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ylimeloka Hey.....it's hard but it's so worth it. I think being in an L.D.R. is one of the best things that has happened to me and my bf. Well, the not seeing each other thing sucks......but being apart has MADE us talk to each other which means we've gotten to know...

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30 Jun 07

He wants me to move in. What do you think?

ldynimaway @ldynimaway (704) • United States 12 Feb 07

If you have read my other posts I have mentioned meeting someone that makes me feel like a "teenager" again. We have been going out 3 weeks. He mentioned this weekend that he wants me to move in with him. We have decided to wait...

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ylimeloka Everyone is different. Moving in together is a HUGE deal, I think!! I think you guys have it GREAT compared to most people on here. Everytime I want to complain about my bf and I being 2 hours away from each other, I stop and think IT COULD BE WORSE!! I guess...

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30 Jun 07

long distance relationship...

JeaHnne @JeaHnne (41) • Philippines 11 Feb 07

..do you think this relationship could last long?

long distance relationship

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ylimeloka I am sorry you're having these feelings and thoughts. It sounds like a really hard situation, with your age and distance and all that. The best thing is to talk to him about it. Communication is key!!! It's true that things would be easier if there was someone...

30 Jun 07

Why is it hard to let go of someone you love?

jaime_guitarist @jaime_guitarist (67) • Philippines 8 Dec 06

You guys....why is it really hard to let go of someome you love?...In my experience, it's really hard to let go of someone you love especially when you realize that you love her/him truly. How about you guys?...

ylimeloka If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to... LET IT GO!!!If you're feeling depressed and stressed .... LET IT GO!!!

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30 Jun 07

Letting go

suniljoseph @suniljoseph (246) • India 11 Dec 06

Have you ever faced the reality of letting go of friends. I have had many close friends, from school, junior college, college... and they were with me through thick and thin during those times. but once we had to part, once we...

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ylimeloka If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. LET IT GO!!!Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2005!!! LET IT GO!!!

30 Jun 07

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the art of letting go

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 19 Jan 07

aww , , this song really touches my heart , , :-( i can relate to it so much do you know this song? will post the lyrics , , tell me what do you think about it put away the pictures put away the memories i put over and...

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ylimeloka If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!!!If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him... LET IT GO!!!If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.... LET IT GO!!!

30 Jun 07

the art of letting go

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 19 Jan 07

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ylimeloka If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction .. LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents.. LET IT GO!!!If you have a bad attitude... LET IT GO!!!

30 Jun 07

Letting go of someone whom you know is not right for you.

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

It is so hard to let go of somebody whom you really like being with and love so much. There are situations where he or she may be married that's why you have to let go. Sometimes, the guy or girl you love is a total jerk who...

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ylimeloka If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...LET IT GO!!!If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge LET IT GO!!!

30 Jun 07

letting go of a relationship....

007Bond1974 @007Bond1974 (881) • Philippines 19 Jan 07

im 32 now but and im in a relationship(only my second)...my girl is in dubai right now working there as we prepare for our planned marriage....she was away for 2 years now.couple of days back my ex girlfriend called me up,i really...

ylimeloka If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!!

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30 Jun 07

have you ever been in the situation that you must let go in the relationship?

jerpogz13 @jerpogz13 (283) • Antarctica 12 Feb 07

everyone had an experience to let go with your love ones

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ylimeloka It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!

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30 Jun 07

Why do we hang on ....

simplyjesse @simplyjesse (13) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

A very good friend of mine just sent me a message this weekend that just keeps on popping into my head every now and then. I wouldn't say that it's bothering me. Nor is it an eye-opener for me. I am very well aware of the...

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ylimeloka You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.

30 Jun 07

The art of letting go...

ako_me @ako_me (60) • Philippines 22 Jan 07

I hate goodbyes, i really do. Because when you said goodbye, you have to let go. Be it a good or bad thing, it is still letting go. But once (or twice or more) in our life, we have to let go, whether we like it or not. Just the...

ylimeloka And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

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30 Jun 07

how does saying goodbye means you really love a person?

scorpio14 @scorpio14 (12) • Canada 13 Feb 07

it's easy to say "I Love you" but keeping it, it's hard. Can you really say Goodbye to the person you love very much?

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ylimeloka When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued...

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30 Jun 07

letting go...

clarah_cille @clarah_cille (654) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

its really hard to let go of someone who became a part of your life. sometimes we feel that maybe we can easily move on after what had happened but when your really in the situation, you'll never know what to do. it seems that it...

ylimeloka I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

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30 Jun 07

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how can you let go of someone you love..

phanda012 @phanda012 (153) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

when they decides to leave you.. when they decides to love someone else.. when they decides that they dont love you anymore.. how can you let go?..

ylimeloka There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

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30 Jun 07

long distance

gurl976 @gurl976 (48) • United States 3 Jun 07

my boyfried just got a job overseas for a year. We havent even been together a whole year and he'll be gone for a year. I don't think I can wait around for a year, but I don't want him to resent me if I say something. What...

ylimeloka I think understanding is one key that should never go out of sight in a relationship. Sure, it will be hard but one year if you have constant communication will pass by quickly.

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29 Jun 07

Are you in a long distance relationship?

jeremie2103 @jeremie2103 (25) • Philippines 9 Jun 07

i want to know your opinions, tips, advice on how to make the relationship work...

ylimeloka The only advice I can give is have determination that it will work. Have faith that it will work. It also requires that you both have to work for it.

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29 Jun 07

have you ever had a long distance relationship that worked??

annurt @annurt (4) • United States 10 Jun 07

actually im currently involved w/ this,i have one but still we were able by keeping communication honest and open work things out.. and sooner i need to be living in the same town or yet ill get die of loneliness... well...

ylimeloka Yes, I have been involved with several men that is long distance but it never really worked. Now, I am currently involved again with one and I just hope that this one will work.

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29 Jun 07

Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

fellowlife @fellowlife (988) • Nigeria 10 Jun 07

Distant Relationship, does it work? Welcome to share your opinion on this subject. I personally believe in this even though am yet to meet my virtual girl friend who is far away from em and we have never met before. We have...

ylimeloka I know of some relationship that started long distance and now they are happily married so yes, I believe long distance really work if both parties are really up to it to make it work.

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29 Jun 07

How Do You Cope With Long Distance Relationships?

snookumsnort @snookumsnort (313) • Philippines 12 Jun 07

It's been a month since my husband went back to the US while we stayed behind for an extended vacation. I'm going nuts and I miss him so badly. It seems the kids and I will be staying for at least a month more and I'm counting the...