Debsykins123

@Debsykins123 (26)

Age 56

Joined myLot 14 years ago

It's WHAT you are not WHO you are that matters.

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Do you have a B E N T of mind towards - C A R I N G

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 1 Jul 10

If you have been brought up to caring,as soon as a situation presents itself,you are prompted to action. A memorable moment - "Someone with a hundred-rupee note on a busy street corner looking desperately for change to pay for an...

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Debsykins123 I have always put others needs before mine, always been a good friend, and helped out wherever I can and with whatever has been asked of me....HOWEVER in the last few years I have seen the error of my ways, at a time when I desperately needed help and support...

1 Jul 10

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.. is it right to compliment your mate often ?

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 13 Jan 10

my husband was angry with me for "thanking" him for everything that he has been doing for me for the past 3 weeks. well since i broke my leg i was unable to do almost everything .. he cooked me breakfast +lunch before going...

compliments

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Debsykins123 Hi Sanjana, I do not understand where your husband is coming from at all, it's ALWAYS nice to be thanked for doing something extra nice for someone, WHOEVER they are, I always thanked my Mum for doing things for me, perhaps it was her "job" as my Mum to do...

30 Jun 10

I've always had anxiety, about 4 months ago I started taking colizapam

Liz @dasiejanie (590) • United States 29 Sep 09

It helps I didn't know how much till I ran out Friday. Each day got worse, by saturday evening I was in bed with a terrible headache, tingling in my hands and feet I was a mess, by Sunday I couldn't get out of bed crying, and...

anti anxiey medicine

colonapam

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Debsykins123 Hi dasie, your symptoms are classic withdrawal symptoms, the fact that your body wasn't getting its "fix" is probably what triggered it, as I'm sure you knew. Your body will actually recreate the symptoms that caused you to take the medication in the first...

20 Apr 10

URGENT PRAYERS: This is for my cat Pyewacket

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 19 Apr 10

I'm at my wits end-----one minute my cat Pyewacket was fine and now I just don't know---I'm in hysterics here trying to comfort him. As i write this it's 5:47 a.m.-----what is wrong with him? No clue ...trying to do things for...

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Debsykins123 I have sent prayers for your cat, but I honestly think a vet would be more useful. You don't say what's wrong with him, or what he's doing to make you hysterical, but it honestly sounds from the tone of your post, that prayers are NOT enough. If he's vomiting...

20 Apr 10

How Do You Deal With Your Anger?

npadecio @npadecio (161) • Philippines 19 Apr 10

Hey Mylotters! Good day. I would like to share what happened to me with my work yesterday that really made me so angry that I felt like quitting. We had a big event for our clients and I'm part of the Registration Team My...

anger

anger management

angry

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Debsykins123 Aww poor you np, I really feel for you, I've had days like that myself, in fact I'm amazed that I haven't been blamed for the icelandic volcano! :o) When you have a day that starts like this, and you can usually tell....take yourself out of the situation...

20 Apr 10

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Do you believe in Marriage?

jazzbabe @jazzbabe (166) • Philippines 20 Apr 10

I have this friend at work who would want to get pregnant, raise a child without a father and just pour her love to her child alone without being involved in marriage. It's like saying she doesn't believe in marriage and that...

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Debsykins123 I'm with YOU 100% on this Jazz. In my opinion it's selfish, unless there are health reasons involved, not to give your child the benefit of a Mum AND a Dad, I do recognise that in the case of SOME fathers the child would be better off without one at all, but...

20 Apr 10

Cleaning and Organizing

kainalu55 @kainalu55 (364) • United States 29 Mar 10

are you good at keeping your house clean and organized? I am not! I wish i were, but it always seems my house is a mess! I would love to have a system to keep all of my things organized. How do you organize? I would love to have...

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Debsykins123 I have a horrible feeling as I'm typing this, that I'm going to come across as some kind of clean freak, truly I'm not, but.............. I work my way systematically through the house EVERY DAY, dusting/polishing, scrubbing surfaces cleaning the bathroom...

29 Mar 10

Do you have patience for a page - long discussion?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 18 Mar 10

I suppose that I have to respect other mylot members who spend a lot of time to write a page long or half page long of discussions. They really giving it time to dedicate on posting these discussion, and make the content as clear...

discussion

writing

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Debsykins123 I don't mind long OR short discussions, provided they have a decent point to make!

18 Mar 10

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Friend just took 6000mg or paracetamol..

aWkiee @aWkiee (31) • Norway 19 Feb 10

Okay, so an online friend just msg'd me and told me she took 6000mg of paracetamol. I have tried getting her to call 911 as I think this could be causing her liver damage or even death. Im having a hard time getting through, shes...

drugs

paracetamol

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Debsykins123 I hope by now you will have found out how your friend is, she's lucky to have such a caring friend, but I strongly suspect that this was an attempt to get attention from you, had she not wanted to cause a fuss, she wouldn't have told you what she'd done, she...

17 Mar 10

I am old.

marguicha @marguicha (223863) • Chile 11 Feb 10

It takes me a long time to learn new things. I wonder... Will I be able to understand the new mylot? So far, I have seen a lot of notifications. None of my posts have been deleted. So which are my deleted answers? Which is the...

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Debsykins123 Awww no I don't think it's anything to do with your age, you don't say how old you are, but you don't sound old in the slightest, and considering English is not your first language, you do brilliantly. We all have problems understanding things sometimes,...

12 Feb 10

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Do you believe in parents spanking children as punishment?

laura_lmaxi @laura_lmaxi (678) • United States 9 Feb 10

I am the kind of person that I really don't believe in violence, and I really don't like when sometimes I see people spanking kids in order to punish them. I think when parents does this, it is not with the purpose of the kid...

spanking kids abuse

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Debsykins123 I think the very word SPANKING sounds bad......but does a quick smack sound AS awful?? I don't think it's right to use a smack on the bottom and VIOLENCE in the same sentence, it gives totally the wrong impression. Of course VIOLENCE used on children(or anyone...

10 Feb 10

What should have been done in this situation?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 10 Feb 10

My son took/stole $20.00 out of my purse. His teacher called this morning from school in relation to the money that my son had. She talked to my husband about the money. I was standing in the kitchen washing dishes so I heard what...

teacher money cookie cafeteria purse stealing

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Debsykins123 You're quite right about the teacher, she SHOULD have had enough sense to have realised that the fact your husband told her to hang onto the cash and he'd collect it later, meant just that, and no where in that statement could she have thought he meant....hand...

10 Feb 10

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What should have been done in this situation?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 10 Feb 10

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Debsykins123 I agree totally with you that the teacher had absolutely no right to allow your son to have the money, when she was specifically told that your husband would pick it up from HER. I would therefore imagine that it's down to her, or the school to make good the...

10 Feb 10

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