and they are garbage collectors should rank in low position.I always like to give that sarcastic look on them.When im grown up,i felt...

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tchris1645 well, at least u see how wrong it was to be like that. i dont look down on anyone or try not to anyhow.i just figure that for what ever reason that they have that job, they have a family to take care of at least someone depends on them and for what ever...

1 Feb 07

Grandparents spanking your kids?-what do you think?

mckenziemom @mckenziemom (522) • United States 31 Jan 07

I spent a couple of weeks visiting my folks last summer and this issue came up. My father had mentioned to my husband that he had a belt handy just in case he thought one of the kids might need to be spanked. My husband was...

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tchris1645 i am a grandparent of 8, which 3 live with me. im in favor of spaking as long as its not done as abuse. im even in favor of switching as well. it never killed me, or my kids and i believe that it more of it was going on, kids would be less of a problem. i...

1 Feb 07

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Are you diabetic?!?

meeandnotyou @meeandnotyou (2548) • United States 30 Jan 07

I just found out today that I am diabetic and I am having a hell of a time dealing with this turn of events. I am 35 and in resonable good health (not obese, actually just lost alot of weight*5'7" & 160lbs*), do not drink...

diabetic

life

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tchris1645 u too, huh?? well my mother is one, so i became one. well i am over weight, but the diet plan my doc gave me i guess he wants me to die of starvation!!!! no can do. i drink lots of tea sweetend with SPLENDA,(your choice may be different), i drink lots of...

30 Jan 07

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Get a Human

Eskimo @Eskimo (2315) 29 Jan 07

How many of you phone a customer service, or even just phone a company in general, only to be met with a choice of buttons to press on your telephone, never getting the exact button to push that you want? Here in the U.K. there is...

call centre

human

telephone

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tchris1645 u can actually get a live human and not a recorded human!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!! thats wonderful. what kills me is that they will ask u if u wish to speak to a customer service rep, then push so&so, only to get another recording and asking that u need to push...

30 Jan 07

Would you drive drunk or high?

paperchaser @paperchaser (503) • Canada 29 Jan 07

I know that alcohol significantly decreases a persons reactions while driving or operating machinery. Therefore I would never get behind the wheel in a car after a drinking session. However, science has proven the effects of...

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tchris1645 well how fortuanate u are. i can honestly say that in my 54 yrs i have NEVER touch pot, its been offered but i have always been to scared of it.theres defiantely something wrong with it if its been marked illegall. weather u are high or drunk, u get behind the...

30 Jan 07

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smoking around children

dfinster @dfinster (3528) • United States 29 Jan 07

I really need some help with this problem. My husband and I both smoke which I'm not proud of to begin with. We don't smoke in our house and go out to the garage when we do smoke. But, my husband has the horrible habit of...

kids

marriage

smoking

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tchris1645 how many times have your daughter been sick with colds, brochotis, uri's, its mostly caused from smoking. my pediatrician says thats why kids get sick sop much is becuase of the smoke. just becuase u do it outside, doesnt really mean that much cuz when u get...

29 Jan 07

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5 year old boy going to public restroom by himself

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am a mom of 2 beautiful kids..my son just turned 5 three days ago and my daughter is almost 3 yrs old. My husband travels all the time with his job so he is never around when we go shopping or anything. I have always taken my...

boy in womens restroom

boys bathroom

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tchris1645 u right right, there r to many things that can happen. i would too stand by the door, mabye next time u could get an employee(male) to maybe go in with him, i know its a long shot but iy surely wouldnt hurt to ask. u just cant be to careful nowadays. i didnt...

29 Jan 07

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Forgiveness...a moral obligation??

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you feel that its important to forgive? Are we morally obligated to forgive someone who's done wrong but has apologized etc etc? I personally think its not necessary....I've heard ppl say that we MUST forgive in order to move...

life

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tchris1645 its awful hard to forgive someone for doing u wrong, but it takes a better and bigger person to forgive than not to forgive. if we dont forgive, then how can we expect God to forgive us for what we do?

28 Jan 07

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do you think kids today are more disrespectful?

devilmech @devilmech (14) • United States 27 Jan 07

I was walking in just minding my own business and i turn the corner at this covienent store and this little kid was cursing out his mom like she was trash or something. i don't know about you but if i even thought about talking...

kids

now

respect

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tchris1645 i too if i had disrespected my folks i would have been picking my self up from acroos the street!!, its all in the home, parents dont have time to discipline their kids. unfortuannaly there r single parents out there that have to work and they have what u call...

28 Jan 07

My roomate's girlfriend does her laundry at my apartment every weekend..

cliffcliff @cliffcliff (1350) • United States 27 Jan 07

This is getting old. I have had a roommate for two years, the first year was okay, but then the second year, his girlfriend started to bring her laundry to the apartment. At first it was just a few things, especially if they...

apartment

laundry

roommate

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tchris1645 tell roomate her doing her laundry there is getting out of hand, u understand emergencies, but every weekend is not an emergency.u need your time on sat just to relax and do what ever and u cant when shes there doing laundry. tell him shes gonna have to start...

28 Jan 07

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