xavier_sh

@xavier_sh (222)

Nepal • Age 37

Joined myLot 17 years ago

live life happily

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I'm Glad I'm Not a Fish

MARILYN @Marilynda1225 (82715) • United States 8 May 18

My dentist has a massive fish tank in his waiting room. I don't know anything about fish tanks nor gallons etc but it is the largest I've ever seen. It's filled with beautiful fish of all colors and the tank is very peaceful and...

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xavier_sh Oh ! you are so kind hearted that you fekt bad for the fishes in the tank but you know what they arenot swimming but they are dancing for you all who are having tooth aches and root canals saying that see how blessed we are that we donot need our teeth to be...

9 May 18

Have I Not Done Enough??

Alian123 @Alian123 (549) • Philippines 26 Nov 17

I have a friend; she's nice and she's a good friend of mine... but like any other friend relationship, we fought sometimes too, it's just that this time it went overboard. I don't want to say who's fault it is, cause it was...

miss understanding

friendship

gone

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xavier_sh Sometimes when you think it is a friendship isnot a friendship actually but beyond friendship that ais a relation which no one can define. It is love and more than love. It is always not compulsory that a love should be between a boy and a girl, it also...

9 May 18

Are you afraid of any animal?

The Invisible Man @TheInvisibleMan (17597) 31 Dec 16

With the exception of snakes and spiders (which I don't really like it, but I would never have the courage to do no harm... the most I can do is scare them and try to run ), I can tell you that I'm not...

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xavier_sh About getting afraid of the animals I think everyone has his part. I mean we people around all of us are afraid of at least a kind of animal that exist in this world. Some animals gives us shivering, some gives heart beats raging up and some make us feel...

1 Jan 17

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I'm stress working as a tutor

aubrey @averygirl72 (37845) • Philippines 13 Dec 16

It's very hard work for me especially the kids I tutor are really slow. I repeat the facts 10 times they still don't remember. They don't want to memorize. Their mind gets confused easily. I think they are both slow learners. The...

tutor dilemma hard to be a tutor

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xavier_sh you have already talking about the profession that you are in i.e. you need a lot ofd patience in you and beside you should be a versatile person. I mean to say you always donot act as a tutor to them. Let them sometimes feel that you are their friend, a close...

14 Dec 16

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TOO YOUNG TO DIE.

Kandase @Kandae11 (54986) 9 Dec 16

I have been noticing a gradual increase in the number of young people on the obituaries pages. Even though I am aware that death can visit anyone at anytime - whether young or old, it still is disconcerting to see so many...

death

age

youth

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xavier_sh that's true. Younger people are dying in a large number than the old ones. the parents ho have dream of golden future of their children have to bury their loved one under the soil before they can be part of their adulthood life. Its not only because of...

14 Dec 16

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Forgiving easily... are you the type?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 15 Sep 12

I am not sure about you, or others... but with me, this is the case. when people do something that offended me, or has hurt my feelings, if they show me or has said sorry to me, i can easily forget the thing/s they did almost...

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xavier_sh Forgiving easily or taking the argument in a long way depens upon ones habit. but always these forgiveness donot work. forgiveness depens upon the type of misbehave done. Somtimes we need to keep it longer to make them feel what they have done was really...

16 Sep 12

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Should I Quit My Job?

randomarts09 @randomarts09 (1405) • Indonesia 15 Sep 12

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xavier_sh When you are geting so much troubed and distressed by the job you are holding then just get aside from that. yopu have to be fresh in mind and happy in hart to live your life. Your mild deression will ten to become a hard one if you soon donot think of any...

16 Sep 12

Are you afraid of getting old?

blinjk @blinjk (617) • United States 15 Sep 12

We get old so fast and we have to face the fact that we will be grandfather and grandmother soon.It is the part of our life and we cannot stop it.We will have gray hair,or hair loss,our skin will become thinner which is prone to...

fear of getting old

getting old

old

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xavier_sh Yes, of course many people get afraid of geeting older and loosingtheir chams but and mee too sometimeslook at the mirror and think how woud i look when i became at te age of 70. but m ot toomuch afraid just the thing is that i want to live healthy life not...

16 Sep 12

What's your view of the mistakes that made in the discussion started by others?

historydog @historydog (239) • China 11 Sep 12

I don't speak English as mother language,intead,I speak Chinese,and Chinese is quite different from English.All those differences make me feel English is difficult to master.Every English sentence I speak or write is traslated...

mistake

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xavier_sh IN your discussion that you make mistakes while posting its my first time i opened up your discussion but i really donot know where you made mistake or where it is nor understandable. I found your discussion(this one) in good english. Language is all about...

12 Sep 12

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I don't Scared for work...you think I am successful in life..???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 9 Sep 12

hi to all well, dear guys Its My first job here in Pakistan & Now I Understand I am not that person that scared or fear from working in anything & anyway, Now I want to go USA & Job there??? here tons of US Guys/Girls you...

