victoracostajr101

@victoracostajr101 (42)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Is There any words you've said that you regret ?

Ifamous @ifa225 (14460) • Indonesia 6 May 11

sometimes i just lost control of my words. there is so many words that i have said and i regret it. but still, i can't make any guarantee that someday i'd never said it again. how about you? what words you have said that you...

regret

words

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victoracostajr101 at the ending of a relationship of 10 years: "i see you more as a good friend than anything else". been told that was kinda harsh and regret saying that now.

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Does your spouse hugs you to sleep?

gicolet @gicolet (1702) • United States 2 May 11

I don't know if I'm the only one not comfortable about it but I really don't like my husband hugging me to sleep. I know he's just being loving and cuddly but the thing is it's hard for me to fall asleep when his arms are all over...

sleeplessness

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victoracostajr101 When i lived with a girlfriend, she couldn't fall asleep without me wrapped around her. i didnt like it much but its what had to be done to get her to stop talking and fall asleep. once she was asleep i would unwrap myself and that was that. Maybe try...

6 May 11

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He Wants One Thing & You Know What That Is!

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 3 May 11

Where do I start? I have known this guy for a couple months now. After finding out that I was newly single, the day after I broke up with my boyfriend, this guy asked me out. So, we went out. He told me that he wanted to take...

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victoracostajr101 Naturally, baby daddy gonna say something like that after seeing that hickey on your neck. did you really expect him to say something positive? my guess for why this guy cancelled is that he's nervous and thinking too much into things and felt he needed more...

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would you beat your spouse for anything?

hnaboro @hnaboro (113) • Uganda 4 May 11

I would like to know what you people think of wife beaters

domestic violence

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victoracostajr101 frankly, they all need to die! there is no possible good reason for beating any woman. got to respect the females for they're the one that gave all MyLotters life! sad that beating is how some re-pay.

6 May 11

How to get your ex back?

AkatsukIJSN @AkatsukIJSN (211) • Philippines 6 May 11

Hello I just want to ask if some of my mylotters already did this feat. My girlfriend for 2 years broke up with me last week because she lost interest in me and tells me that she already lost her love with me. On top of that she...

being together

getting back

rekindling

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victoracostajr101 I have agood friend that does this. She broke it off with the guy but still hangs with him, one would think they are still together; she insists that theyre only friends. I believe her 100% because she is the type of girl that loves everybody and holds no...

6 May 11

Do you feel uncomfortable when you see yourself in a video?

vesuvius @vesuvius (1677) • Philippines 6 May 11

I've recently read something about Johnny Depp not watching his own movies because he's uncomfortable with it. Upon reading that article, I've realized that I'm not alone after all! LOLs Not that I look like Johnny Depp, but...

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victoracostajr101 I heard Depp say that on Jay Leno. Im uncomfortable with that too. just yesterday my dad played tape of a trip to mexico that we took....i couldn't watch! i hate seeing myself on recordings. i dont know why?

6 May 11

What kind of boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife are you??

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 19 Mar 11

Well I don't have a boyfriend now but did have a boyfriend some years ago. Hmm I was a good girlfriend but I have to admit I was the jealous type. I didn't like him talking to other girls or studying together with them and so on,...

jealous

life

love

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victoracostajr101 I tend to be brutally honest.Example: If you're a bit thick and you ask Me if your a$$ looks fat in those jeans, you're not gonna Like my answer if you're looking for a confidence boost. I am Also the type that likes to give partners their space. You...

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Did you express your anger at work?

Katherleen @Katherleen (390) • China 6 May 11

how do you control yourself when you need to express your anger at work?

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victoracostajr101 I don't express it. People know something is up when I'm Calm and quiet. I am always messing with people when I'm not angry, Quiet is just not me and people know this. So, I guess I keep it bottles up....which I'm sure is no bueno Either....oh well.

6 May 11

'I don't need your permission'

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 5 May 11

My neighbours are fighting again! I wonder why they don't close the main door when they are arguing...they probably don't even realize that we can hear them. Anyway, that's the not the point. They are arguing about the wife going...

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victoracostajr101 Some men are just controlling to the EXTREME! They might fear having Their spouse go and talk about how crazy controlling the guy is or about Other problems they might be having. I personally don't think either wife Or husband need permission. It should be...

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Does Anybody believe in Love at first sight?

hnaboro @hnaboro (113) • Uganda 4 May 11

A friend of mine was fooled into believing that she was in love at first sight. to me it was just infatuation because she was dumped a few weeks later. How about you, do you believe in Love at first sight?

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victoracostajr101 Negative. It takes getting to know somebody to fall in love. If you fall In love with anything it's gonna be purely their looks...which would then Make you somewhat shallow...that's just me though.

5 May 11

How do you avoid conflict after the relationship is over?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 5 May 11

After a really bad eing to a relationsihp some people tend to still argue, fight or use the kids to be hurtful even though the relationship is over. How do you avoid further conflict after a really bad divorice or break up?

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victoracostajr101 How about... just act like adults? There's no need to keep fighting about Old issues, especially around the kids. Show the kids that you can be respectfull Toward the other parent, give them the best example you can, given the situation.

5 May 11

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Do you move on or keep trying to make it work?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 5 May 11

Some people struggle with letting go completely which leaves them open to sequals long after a break up or divorce. They are very open to "hooking up" or getting back together and giving their ex a second chance to make the...

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victoracostajr101 i have gone back to the same ex about 4 or 5 times. the "make up" doing it is nice but there is just no future there and its not right for any of us to keep playing with each others feelings. there are sooo many other options out there. im sure one of them...

5 May 11

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public display of affection..

nnahs_marie @martinnshann (340) • Bahrain 5 May 11

Nowadays, we can see that almost couples show their affection in public. What can you say about it? For me, sometimes it's okay to do that act in a proper place.., because sometimes children saw it and I think it is not a good...

pda

relationship

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victoracostajr101 adam and eve.....go nuts! adam and steve....keep it out of the public view, there's kids around!

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How long should courtship last before marriage?

hnaboro @hnaboro (113) • Uganda 5 May 11

some say 1 year, others 2 years an others a few months. What do you think is the ideal period for courtship and why?

courtship

love and marriage

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victoracostajr101 get this! my courtship lasted 10 years! since freshman year of high school, broke it of just recently......talk about a waste of time

5 May 11

Smile: A good way to start and end your day

evoldahc @evoldahc (35) • Philippines 4 May 11

What your day is going to become depends on how you start it. Most people who start their day with a smile more often have it good all throughout. While people who began their day frowning, angry, irate, or irritable often end up...

happiness

smile

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victoracostajr101 I like and believe this. not too long ago I woke up early to tell a girlfriend to have a nice day and to tie her hair (blonde and black hair)down tightly cuz it was windy outside, or look like Curella De Vil (101 dalmations). i then proceeded to send her a...

5 May 11

holding hands while walking in public

rhden123 @rhden123 (48) • Philippines 4 May 11

Is it really helps the relationship between a lover to do this? For me, it's not, because we can treat our bf or gf is such a way to express our love and passion for him/her, I don't think it is good to see in public, It's my...

holding hands

public

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victoracostajr101 when i had a girlfriend, i tended to not hold her hand when we were out.....especially if we were outside! we lived/live in southern california and its pretty gross when you have sweaty hands after a while. i would hold her hand to not lose her in a large...

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