Meryembay

@Meryembay (70)

Turkey • Age 61

Joined myLot 13 years ago

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do

Meryembay's Responses

Our cat is gone...

chicgale @chicgale (2982) • Philippines 4 Apr 12

It's been 4 days now that our cat didn't come home. :-( We tried to look for her but could't find her. I don't know where she is now. We miss her so much even though she is a wild cat. :-(

cat

missing cat

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Meryembay I agree with what others said here..maybe she had kittens somewhere in which case she will only bring them out when they can see- in two weeks time..if that's not the reason then she might just be wandering around and will come home again. Our cat, Lucky, once...

6 Apr 12

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40 and still single.

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 5 Apr 12

Just wondering. If I got married and have a baby when I reach 45 years old when my baby grow up and graduate in college I'm already 65 years old. I think I'm too old for my baby graduation don't you agree? lols. .. Right now I...

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Meryembay In my humble opinion there is nothing wrong with having a baby at age 40 or even 45 but there is definitely a problem if you do not have a job. Babies are not little dolls that do not need to eat and drink and be clothed. Babies need all kinds of care and when...

6 Apr 12

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Do you wear make-up daily?

chicgale @chicgale (2982) • Philippines 12 Mar 12

Do you wear make-up daily? If does, what do you usually wear? Everyday, I always use eyebrow pencil and a lipstick. I just don't like to go out without them.

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Meryembay I do not use make-up since i believe it is just a mask and not the true you. Coloring your face in like a kid with a coloring book is just silly, in my honest opinion. Trying to look like you don't naturally is just hiding from yourself and shows how little...

5 Apr 12

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Picky About Bagging

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 4 Apr 12

Lately I have been more and more annoyed about how people bag my groceries and other things. For one I would really appreciate it if they would bag like things with like things, such as make sure they put the refrigerator stuff...

bagging frustration

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Meryembay Here in Turkey nobody packs your grocery bags for you- you are given bags while they till up the stuff and you have to pack them yourself. I must admit, coming from a country where it was always done for me, it was irritating and sometimes frustrating to have...

5 Apr 12

handing out the title of best responce

laken02 @laken02 (3065) • United States 4 Apr 12

i am getting ready to go thru my posts and hand out best responce to those post that i got that i loved from mylot.. i dont do this very often and would like to do it more and keep it up to date... how often do you choose a best...

mylot

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Meryembay I must admit i also have not done that yet, since i have not been working on mylot for a while. It is soemthing i think i would wait a while and do it like every 2 months or so, to give people enought time to respond to each and to be more fair in choosing the...

5 Apr 12

The trouble with a kitten...

allyoftherain @allyoftherain (7208) • United States 4 Apr 12

... is that she eventually becomes a cat. Well, Nenya is officially a year old and no longer a kitten. I'm kind of sad, I was looking over all her old kitten pictures and missing when she was so small. But then on the other...

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Meryembay Believe it or not - we have 12 cats! We never intended to have any pets since we were living in an apartment and most apartment owners do not allow pets in this country as the culture here is not a pet culture.But one day i heard this hoarse faint cry coming...

5 Apr 12

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why people is not using their real names

karthik111 @karthik111 (660) • India 4 Apr 12

I found many people in facebook they use their real names in facebook profile. mostly they use nick names. I don't know why people hesitate use their real names even people hide their own photos from their friends.There is...

facebook

photos

username

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Meryembay The reason for this is quite simple and obvious. People like their privacy. I do not use my real name on facebook or any such places since there is for one, too many hackers looking to get hold of your info so they can steal all you have. I make sure at all...

5 Apr 12

How do you spend Easter?

daxta88 @daxta88 (125) • Romania 4 Apr 12

Well in my family and pretty much in all the Country, people get together an have a holly meal. There is so much home made food there, that sometimes I wish there where more holidays like this one. Even though the last couple of...

easter

family

traditions

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Meryembay In this country that I live in since 1999, we do not celebrate Easter at all as it does not exist in our religion. That said, in my own country, South Africa, I used to cook a nice meal, but first made some easter eggs and hid them all over for the boys to try...

5 Apr 12

Is it bad for health? Late night sleeping

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 4 Apr 12

I have seen my husband's brother means my dever is not sleep till night 2 or 3 O'clock and wake up in the morning 8 O'clock. I think this is not good habit late night sleeping and not good for health also. What you think no...

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Meryembay Having bad sleeping habits is of course detrimental to ones health. An adult person needs an average of seven to nine hours of restful sleep every night in order for their body to rejuvenate totally. Not sleeping enough can lead to very serious health...

5 Apr 12

Are there legitmate work at home jobs

Kyriana @Kyriana (14) • United States 18 Jul 11

I've been looking for work online and it's incredibly frustrating. When I search, most of the results are for scams that want you to pay a fee or lead to nowhere. If there is a site that seems like they have good information, they...

legitimate work

work from home

work online

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Meryembay If you are living in USA, which it seems you do, then this is a real legitimate paying website that pays you for admin work done: https://www.mturk.com/mturk/welcome. There are all kinds of mundane little jobs to do for them, from writing small articles to...

18 Jul 11

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Is Valentine's Day a big deal for you?

allamgirl @allamgirl (2140) • Philippines 4 Feb 11

I've never really liked Valentine's Day. My best friend teases me that it's just me being bitter that I don't have a boyfriend to celebrate it with. But this year, I have a boyfriend and I still don't want to make a big deal out...

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Meryembay No, Valentine's day has never been special to me even though I do have a very loving and wonderful husband of twelve years already. In my humble opinion it is just another commercially enhanced day to ensure people spend their hard earned money on useless...

5 Feb 11

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How much time do you take out just for you?

housechaos7 @housechaos7 (609) 4 Feb 11

Hi mylotters i was wondering how much time to you take out daily/weekly just for you?because i am mum to 5 children ages 11,13,16,17,19 years old, they all live at home the eldest 3 have multiple disabilities.so i care for them...

out

time

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Meryembay It must be tough to have 3 disabled kids and as much as one love your kids I do think it advisable that you make an effort to have more "me" time. Without that you will get to a point where you just collapse/burn out and that isn't something you'd want them to...

5 Feb 11

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start trying to smoke

sql_cell @sql_cell (1427) • Indonesia 5 Feb 11

Since what age did you start trying to smoke? Why are you attracted to smoking? Is there anyone who influenced you to smoke?

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Meryembay I started smoking at the age of 16 and now at 47 I am still smoking and still enjoying it. Why am I liking it? Simply because it does relax me and I would much much rather smoke to relax than drink alcohol like some people do.No, I decided it on my own and...

5 Feb 11

Travel to a country far away

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 5 Feb 11

I have just come back home from my trip. I didn't tell many people which country I was going to because the first friend I told screamed! I went to Colombia and it was a save place to visit. I went with my three year disabled son...

colombia

south america

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Meryembay I have never been to Columbia so i can not comment on how it is there, but I am a Sotuh African citizen and have first hand knowledge of my country's status on this regard. I would never tell a tourist that this is a safe country to visit because it just isn't...

5 Feb 11

Have you ever encounter terrible people in the subway or train?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 4 Feb 11

Hong Kong is a place which is full of people. You can imagine how it is like when over 7 million people are living in a small island.The traffic is always so pack up and during rush hours,the traffic are always terrible.Recently ,...

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Meryembay On my very first ever trip to China I was molested on a train from Beijing to Harbin. Late at night I woke up on the top bunker from a hand under my blanket touching my whole body - I opened my eyes and saw that it was the train's own security guy! When we...

4 Feb 11