Laurelle11

@Laurelle11 (409)

Australia • Age 56

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Life should be fun

Laurelle11's Responses

Why so defensive?

Red Curtis @redspot (64) • Citrus Heights, California 2 Nov 13

Why is it when a person gets caught in a lie doe they seem to get so defensive and not just admit they were wrong? It's seems to me if you give a reason for something and that reason is found to be untrue or without merit then...

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Laurelle11 I totally understand what you are saying with this, after being lied to for the majority of my relationship, I tend now to despise liars. I don't lie myself but have asked myself the same question that you are asking now and came to the conclusion that the lie...

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What is special gift?

andrew wart @wart123 (6) • Kathmandu, Nepal 28 Oct 13

We are here in earth is our special gift of god.

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Laurelle11 Everyday that we get to spend on earth makes life an everlasting gift.

30 Oct 13

what would be your reaction?

steven @SKsteven (32) • Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia 29 Oct 13

what would be your reaction when one day you make contact with aliens from outer space? terrified? thrilled?shocked?you wanna run away? you wanna talk to them? for me, i'd probably hide and see them what they do

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Laurelle11 I would think the question should be how do we know that aliens are not already here among us, do they have to stand out or be different from us, you just never know.

30 Oct 13

I need your opinion

Carmon prize @Byroncarmon (1) • Cleveland, Ohio 30 Oct 13

I communicated with a guy in the internet dating site. We communicated for one and half month on the site. Of course, I was not very interested in him whenever we talk at the site. I can tell he really likes me and would send me...

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Laurelle11 That is so sweet, that you have so much in common, surprises are the best gifts in life and it sounds like it was a surprise that you and your texas man were so well matched. I think you should go for it, move in with him, you never know what life has in store...

30 Oct 13

Avoiding regret,especially over and over again!

C-love (big big wolf) @lovegengb (14) • Lanzhou, China 29 Oct 13

When you lost something important, only to regret! More sadly, repeatedly! I like the saying"lessons drawn from other's mistakes". It told us a truth, when you failed at the first time, timely summary to avoid recurrence of...

regret mistakes avoid

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Laurelle11 There are many things in my life that I regret but I don't usually dwell on the things that I cannot change and only regret the things I can change but have not been able to yet.

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What do you usually think when you're alone?

steven @SKsteven (32) • Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia 28 Oct 13

what is inside your mind when you have nothing to do but thinking & reflecting? do you talk to God? do you look back 1 day, 2 days, or many days ago of what you've achieve? or, are you the type of person who plans ahead a lot of...

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Laurelle11 That is a really good question and it got me thinking about what I do think about when I am alone and it really is just jibberish, nothing of any real importance, I would like to think that I think about things I need or want to do but I don't.

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Life is hard

Rainy @Taojinmall (57) • Wuxi, China 14 Oct 13

Life is hard. We should not give up hope. By the time we have given up, we are finished. Chances are always there. We have to grab every single opportunity...to help, to love and to serve. To live our life happier, full of joy, we...

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Laurelle11 Every moment in life is special and a learning experience, what we learn from these moments is what makes us into the people that we are. A person who can find joy in all that they experience, no matter good or bad, is a person whose heart is made of all the...

28 Oct 13

Your biggest flaw...?

Haylie Herman @Haylie2610 (582) • Dominican Republic 16 Oct 13

We're human beings and, as such, we aren't perfect. At least I know I'm not. I'm very conscious about me being late for almost anything. I try really hard but I always end up looking like an irresponsible person and I hate it....

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Laurelle11 Im not a perfect person and don't think I would want to be and that is why my family and friends love me so much, because I am not perfect and don't care that Im not, I cant read a street directory and constantly gets lost if I have to go somewhere new but it...

28 Oct 13

Is this considered harrassment?

angiemac4444 @angemac23 (2003) • Canada 26 Oct 13

I got a new job last Fall and a few weeks into the job, a guy started talking to me. He approached me, asked me to go for coffee with him and be friends. We started hanging out and going for coffee at lunch and became (so I...

harrassment

relationships

workplace

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Laurelle11 Sorry to hear this has happened to you but I think you should just do your job and be polite and professional. Put yourself above this incident and do what you are paid to do. It was a form of harassment but you did go along with it at first, not that that...

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Feeling low.....

