Nikhabele

@Nikhabele (166)

South Africa • Age 45

Joined myLot 12 years ago

If they insist you are not good enough, just say I'm gonna do it anyway.

Nikhabele's Discussions

You know it ain't love when.........

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 14 Jul 12

Your problems is yours and your partner's problems are yours too. And there's a lot of people who hang around anyway, but then again, maybe it's true when they say lovies blind. What do you think?

deceite

love

relationship

5 responses

The appropriate dress code for a telesales job interview.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 14 Jul 12

What's the appropriate dress code for a telesales executive job interview? And which is more powerful, skirt suit or trouser suit?

careers

sales and marketing

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1 person

Singing before speaking.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 17 May 12

What do people mean when they say they started singing before they could talk. You know that interview with the established/successful singer, and the radio host asks, so Christina when did you know that you want to sing?...

singing

talent

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1 person

Why paint a person with a black paint when you break up?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 16 May 12

When people are "happily married" they talk only good things about " my wonderful husband", one day when the wonderful marriage falls apart. She goes to all media and tells how bad a husband he was, how unhappy the marriage was...

breakup

loveless

relations

3 responses

Love

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 13 May 12

This girl receives a WhatsApp message, the person tells her he knows her but she doesn't know him, she tells her what time she gets to work, wha time she goes to tea break ,what time she leaves work and where she lives. She's...

life

love

2 responses

Desperate for wedding.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 13 May 12

My sister has a friend who's so desperate to get married tap hat she'd do whatever it takes to get somebody to marry her. In fact she's not as desperate for marriage as she's desperate for convenience. This lady was married for...

marriage

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1 person

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 12 May 12

Why does this application always expire? And why do you have to have to have airtime to be able to use it meanwhile they when it was starting they were saying it's a free way to send and receive SMS to your loved ones. Im overthe...

1 response

I feel down.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 8 May 12

I feel so low in my mood, and te painful thing is its getting worse as the day goes. I still have six hours to go before I knock off. I know what the problem is, and I also know what the solution is. The problem is, I don't want...

2 responses

Months vs years

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 7 May 12

So this lady calls in on the radio and says she wishes her 30 months old daughter a happy birthday, so the radio presenter asks her how old is 30 months to which she answered, 2 and half years......ok so why didn't she just says...

parenting

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3 people

Nobody is who they say they are.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 6 May 12

In the life we living today, people pretend to be somebody else all the time. Why? I'm not only talking about the love relationship, even friendships. Do you call a person friend, who can't defend you when someone talks bad about...

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1 person

Love at first sight.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 5 May 12

Does this thing called love at first sight really exist? I don't think I understand what that is because according to me, love develops over time. I agree to interest at first sight and then while you spend time with a person love...

dating

love

relationships

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1 person

Why the funny pictures?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 15 Apr 12

Can anyone tell me why many MyLotters Seem to be using funny looking pictures(at least for me). For example, snakes, cats, eagles, undefined pictures and man many more. For me it's more relaxing to see a picture of a person than...

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2 people

Why do people remain in loveless relationships.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 15 Apr 12

A friend of mine is in a relationship with a guy who shows her by all means that he doesn't love her anymore but he claims he cares for her therefore he can't let her go. She, on the other hand is in love for sure and she always...

love

loveless

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2 people

Trust between friends is as important as trust between lovers.

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 14 Apr 12

I had a dispute with my friend some three years ago, and I "divorced" her but it seems she just can't accept it. She betrayed my trust so bad that I lost all the trust and the love I had for her in the three years that we were...

friendship

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2 people

I'm teary:(

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 14 Apr 12

Hi fellows, I'd like to tell you guys that I'm such a tearfull soul that I hate all the time. If I want to address a serious issue with anyone at all, I spend a lot of time "preparing" my mind that I'm not gonna cry, but I tell...

teary

5 responses

What could be the cause of cramps on my toes?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 14 Apr 12

I have recently started getting cramps on my toes, I'm 32, never had a cramp of any sort but sometime 10 months ago I had a funny kind of cramp on my toes. Very recently I do get them time and again and it's such an uncomfortable...

5 responses

Deductions on mylot

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 11 Apr 12

What happens when the question I had answered gets deleted? Do they deduct a little of my earnings? I hope not, and why do they delete a question after days. Isn't it if it's an irrelevant question it has to be deleted...

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2 people

How do I refer a friend?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 10 Apr 12

Hi MyLotters, I'm relatively new here and I'd like to know how do I refer a friend? I know I have a referral link but how does a person I want to refer use it if I haven't linked it to my website yet?

earn by referral

friend refferal

3 responses

Why do people say you should have told me?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 9 Apr 12

Is it wrong that when going through issues in life, say you need some money or help in any way, and you decide to not ask because you know they are all going to turn you down? I don't know what to think because when you need...

6 responses •

1 person

When is a person supposed to introduce his/her new partner to kids?

Nikhabele @Nikhabele (166) • South Africa 8 Apr 12

When is it the right time to introduce the new partner to your children? Do you tell your children who this person is or you tell them he/she's a friend and wait until they figure it out themselves?

new partner

relationships

single parenting

6 responses •

2 people