Fleurdelis

@Fleurdelis (100)

Philippines • Age 53

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Does Your Boyfriend Carry Your Handbag When You Go Out?

myliezl0903 @myliezl0903 (2726) • Philippines 9 Oct 08

hello there! well, just wondering? cause sometimes when my handbag is kinda heavy and or its kinda huge i let my boyfriend carry it for me.,Ü lol! or he automatically ask me give me handbag and carry it., do you...

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Fleurdelis Yeah... me too. I think it's cute. A guy carrying a ladies' bag. But I think it's their way of saying : I love you and I'm proud to be with you! . You're a lucky girl

9 Oct 08

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A Woman Is In Labor

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 8 Oct 08

What's the worst thing a man can say to a woman during labor? I was watching the discovery health channel earlier today and this woman flat foot yelled at her husband because he asked her was she gonna be alright, she yelled "look...

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Fleurdelis Labor!! Man, I had two labors and I screamed and shouted at anyone....no man will ever understand what we women go through, so I guess they wouldn't know the right words to say, so we can't blame them, but I wish they would just say : I'm HERE!. Instead of...

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We are in an economic crisis, how are you being frugal to survive?

peedielyn @peedielyn (1207) • United States 8 Oct 08

I am making my own laundry soap and hanging the clothes to dry in the laundry room. We have a gas dryer, and I am trying to save the gas for the heat. I took old sheets and sewed them to the backs of the curtains for extra...

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Fleurdelis I try not to eat as much as I used to...because food makes up 50% of our total household expense. I don't have much problem with power because I don't have much in my house that uses power except for my computer, fridge and TV. My kids are usually at school...

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I Dont like You, Okay You Are An old busyBody

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 8 Oct 08

hi mylotters I am so upset as just read a great discussion that became marred when two obviously angry at each other mylotters' started a flaming war against each other right in the midst of'a very nice discussion. they...

is there in room on mylot for fights

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Fleurdelis Anger is a normal reaction. Everybody feels it specially when sensitive buttons are pressed. Mylot is not the right venue for anger release. You're right, we are usually wonderful interesting people, let's not disrespect each other by making harsh derogatory...

9 Oct 08

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I'm Sorry and Feeling More Myself today..

Rosekitty @Rosekitty (19368) • San Marcos, Texas 5 Oct 08

What do you think? Should i be punished and not allowed back into your lives or made to write on the blackboard after school? With so many emails and pm's i thought i better do this now to explain the why... Too much working 7...

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Fleurdelis C'mon, stop being too hard on yourself, I am in the very same sitz that you're in...Come by MYLOT anytime you have time, NO PUNISHMENT...right GUYS!!!

5 Oct 08

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insecurities do u have them

jimssaftytips @jimssaftytips (507) 5 Oct 08

I admit I do have them and its really hurt my chances with women. Ive always wanted to be with someone who truly loves me and not just say they do. That is the kind of insecurities i have. I dont mean to have them but sometimes...

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Fleurdelis Insecurities my dear, are everywhere. We just have to accept that. I have it, you have it, my husband has it, and all the teenagers have it!!! we just have to learn to accept ourselves for who we are, stop being somebody for the sake of somebody. If you think...

5 Oct 08

What do you do when you're really mad?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 1 Oct 08

Today, I got really steamed up over something. And, I figured that I had the choice of sitting around moping and stewing in my own juices or doing some constructive. So, I got busy dejunking the laundry room which is also a...

relationship counseling

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Fleurdelis I eat when I'm mad...I don't eat when I'm really realllllly mad. Crazy huh!!! It's like I want to punish someone else by feeling sorry for me.

2 Oct 08

Do you support the ban on SMOKING in public places..???And why...????

dsharat @dsharat (456) • India 1 Oct 08

I Hate people smoking in public places.They are not only spoiling their healths but also spoiling others health also.I find people smoking in buses and trains also..Even if I warn them or advice them it quit smoking then never do...

buses

smoking

trains

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Fleurdelis I think smoking in public is very disrespectful, not only unhealthy. I'm a smoker myself but I don't do it in public, I do it in the privacy of my bathroom with the faucet running so i won't kill myself from suffocation. Specially in front of children, I'm a...

