upforachat

@upforachat (50)

Australia • Age 49

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Life is too short for regrets

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Would you be annoyed if this happened to you??

Alexandria37 @Alexandria37 (5717) • Ireland 28 Mar 07

I just received a request from somebody who wanted to join my list of friends. I checked their profile and their discussions seemed to be ok so I accepted them. Within seconds, she sent me a message with a dozen or more links to...

would you be annoyed if this happened to you

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upforachat As you can see I am only new to MyLot- but the first person who added me as a friend did the same thing and sent me a heap of referrals (none of which I joined). I thought it was so rude!

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do you think people should stop have abortions yes or no?

beccaphilly @beccaphilly (32) • United States 26 Mar 07

in my opinion i think they shouldn't because its not fair to the baby you never know that can be the next martin Luther king Jr.

abortions

martin luther king jr

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upforachat I guess you have never fallen pregnant after being raped? Unfortunately I know 2 people that have...one had an abortion, one didn't. The one who had the abortion has been able to get past the rape (well as much as one can)... the one who didn't (because of...

26 Mar 07

do you have sleeping mannerisms? what is your sleeping position?

sarahdell @sarahdell (130) • United States 25 Mar 07

do you have sleeping mannerisms as well? as for me, i can't sleep without my hands under a pillow or under my head.. as long as it is clipped down, i can sleep well.. but the moment it removes itself from under the pillow or under...

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upforachat I certainly do... I can't fall asleep unless I am laying on my stomach with my arms up around my head hugging my pillow! I have been told that sleeping on your stomach is bad for your back- but I just can't sleep in any otehr position

25 Mar 07

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Are you a happy drunk?

soccermom @soccermom (3198) • United States 24 Mar 07

Alcohol effects people in different ways. Myself I am a "happy" drunk. The life of the party when I have a few too many. But I've also known people that drink and get violent. This is why my brother in law doesn't drink, he turns...

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upforachat I am a happy drunk, and also a very affectionate drunk. LOL @ your partner egging you on to make out with someone else. I haven't done anything I regret while drunk... in fact have used the excuse of being drunk to do or say some things that I have...

25 Mar 07

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Don't reply unless you agree!?

tweakpotter @tweakpotter (745) • United States 24 Mar 07

That is what most discussions should say. I, personally, like to hear other opinions, especially ones that are different from my own. But most people on myLot, it seems, only like to hear responses that agree with their way of...

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upforachat LOL If I only wanted people to agree with me I wouldn't bother posting at all. I love seeing the various replies people can give, and sometimes (not necessarily on MyLot but in life) seeing or hearing another point of view can help you see a clearer...

25 Mar 07

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I am thinking of leaving my husband

dlkuku @dlkuku (1935) • United States 24 Mar 07

I've tried to make this work, but it takes two. I can't do it anymore. We had a huge fight last night. I called him out on things that were bothering me, like his constant threats to leave. I told him I didn't feel as if he...

marriage

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upforachat I haven't read the responses so sorry if I repeat something... If it was your daughter being treated this way would you stand by and let her continue living like that? NO!! The thing is- the longer you stay with your husband, she is learning that it...

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can you still remember your first love?

mrimperfect @mrimperfect (81) • Singapore 24 Mar 07

is it true that the first love is the deepest? Until now, I can still remember my first love I had. 5 years have passed but I can still remember the first person I ever loved... the places we used to go, the things we used to do,...

first love

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upforachat Can I remember my first love? Most definitely!! He is someone I will never forget and never regret. The only reason we split up was because we wanted different things out of life, and for 5 years after we split up we would still see each other all the...

24 Mar 07

Is this a bad day? Or pretty normal for a mum?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 22 Mar 07

My eldest daughter woke with a nightmare sometime in the early hours and came to sleep with me. Then at 5.30 I woke with a horrible stomach ache (womens things....!!) and had to strip the bed. This woke my 2 year old who then came...

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upforachat sounds pretty normal in the respect that if something is going to happen- usually 3 or 4 things will happen at the same time...lol Take faith in knowing you will never be dealt more in life than you can handle :) Hope your day improves for you

22 Mar 07

WOMEN! Has shaving your legs become a chore? Shaved or unsheaved?

sjohnson628 @sjohnson628 (3197) • United States 22 Mar 07

I hate shaving my legs. LOL! But its something that I think I need to do. I know some women don't shave their legs...but for those of us that do what are your views on this? How often do you shave them? When I was younger it came...

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upforachat I shave my legs almost everyday.... although in winter it may slow down to a couple of times a week... I like the way I feel when I have smooth legs... to me it's about pride in personal appearance...although as someone who had very fine and very fair hair I...

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How do you spend your free time? And WHY?!

neglitex @neglitex (347) • Latvia 21 Mar 07

I see more and more people spend their whole free time sitting in front of their TV watching useless TV shows, soap operas or whatever. Don't people want to get smarter by reading books and at least watching shows or films that...

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upforachat Generally any spare time I get (which as a working mother with 3 children is not that often)I find myself going to the gym, or just playing with the kids. The only tv I watch is while I am doing housework or ironing (so I dan't actually sit and watch). Even...

21 Mar 07

Angelina Jolie Is Making a Difference

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 14 Mar 07

I want to say that I admire this woman for her compassion and not caring what other people think but what she can do to help the people on this planet. I don't usually like eo comment on this but here is a woman that could of gone...

angelina jolie

world issues

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upforachat Angelina is beautiful in every possible sense of the word... not only is she physically attractive, but has a soul that is filled with compassion, generosity and love. I think that everyone should 'take a leaf from her book', and do what they can to ease the...

21 Mar 07

"a glass of milk"..."a cup of coffee"...

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

Apart of arbitrariness, can somebody please tell me why does it have to be "a glass of milk" or a "cup of coffee"? I mean, do we really have to use a "glass" when we make some milk and a "cup" when we make some coffee? Funny,...

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upforachat Maybe because a cup implies that it has a handle and because coffee is hot people generally want a drinking vessel with a handle.

14 Mar 07

My Son is KILLING ME!

MsJessi @MsJessi (423) • United States 13 Mar 07

Oh My God, I am so frustrated now...I feel sorry for keyboard!!! I do not how to deal with him anymore!! He is normally such a sweet kid! And he's my oldest, 9 years old. But he is the biggest cryer, whiner I've ever met!! I mean,...

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upforachat I ahve a nine year old son... reading his school reports is "could do better if he concentrated", "needs to learn to not get distracted", "needs to listen instead of talk". First off- you are not alone, parents of nine year old boys everywhere go through...

13 Mar 07

Do you spend some quiet time alone everyday?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 13 Mar 07

One moment you are scrubbing the floor, the next you are washing the dishes. One moment you are meeting a client, the next you are stuck in a meeting. One moment you are getting ready for work, the next you are preparing to...

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upforachat I find that my quiet time is when I am in the shower... it's the one part of the day that I can be completely alone. I havae taught the children that unless the house is burning down or someone is hurt they do not disturb me. My morning shower is when I can...

13 Mar 07

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