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xavier_sh Well friend glad to know that you arenot afraid of taking chhallenges in your life. why to fear or what to get scared when you are doing the job in right way and for right purpose. Ita really good to get job or get involved in the job of such a big country. I...

10 Sep 12

I don't have any other reason to live

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 8 Sep 12

I don't understand those kids who choose to take their lives because they broke up with their boyfriend/girlfriend. life it's so beautiful. we have problems but this only helps us appreciate much more the beautiful moments. and...

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xavier_sh It happens in a certain age , circumstances and of course high emotions when one feel nothing worth any other than their love. It can even be called as blind love. sometimes they are even not able to understand whether nit is love or just an attraction between...

9 Sep 12

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Are you agree with me? No age limit for fall in love

fantabulus @fantabulus (4000) • India 9 Nov 11

Yesterday my MIL's friend came in our house. She was telling about her married son he was 50 years old. He has three childs, 2 girl one boy and he is fall in love with 40 years women she is also married. She was crying and talking...

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xavier_sh Its true that there is no age limit to love but love after marriage is not pardonable. And even blunder mistake after having three children. After getting married one should not be so selfish and think about oneself but should be responsible to the family and...

9 Nov 11

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In the winter time what are some of your favorite things to eat

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 29 Oct 11

I know that in the winter time and in the summer time there are certain foods that are better to eat. Like in the winter, I love eating a variet of soups, in the summer I eat more salads. I also tend to eat more oatmeal and...

hot cereals

soups

winter recipes

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xavier_sh winter time is the time which i like than that of summer. no sweating, no laziness. I love to have some soups of cereals, hot milk and coffee too. I love to eat soupy noodles too. And you know what beside these I love to eat peanut with oranges staying outside...

9 Nov 11

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My father in law's and mother in law's marriage anniversary

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 24 Jun 11

My Dear friends you all know yesterday was my anniversary and I am so happy today is my father in law and mother in law's anniversary. My brother's daughters and my sister's daughter suddenly came my sweet home they give me...

happy days in life

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xavier_sh congrats to your in laws for that great. Sth poped up in my mind when you told that urs in laws have thier anniversary on 23rd and 24rth is yours then why dnt u keep anniversary party on 23rd eve. At evening it will b ur in laws anniversary and after 12 at...

25 Jun 11

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Would you rather be a dancer or a singer?

dheckerz @dheckerz (473) • Philippines 5 Mar 11

I grew up loving almost all kinds of music type. At the age of 9, i started to learn how to play the guitar and keyboard. Every night i always practice playing the guitar in my room. During elementary days, I've also...

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xavier_sh I would have chosen dance rather than singing. Though its tiring and strenuous it gives me relief from every kind of tension for the time being. I love dancing when i'm alone in my room. I didn't get chance to express myself as a good dancer from the beginging...

5 Mar 11

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how do you make others happy?

kirthy @kirthy (383) • India 27 Jan 11

hi, how do you make others happy.? some people cannot be happy, even what you do. i think they are not humans. i will give surprises to others. or gifts. or take them out to play.

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xavier_sh You know these human kinds are never happy even when they reach their goal. All human kind are unsatisfied with what they get always. So,its really hard to make somebody happy. As per me,I just donot believe in gifts to make one happy but i help them in each...

27 Jan 11

Will you still love him/her or you'll forget him/her?

rifnee @rifnee (1713) • Indonesia 26 Jan 11

If one day you have a lover, as long as you're in a relationship, very smooth, but within a few months she began to change, every time you contact him/her, no response at all,. until you feel confused what mistakes you've done,...

sorry

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xavier_sh Yes, I would surely forgive him/her. We sometime get indulged into such a problems that we may not be able to even inform our beloved ones. It may happen to everyone it doesn't mean that you forget him/her. Let him/ her apologies for what he/she did as you...

27 Jan 11

an other friend needs prayers

Lakota12 @Lakota12 (42600) • United States 8 Sep 10

Quita is sort of new here been on a few months, and got an email from here earlire that her tests on heart didnt come back good. SHe is to have open heart surgery on the 17th this month. A few years ago she had to have stents...

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xavier_sh its really painful to know that you too have a friend having heart operation. I will bless for her from my heart. AS one of my student is also having heart operation after 1 and half month. HE is only of 10 years amd has got hohole in his heart. HE has been...

9 Sep 10

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Why do parents send their children to grannies during summer break?

segungb @segungb (169) • Nigeria 29 Aug 10

I have tried to look at the reasons. Is it to make the grannies happy? Is it to give themselves time as husband and wives? Is it for the children to learn somethings from the grannies?

grand parents

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xavier_sh Parents send their children to their grannies during summer because 1. it will bring these two relation close to each other at least once in a year so that they can understand each better. 2. it will surely make grannies happy toi see their grandchildren...

30 Aug 10