2 Oct 08

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Oh Horrors, You like getting Paid by MyLot?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 1 Oct 08

a discussion berating some people for short answers and saying they should be kicked off here as they are only here for the money trigged my discussion. My question is how on earth can you even begin to devine that a person is...

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Fleurdelis I do agree, It's in the content and sense. We can just go on and on write as many words as we can and still have no idea what in the world are we responding to. If you can say it in one word; why say it in so many words and still end up with the same meaning....

2 Oct 08

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Do You Feel Grateful When Paying Your Bills?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 1 Oct 08

Okay this may sounds like an oxymoron to feel grateful about paying ones bills.....but. .... This discussion I think was inspired by a fellow mylotter, who admitted that at the beginning of the month when she has to pay her...

feeling blessed in having the money to pay bills

feeling gratitude when paying bills

having the money to pay bills

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Fleurdelis I work hard for my money and yes I do grumble and whine when it's time to pay the bills, but I guess it's a normal feeling that everybody has. But when I start to think about my son using the computer for homework i am very pleased that I had paid my bills on...

2 Oct 08

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Do you write simple English while responding to users who are not good with it?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 1 Oct 08

Mylot has users with varying degree of command over English. Some are really good, some are moderately good and some are not so good. I just want to know [b]when you are interacting with someone who is not-so-good with the...

english

mylot

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Fleurdelis Yes I do, I can empathize with them. But I do appreciate the effort and the enthusiasm that they have for English. I feel for them Simply because English is not my native language too but I try my best not to make many obvious mistakes, I understand how...

2 Oct 08

What could you buy with $100 in your country?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 1 Oct 08

In the US, $100 doesn't buy too much. In our area, you can buy about one week's worth of groceries for $100. Money doesn't go far. In your country or area, what can you buy with $100? And, I'm talking about basic...

buying food

comparative economics

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Fleurdelis In my household here in the Philippines, It's worth 3 weeks groceries, or I can pay all my utilities for a month, or a 3 months budget for my 15 year old high school student. WoW! a $100 goes a long way here. I'm surprised!

1 Oct 08

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"Oh you have given me too much change" Would you admit this or keep it?

gemini_rose @gemini_rose (16264) 27 Sep 08

You go into a shop and you hand your money over for your purchases, when you get your change and count it however, you notice that you have been given change for a lot higher note than you actually gave them. Would you go...

give it back

keep it

too much change

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Fleurdelis I'll go back and give the extra change because I know how hard it is to get ajob these days, and mistakes like this could cost someone his/her job.

28 Sep 08

Is it OK NOT to celebrate a birthday?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 27 Sep 08

My birthday is in two weeks, early October. Every year, I look forward to my birthday. And, most times, I get a really big gift. Not on my birthday, but usually the month before my birthday. Last couple years, I've gotten...

celebrate a birthday

gifts

my life online

not wanting to celebrate

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Fleurdelis Birthdays for me always excite me.. I think people should celebrate it. It only comes once a year, so I think it's a celebration of LIFE. Big or small celebration it doesn't matter, I remember one time in my life when I had to celebrate my birthday alone coz...

28 Sep 08

How much water do you drink per day???

snpyvin @snpyvin (1518) • Malaysia 27 Sep 08

Water is an relatively important sources to us and it is one of the main sources to enable our body to survive even thought we didnt eat. Most people are too busy till they forgot to drink more water and get sick easily. So how...

water

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Fleurdelis no no... I think your question is just as relevant as the others, water is an inexpensive source of life sustenance. You are right , many people often forget that we need to drink at least 8 glasses a day. I'm one of them...so thank you for reminding me...I...

28 Sep 08

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Do u believe in long distance relationship????

sweety10 @sweety10 (188) 27 Sep 08

hey!!i met a online friend..6 months ago... now we both r very gud friends...its almost 6months 2 our friendship..n he used 2 call me as a "SPECIAL FRIEND".even he wrote a beautiful poem for me...In which he express what he feels...

relationship

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Fleurdelis Long distance relationships they say don't work but I disagree because there are also a lot of non long distance relationships that doesn't work. So, I guess it depends on the person. I think this will test the relationship, if it's strong enough to take the...

28 Sep 08