KATEGREGORY @KATEGREGORY (187) 12 Oct 13

To cut a very long story short (as short as I can anyway!) 8+yrs ago I was in a violent relationship and needed to find away out which I did by meeting someone online who rang all the places possibly to help me and my 2 young...

relationships

love

marrage

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Laurelle11 I understand having being in the same situation with my ex and I too was terrified to leave the safety of my home for a long time but I did do it, it was simple things at first like sitting in the front yard gardening and then by going to the shop to buy milk...

26 Oct 13

Can you love someone you don't like?

mohammed abd-elatif @star40 (12) • Giza, Egypt 18 Oct 13

is it a strange to love someone you don't like, don't like that one's behavior, opinions, hobbies,...? what we call that love?

relationships

love

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Laurelle11 I think it is possible to love someone but not like them, I know I love my father but I definitely don't like him, I realise this is probably not what you meant by your question but anything is possible.

26 Oct 13

can you answer this

lajaded1 @lajaded1 (96) • United States 23 Oct 13

i once heard where ever you go there you are my question is what if you get there and you don't belong? have you ever felt like you didn't belong anywhere?

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Laurelle11 I have felt like I haven't belonged but it was more because of the people there than the actual place, I think it is the people who make you feel unwelcome not the place.

26 Oct 13

Disappointed in the Education System

syramoon @syramoon (654) • United States 15 May 12

This is something that happened about a year back, but every time I think about it, it drives me nuts. I was visiting at my father's, and talking with my fifteen year old brother about American History, and he was joking about how...

education

history

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Laurelle11 The school system today is pathetic, the teachers at my kids school are not even trained teaching that particular subject, eg. sports teacher is teaching my daughter art, they rely on computers too much to give them their information which is not always...

16 May 12

So...Where did your name come from?

jhustinian @jhustinian (612) • Philippines 16 May 12

Did you ever ask your parents which of them had given you your name and what inspired them to give that name to you? Me? I always ask, but I don't really get any interesting story about the history of my name. Just that my Mom...

given name origination originated

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Laurelle11 Apparently my name is french in origin and my mum was watching a french movie at the time she went into labour, so she named me after the leading actress of that movie. I don't particularly like my name because a lot of people have trouble saying it...

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What does friendship mean to you?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 16 May 12

Everybody has good friend and it is really important in our life.Maybe some treat friends really good but some may not care that much.What do you think and how do you treat your friendship? I really appreciate your...

friendship

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Laurelle11 My friend has been my best friend for over ten years. We may not always talk to teach other every day or week but we know we are there for each other if ever there is a problem and when we do get together we talk for hours on end. She's the best.

16 May 12

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have you ever felt lost?

crazzydolphin @crazzydolphin (3636) • United States 16 May 12

i thought that i would be ok and that it wouldnt bother me if i talked to her any more or not but it has been atleast a month now and i actually miss talking to her. the other day something happened and i almost picked up the...

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Laurelle11 my heart goes out to you, I do know how you are feeling, I have been there and am sort of there again at this moment but before I went and saw her and told everything that you just said and true friend that she is, she forgave me and we moved on from it, I...

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Do cats get stoned when you smoke joint in the house while they are around?

taiwanlife @taiwanlife (745) • Philippines 3 May 12

My friend's cats are really very dear to her. I would often take care of what I say about cats that might hurt her. Her cats are just the ruler of the house. They just look at me with an unwelcome, "you are an intruder" kind of...

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Laurelle11 I don't know about them being stoned for seven years but they do get stoned. My cat loves it, he puts his face in the smoke and just starts purring like crazy, then he will just have a munch and goes to sleep, a really happy puss, but he doesn't like catnip...

3 May 12

Aren't women crazy when it comes to getting fit?

daxta88 @daxta88 (125) • Romania 3 May 12

Hey guys! I was wondering about this issue that girls around me have it. Getting fit! I hear this expression a lot during the day. In some small matter I understand the need for women to feel pretty, sexy or attractive, but since...

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Laurelle11 Hi there, I don't know about all this exercise stuff, I would much rather eat what I want and enjoy my life doing what I want when I want without worrying if I ate too many calories. I am not a fat person, I am only small really and don't need to watch what I...

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Things I Just Don't Get

betsyraeduke @betsyraeduke (2669) • United States 2 May 12

There are all types of people in the world. I get that. Not only are there all types of people in the world, but there are a lot of them, billions in fact. I get that too. Now out of all these billions of people, there are a huge...

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Laurelle11 I get what you are saying and I agree with you about golf and fishing, I think they are boring but to those who like it, I would think that they find them relaxing, maybe people like them because they both require near silence, so you don't get kids screaming...

3 May 12