Shelley121

@Shelley121 (217)

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Do you often argue with your spouse?

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 24 Apr 10

Is it common that you argue on a regular basis sometimes on even minor things. Sometimes I think that I just cannot be understood by the person who is supposed to know me so well and I get so frustrated! It is just a difference on...

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Shelley121 I was talking about this with a friend the other day as I over heard two girls talking and they were saying how fed up they were with arguing with their partners however I was supprised when one of the girls turned around and said how that was life and what...

24 Apr 10

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Need some pointers......

ShadowWalker @ShadowWalker (969) • United States 24 Apr 10

All I've ever wanted to do is write fiction but I have a problem. I can think of plenty of stories to write but when it comes to committing it to paper I freeze up. Absolutely nothing comes out. I can hear the story in my mind but...

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Shelley121 I have the same problem, I love poetry however when I come to write it down it just doesnt come out and sounds awfull. I think when you have something in your head you can think about how it should sound and you can think about it for ever but as soon as...

24 Apr 10

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I know they are celebs, but come on..light up shoes??

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 23 Apr 10

I was just reading an article about Katy Perry and these LED light up shoes. Does she not get enough attention, now people should focus on her feet? I don't know, I think it's a bit strange. Would you wear them? if so...

celebs

lights

shoes

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Shelley121 I think shoes like this for kids are great as it makes them more fun etc etc however as an adult I dont think I would like to ware them as there is just no real reason too to be honest, I suppose if you were enthusiastic about running and you done it in the...

23 Apr 10

is it really favoritism?

Cherwin2010 @Cherwin2010 (878) • Philippines 23 Apr 10

have you ever wondered, 'why can,t parents treat everyone exactly the same?' if so, consider this fact; equal treatment isn't always fair, and fair treatment isn't always equal.really, the question is, are your needs being...

favoritism

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Shelley121 As a parent of 2 children, I know how important it is to treat your children as equals however this is easier said than done as childrens ages need to be taken into account as you would not be able to treat or speak to a 4 year old in the same way you would to...

23 Apr 10

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Have you ever broken the same bone

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 23 Apr 10

more than once? I have. The pinky toe on my right foot. This time I was downstairs, helping my daughter clean up her play area. I stepped on a toy, and actually heard it before I felt it. Wow. It didn't swell or turn colors until...

broken

foot

toe

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Shelley121 Hey there, not good news about your toe and you have now done it twice so thats even worse, lets just hope it doesnt happen again. I have never broken a bone however I do have a knee problem in that both times I have been pregnant, I have dislocated both my...

23 Apr 10

Do you hate it when people blast music in their cars, while driving?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 7 Oct 08

Sometimes, one of the teens will roll through our neighborhood with his music up so loud, it shakes the windows. What's the purpose of that? It doesn't bother me so much if someone is playing their radio too loud while...

amazon music

my life is good

really cool music

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Shelley121 I must admit as a young girl I used to always blast my music out but these days I just look at the people that do it and think that they are showing of becuase lets face it most of them are going around pimping there cars and it's like a big competition these...

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How do you deal with your partner in times of arguments? How do you deal?

dorothy09 @dorothy09 (1520) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

In relationship, it is expected that there is no such perfect relationship, it has ups and downs... In time of arguments, conflicts and problem when your man or woman explains his side do you believe in him 100% or you just...

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Shelley121 I must admit when it comes to arguments in my relationship, I am normally the one that starts as I let things boil to much and then just loose it, but I am in a lucky position where my partner never bites back he just gives me a look that for some reason every...

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girlfriend

shivram @shivram (13) • India 23 Jun 08

hi all of you i love one girl last 5yrs but she cant love me why i dont know, i always meet her in her house and in her collage and whenever she go but i dont know why she is not love me pls send your ideas about her what work i...

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Shelley121 She may not love you in the way you want and I dont think she is trying to heart you but maybe a friendship us is worht more to her, she may not want to lose that friendship you have and therefore has never considered anything else. You have to be open and...

23 Jun 08

Would you sacrifice your happiness for your family sake?

az03r4 @az03r4 (913) • Indonesia 30 May 08

Hehehe, I know this is a fool question. But I think it's quite important to express out our love to our family. Me? I will doing everything for my family sake even if I should sacrifice my happiness for them, during my way is...

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Shelley121 I would do almost anything for my family however I think the way you would need to look at this is by seeing what ever it is you would have to do or sacrafice to make them happy, would it really be the right answer long term because lets face it if you needed...

20 Jun 08

what kinda of happiness do you desire in whole life?

ReeRee0901 @ReeRee0901 (128) • China 20 Jun 08

Different people may have different opinion of their view to happiness, someone may be a warm family, some may be successful career, some may be a big house, some may be finding true love, and so on? what's your happiness that...

happiness

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Shelley121 Hvaing a happy family and seeing my children achieve there dreams is what will make me happy as this will in reflection make me finaly feel like I have been able to achieve something in this world. I personaly dont think there is anything in life that can make...

20 Jun 08

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Arts

blackmantra_x @blackmantra_x (2732) • Philippines 20 Jun 08

Considering you don't have these skills which one would you choose? 1. The art of painting 2.the art of music writing 3. The art sculpturing?

arts

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Shelley121 I would love to be able to have the skill to right music, my partner does this and I think the things that he comes up with are amazing but I just cant get the nack of it, I love to listen to music but this does not help when it comes to trying to put it down...

20 Jun 08

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How did you get out of a abusive relationship?

keelymcilwain @keelymcilwain (797) • Canada 19 Jun 08

I have luckily and not so luckily have been in a abusive relationship in my past. I'm saying luckily because I'm glad it has happened early in my life and I was able to get away from it before it turned bad. I was 20 when I left...

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Shelley121 I was in an abusive relationship jst over 4 years ago and I stuck with it for 3 years and the reason why I stuck around was because I had one moved away from family to be with him and I didnt want them to think badly of me as they told me it was not a good...

20 Jun 08

Do you keep a journal or diary?

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 19 Jun 08

I started keeping a journal for my daughter before she was a year old. Thinking about keeping one for the new baby. Why do you keep one? Are you thinking about starting one?

diary

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Shelley121 I always used to keep a journal however I do not any more and it is more because I learnt that it never got me any where and I would always be so negative in it. I was so sad to read back on it all the time and just decided that it was no longer worth keeping...

19 Jun 08

Have a Great Day !

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 19 Jun 08

Do you feel that saying Have a Great day after every response ,discussion or comment, brightens a person's day? I try to say Have a Great day as much as I Can because I know that it does help brighten someone's day just a little...

make the world a better place

smile

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Shelley121 I dont always say have a great day when I finish my responce to someone but then I always look at the whole conversation and them think of what is a good ending for someone. So for example if I have written a to someone who was looking for advice I would wish...

19 Jun 08

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Just wonder what motivates you??

lynnchua @lynnchua (3412) • Singapore 12 Jun 08

My kids motivates me to be more responsible and sensible. To be a better person. How about you what motivates you? Parents, partners, friends, or whoever?

motivates

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Shelley121 I am with you, my kids motivate me as I want them to see all the good things in life and enjot there childhood and therefor getting motivated each day means that I can ensure these are things are done for them and even on bad days when you may not feel like...

19 Jun 08

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Do you prefer to have more Friends or none

khalique @khalique (14) • India 19 Jun 08

Do you prefer to have more Friends or none

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Shelley121 I have very few friends and this is not because I am not a nice person and cant get any it is because I have some very close friends and that is all I need. Having loads of friends is great however i always found that they were never great friends and you...

19 Jun 08