tgrider1121

@tgrider1121 (56)

United States • Age 40

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i just can't take it no more

tgrider1121 @tgrider1121 (56) • United States 16 Apr 09

I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I feel good, but for the most part I am never happy. I have 2 kids that I love but I yell and scream all the time. Sometimes tho I can be really happy and play w/ them. But like now. I just...

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sleeping through the night

tgrider1121 @tgrider1121 (56) • United States 20 Mar 09

my baby is 7 months old and I cannot get her to sleep through the night. She wakes like 5-6 times a night just for me to either rook her to sleep or nurse her to sleep. During the day she will only take 2 30 mins naps. I'm am so...

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why would someone make such an evil lie

tgrider1121 @tgrider1121 (56) • United States 20 Mar 09

I just moved from VA to PA. Someone in VA started a horrible rumor. They said that I was going to kill myself and take my daughter with me. I am very angry about this. Its one thing to say something about me but when you stick my...

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tgrider1121 I don't know how someone from Canada is involved. My cousin was the first to tell me about it and she said her cousin told her. I was like whatever. my entire family is screwed up, that why i left va. Then my mom came to me w/ it said someone i don't know told...

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why would someone make such an evil lie

tgrider1121 @tgrider1121 (56) • United States 20 Mar 09

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Do your child still wet the bed?

Mash99 @Mash99 (364) • Pakistan 8 Oct 08

my 9 years grownup child still wet the bed. Is there any one else have the same problem, and how do you handle it???

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tgrider1121 Ever since my daughter got potty trained at age 2 and stopped going to bed with diapers on she has never wet the bed, she is 4 now. So I wouldn't know how to handle it. But I have heard that bed wetting in older children could be a sign of a medical problem....

8 Oct 08

What would you do if you found out the one you love is related to you ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 28 Sep 08

For most of us we know for sure the people we fall in love with are not related to us but what about those who are adopted and don't know their families because of this , there would be no way to be 100% sure that the person they...

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tgrider1121 That would be really hard, but I think I would have to seperate. If I didn't I would feel really weird for the rest of my life. Hopefully no kids would be involved. It would be really hard on the kids if they were, and if there were kids involved, with how...

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Is there anything more precious?

Simplyme31 @Simplyme31 (240) • United States 26 Sep 08

Then when your baby first smiles up at you with that innocent look upon their faces? Still after 4 children it still gets to me my insides turn to mush. How about you what gets to you the most?

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tgrider1121 My baby will be 2 months on saturday. She just recently started smiling at me. It melts my heart every time and brings tears to my eyes. That little toothless grin is just way to cute.

28 Sep 08

caylee anthony...

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 27 Sep 08

have you been watching the caylee anthony case? (missing 3 yr old girl in Fl)(watch it on Nancy Grace show) Its so sad how none of the Anthony family wants to tell the truth and that casey may have killed her own baby. I can...

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tgrider1121 I hope the baby is ok. There is something really shady going on with the family. I can't understand if the baby is alive why they won't give the cops anymore information. I really hope shes ok, but deep down I think her mom killed her...

28 Sep 08

Name brand shoes?

Lee_Rites @Lee_Rites (845) • United States 27 Sep 08

Do you buy your kids name brand shoes? I have bought my kids cheaper shoes in the past that didn't last long because they were just too cheaply made. But I think for the most part they last long enough for the kids to outgrow...

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tgrider1121 No I don't buy name brand shoes, her feet grow to quick. Once she gets older and just HAS to have them then I will consider it, if I have the money. But for now, while she doesn't care I'm getting the cheap shoes.

28 Sep 08

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Do you let your spouse or SO sleep in while you

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 27 Sep 08

take care of the kids and the house? This morning my daughter woke early. My hubby wanted to sleep. So I hoisted my pregnant self out of the bed and took care of business. I am awfully tired. I hope I get a nap later. Have you...

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tgrider1121 Yes I do all the time, even though I'm up 2 or 3 times a night to feed the baby. I always let him sleep while I get up with the kids, then he gets to take a nap later on that day while I watch the kids some more. I wish I could sleep a little more but whatever...

