LovingLife139

@LovingLife139 (1504)

United States • Age 36

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LovingLife139's Responses

helping ungrateful people

Timeout @Timeout (419) 17 Feb 13

Yesterday I was at work when a manager from another department approached me after struggling to find something for like five minutes. He asked me if I knew the location of an item. I explained him that we normally put that item...

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LovingLife139 Oh, dear. Lack of common courtesy and no indication that this man understands that others are human beings with feelings. This man sure is a charmer, isn't he? You know, in these types of situations, I don't allow myself to become a doormat, and yet I...

19 Feb 13

You are either for Jesus or against Jesus? Really?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 18 Feb 13

I have never thought about it This way! Is this viewpoint the reason some Christians hate non Christians? They think they hate Jesus? Wow! I thought non Christians were just people who didn't follow Jesus, period.I thought they...

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LovingLife139 I have heard this opinion before, but I do not understand it. I am a Christian, but I am for my own reasons and because of the experiences in my life that have led me to it. Just as I have my reasons, I understand there are others who have reasons against it...

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I got the job

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 1 Feb 13

I got a phone call, and I was hired. I start next Friday from 4 - 8pm, then Saturday 2 pm - 6pm. This is for training, then it will be Friday 4pm - 8pm, then Saturday 9am - 6pm. It may change when his wife retires in a...

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LovingLife139 Wow. The minimum wage is high where you live. It's $7.85 where I live. I currently make $11.00 per hour working full time for a corporate office near me, which is the highest wage working for someone else I've ever had, and I'm extremely happy with it. Hearing...

2 Feb 13

Do you think that women shouldn't work?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 5 Jan 13

Many people have the thinking that women should just stay home and take care of their husband,children, and home. How do you feel about that thinking? My husband said to me today that I'm basically saying I don't want to be a...

work

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LovingLife139 See, if that were me I'd ask my husband, "Wait, you don't want to stay home and take care of the kids? You don't want to be a father?" There are two sides to that coin. If your husband feels so strongly about someone staying home with the kids, the position is...

6 Jan 13

Would you be ok with working by yourself?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 1 Dec 12

The job at the pet store is famous of this, now that I have a key and code for the store they are constantly leaving me by myself. Now my other job at the worm farm I get left alone but they check up on me. But its out in the...

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LovingLife139 It depends on the job. I've managed offices by myself before, which I consider fun since I like directing myself in my work and tend to do a better job that way. However, working by yourself in retail is ridiculous and dangerous. I obtained a job back in...

3 Dec 12

Long hair vs short hair...

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 2 Dec 12

I'm 65 years old and my hair is down to my waste. The last time I got a haircut was about 10 years ago. I love my hair although sometimes it's a pain to take care of. It takes forever to drive and since I color my hair that is a...

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LovingLife139 Long hair on older women...why the heck not? Based on first impressions only, I would think more highly of older women with long hair than older women with short hair, simply because they wear it in direct opposition to what society says is okay. But...

3 Dec 12

can a business refuse any person who does not pass its standard?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 17 Nov 12

I really do not know how to phrase this, but this topic is inspired by another topic which I recently answered about a barber refusing to cut a woman's hair on the basis of his religion. It sounds ridiculous, but I think the...

business

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LovingLife139 Any business can refuse service to a possible customer for any reason unless it is in direct conflict with a state or federal law. A barber can refuse service if a person is unkempt...a restaurant can refuse service to an offensively dirty person...I am...

18 Nov 12

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I'm In Love Over and Over Again..

montevilla @montevilla (550) 27 Oct 12

We've been married for more than 3 years now and the feeling grows stronger and fonder day after day. I'm in love with her over and over again.I don't think of any ending because all I know I'm in love with her more day by...

love

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LovingLife139 It's so wonderful to see a post that's so optimistic about love and marriage. Too often you hear people talk about marriage like it's the thing that ends love and happiness, when it truly should be a beginning. This March will be my fourth wedding...

28 Oct 12

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Who is your best friend or do you have one?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 6 Oct 12

So who do you consider your best friend? The one you can share secrets with and you know your friend will go to their grave with the secret still all locked up in their head. The one who is always on your side even if...

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LovingLife139 The only person whom has always fit all of the above descriptions for me would be my husband. We have been together for nearly eight years, and we've been best friends the entire time. I tell him everything, and he tells me everything...in fact, for this...

7 Oct 12

Did you get worried about stretch marks?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Stretch marks are results of rapid weight gain or loss. I think most women suffer from this. It is not a disease but it can be a cause of shame for some others and prevent them from wearing bikinis or swim wears or show some skin...

stretch marks

weight gain

weight loss

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LovingLife139 I have stretch marks from my teenage growth spurt on the inside of my thighs and on my butt. To be completely honest, I'm not embarrassed of them at all. It's a slight to even non-existent possibility that someone will be that close to me or...