28 Sep 08

They Crack Me Up!

whittear @whittear (110) • United States 27 Sep 08

My children make me laugh ALL the time. They just have the biggest personalities and such interesting views of the world. I'm sure almost all of us have heard the saying "Kids say the darndest things" and my oldest son is no...

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tgrider1121 lol thats cute. I was at walmart recently. I just had a baby and I'm breastfeeding. Well I went to buy a nursing bra and I went into the fitting room to try it on to make sure I had the right size. When I came out of the fitting room my 4 year old daughter...

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Do you think it would be okay to send my son a Christmas present?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 27 Sep 08

So, I am currently in a custody battle of sorts with my son's adoptive parents. This has been going on since a few days after his birth and it looks like it isn't going to be resolved before Christmas. I'd really like to send him...

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tgrider1121 I can't believe they did that to you at the hospital. A mother always has the right to change her mind. Yes I think you should send him a present. Hes your son and you didn't want to give him up. As for the name I think you should go ahead and use the APs...

28 Sep 08

What do you expect from your babysitter ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 27 Sep 08

When you have to leave your child with a babysitter what do you expect from them while you are away ? If they are watching your children in your own home do you expect them to do any of your housework , play with your children...

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tgrider1121 I would expect them to play with my child, give medicine if needed, and clean up any mess that the child or the sitter made. I wouldn't expect her to go clean my bathroom or mop or anything. If she did that then I would pay more money for helping. I had a...

28 Sep 08

How would you feel if you child called someone else mom/dad ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 28 Sep 08

Has this ever happened to you that your child called someone else mom or dad ? How would this make you feel ? What would you do if the other person was allowing it to continue even if you told them you were not happy about this ?...

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tgrider1121 My daughter does that sometimes and I can't stand it. I live with my MIL and my daughter will be talking to me. She will ask a question saying mommy....? and my MIL will answer. I hate it when she does that because she is not her mom. Then she will try and act...

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My Daughter fell asleep on the school bus!

mom4kids @mom4kids (657) • Canada 26 Sep 08

Yesterday my daughters school went for swimming lessons. I believe it was grades 1-7. She is in a private school and there is only about 65 kids in the school. She is 6 and in grade one. Well they went on the bus to the swimming...

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tgrider1121 wow thats scary. i would of been p-off. I am glad your daughter is ok. my daughter bus marks a paper as the kids get on and off. I would deff talk to the principal

26 Sep 08

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Do you hate somebody because of nothing?

reese_sakura @reese_sakura (106) • Philippines 26 Sep 08

I hate sombebody eventhough that person never done something wrong to me. Normally it happens when my period is coming, I guess its my hormones. However I hate it somethimes, the feeling of anger - well not really nager but you...

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tgrider1121 except for my boyfriends and my kids I hate people in general. I hate going to the stores because people get on my nerves. I hate having to talk to people. I hate having to see people. I hate it when people call me. I wish people would just leave me alone...

26 Sep 08

Can u suggest a name for a girl baby????

shankari_prabhu @shankari_prabhu (321) • India 26 Sep 08

What is your favourite name/names? In male names my favourite is Leo and Vivekh In gal names my favourites are many......Nrithya which means dance in Sanskrit, Meenakshi - which means one with beautiful eyes, catherine - which...

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tgrider1121 I have 2 girls their names are Alexis Jazmin but other names I like are Jordan Taylor Ava Svetlana Johanna

26 Sep 08

What did you think when you met your partner?

tgrider1121 @tgrider1121 (56) • United States 26 Sep 08

When I first met my boyfriend, he had just came out of the shower. He had a towel wrapped around his waist and he was looking sooo good. I just wanted to jump on him. And after 5 years of being with him, he hasn't changed a bit....

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what is the biggest problem?

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 26 Sep 08

what is the biggest problem you have encountered in a relationship? i think i would have to say mine would be faithfulness and commitment

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tgrider1121 My biggest issue is trust. I've been cheated on, not by my current boyfriend. but it has caused issues for me now. and I have a hard time trusting anyone.

26 Sep 08

interracial relationships..

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 26 Sep 08

what are your views on interracial relationships?

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tgrider1121 Interracial relationships are great. I will never date a white person because I am white. I don't want my kids to come out all white. My kids are mixed with puerto rican and they have such a pretty complexion.

26 Sep 08