15 Sep 12

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Do you still keep pictures and things from your ex?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

I just thought of the discussion, ha ha well it was about a few days ago that i have managed to gather up strenght and courage, if you may call it that to erase all the photos of me and my ex boyfriend(who happened to cheat on...

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LovingLife139 I dated a boy in high school for a little over a year, and he wrote me love letters, poems, and even asked me out through a note we were passing in class, so I kept all those things in a little mailbox I had in my room at the time. I planned on keeping them...

15 Sep 12

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What do you want me to call you? Honey?...

Shavkat @Shavkat (140102) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

Let me share this topic with a BIG SMILE. Most of us, we call our partner or ex-partner with endearing name. You know what I mean. What are the common endearing names? Hmmm... Honey, sweety, sweet, babe, babes, baby, dear, honey...

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LovingLife139 I've never heard of using anime names as pet names, but hey, whatever suits the person, I suppose! As for getting uncomfortable because some pet names bring up past relationships, I dated just two people before meeting my husband, and he only dated one and for...

13 Sep 12

Your relationship with your siblings

oyomesan @oyomesan (115) • Netherlands 6 Sep 12

How is your relationship with your siblings compared to when you were younger? Did you always get along or did you fight a lot? And how is your relationship with him/her/them now? As for myself, I used to have lots of issues with...

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LovingLife139 Hi there! Although I am adopted, I was brought into my family when I was just ten weeks old and my older brother was four, so my brother and I grew up as siblings despite having no blood relation. When we were really young (elementary school),...

7 Sep 12

Do You Still Manually Write Things Down? What Was It You Wrote?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 6 Sep 12

We don't physically write anything so much now, do we? However, I still have to physically write in my daily diary, for example. I also use it as a tool for remembering things rather than relying on Google Calendar as I find it...

i love to write

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LovingLife139 I always write things down by hand like this. Calendars, appointments, events, etc. I get on my computer randomly so I can't be certain I'll get a notification when I need it. Also, I have a terrible memory. Once, I tried to use an online calendar program, and...

7 Sep 12

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No MONEY No HONEY

Shavkat @Shavkat (140102) • Philippines 3 Sep 12

I am not sure, if this statement expressed as an idiomatic expression or a phrasal quotation. I've been hearing this from people or even used as their movie line. The mere fact, I don't know any concrete description for this. Let...

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LovingLife139 I think this ideal applies to men and women who are either extremely materialistic or willing to fit within the judgment lines of society. Not many people are willing to develop a relationship with someone who isn't at least contributing in some way, but on...

4 Sep 12

My best friends simply vanished after marriage :(

piya84 @piya84 (2580) • India 3 Sep 12

I am just not in their list of priority any more.Full time job husband and kid,house and aging parents and they themselves.The end of the list. And i though we are going to be friends forever. I am trying to do...

alone life

best friends

marriage

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LovingLife139 I feel your pain. Although, I have to say that from personal experience, people have their availability lessen when in a serious relationship or after marriage, but it completely goes downhill when kids come. My husband and I are child-free by choice and it...

4 Sep 12

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Even If You Hate Your Job... Is There Things You Enjoy?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 29 Aug 12

You often hear so many people so many times saying I really HATE my job. I wish there was more places hiring so I could move on to something else. Or I am only hear for the money, or the benefits. Beats being unemployed, or having...

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LovingLife139 It's funny because personally, it depends on the time of year you ask me whether you'll get a "I love my job!" or "I hate my job!" kind of response. I'm self employed in real estate. I own two residential properties in my city and rent them out to tenants....

30 Aug 12

Young Boys That Don't Have Their Hair Cut

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 28 Aug 12

I mean, boys that are from toddler age to around 10. Can anybody tell me why they don't have their hair cut anymore? Is it the expense? Don't the schools mind? Years ago (when I was at school) the vast majority of...

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LovingLife139 I think it's fashion, honestly. I remember being in school at that age and let me tell you, the boys with the longer hair got a LOT of attention from girls! When my husband was young, his father always had to get on his back to cut his hair...but...

28 Aug 12

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When shall we tell her ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 28 Aug 12

Lotters, i need your opinion in this bit a sensitive issue. Got a legally adopted niece , very intelligent but very emotional one. This baby is 4 years old now yet she still don't know the real situation , our problem is when...

emotional

legally adopted

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LovingLife139 Tell her as soon as she is able to understand what it means. I was adopted as well, and my parents did me a great service by letting me know as a child. I remember knowing as young as six. My mother always told me, "Your birth mother must have loved you...

28 Aug 12