SultanaH

@SultanaH (80)

Hungary • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

A vision without a plan is just a daydream.

SultanaH's Responses

If you think of yourself as a colour, what colour are you?

SandrainSpain @Sandra1952 (6047) • Spain 3 May 09

I don't want to know the colour of your skin or your favourite colour, I'm interested in how you see yourself. If I was a colour, I'd be red. Red is bright, warm, fiery and doesn't like to be in the background. Red does not hide...

colours

red

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SultanaH I think I'd be pink. Pastel pink. Because I'm kind and sweet. :)

3 May 09

How come life is like an ocean?

SimonTemplar @SimonTemplar (5) • Vietnam 3 May 09

Yes... every time we think we have things settled we get carried off on another wave... why? Are we destined to be moved all the time like this or can we tie ourselves down in one spot and weather the storms around us?

life

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SultanaH Life is like an ocean because there is so many things to see, do, enjoy and experienced. Why would you rather be tied to one port when there plenty of other wonderful places to see? Sure there'd be storms sometimes, that's why we should be masters of our own...

3 May 09

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the story behind your username

babyfazt09 @babyfazt09 (144) • Philippines 2 May 09

Username has already become part of our virtual life. Most of them really catch my attention and makes me wonder why did he/she come up with that certain kind of identity. Why don't you share the story behind your usernames...

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SultanaH Sultana has been pretty much my username on plenty of forums or sites. I first used it 4-5 years ago. You see I was fascinated by anything vampire those days. Once I saw a vampire name generator, so I tried it. Sultana was what it gave me. The H part is my...

3 May 09

How you meet your Love???

ankitbaps @ankitbaps (44) • India 4 Dec 08

I have go through many phases of life and come to know that many occassion are there when you meet your mate but unfortunately you can't even think of that, he/she will be my mate at the next stage of your life... Can you...

love

mate

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SultanaH hi ankitbaps, I got to know my husband through the internet. I was only 18 year old highschool student then, so I wasn't looking for love that time. Same with him. It was his first time chatting in English the day we met online and also he was seeing...

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How to attract responses to your discussions

savak03 @savak03 (6684) • United States 2 Dec 08

What kind of discussions do you like to respond to? I have been noticing that the discussions that seem to have little importance are the ones that get the most responses. The discussions that deal with some intellectual...

disccusions

inteligence

words

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SultanaH Most people come to mylot to relax, have light discussion. That's why people tend to response to discussions that are light and doesn't need much thinking.

2 Dec 08

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What part of winter do you like?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 1 Dec 08

As much as I like to see snow, I don’t like to shovel. I like ice skating during the winter but only if it isn’t too cold. I like skiing in May... In general winter is not my favorite season. I want to move away...

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SultanaH I like winter when I'm watching the snow falling. From the warmth of my apartment. :P Other than that nothing else.

2 Dec 08

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Any one born in July month.?

vimaal @vimaal (3361) • India 2 Dec 08

Hi mylotters, If any one here born in July month.? I born in July month what about you friends.? Which month you born.? share your commends. take care have a nice day.

august

birth

july

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SultanaH I was born on the 25th of July. And here is some weird info, when ever I met someone and I dislike (not hate just dislike) that person, I know that he or she must have a birthday 1 day before or after mine and it's usually true!

2 Dec 08

Controlling Anger

dreamjapan @dreamjapan (409) • Japan 2 Dec 08

My anger that is. We live with my MIL and she is very good at pushing my buttons, I don't know if she does this on purpose or not. The biggest problem is my husbands health, he has just gotten out of hospital, he has heart and...

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SultanaH Your situation reminds me of mine a year ago. We lived with my mil for 7 hellish months. She'd have a conference in the kitchen with my husband talking about me. My Hungarian is very limited but I can understand a lot. Now since you are living with your MIL...

2 Dec 08

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Life has been so unfair to me - Wny me?

maapav @maapav (729) • India 2 Dec 08

How many of you thought like this and how many times? But do you actually think that you are only the person who is suffering pain and yours pain is greater than everyone else's pain. What do you do at that point of time? Do you...

god

life

pain

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SultanaH Believe me, millions of people out there feel the same way. We all feel that our problem is harder than what other faces. In fact it may not be so. But since it is our problem it will always be the most important to us. There's a Hebrew saying that goes...

2 Dec 08

Why do you love your girlfriend/borfriend/wife/husband?

Ant73.com @metababy (90) • China 1 Dec 08

I love she because I make a conscious decision to do so every day.

programmer thinker wife love

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SultanaH Once my husband asked me this question. Why I love him. My answer was, "I don't know". I just do. He said the same. Strange that we don't know why we love each other but we just feel so.

2 Dec 08

What is the gift to your self this Christmas! Did you give a gift to your self?

adapots @adapots (82) • Philippines 1 Dec 08

Every Christmas i give a gift to my self. Im the one who bought that material things and im the one who wrap it. COz im the one who assigned to buy a gift for the family, friend and other people and for sure that i can recieve a...

christmas

gift

self

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SultanaH hi adapots, I have never bought a Christmas gift for myself. Only that when my husband and I go shopping for Christmas, we would buy for each other what we want. That way, we alway get what we want for Christmas. :) I wanted to buy a laptop for myself this...

2 Dec 08

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how you will cope up by missing your family back home?

iluvmyjames @iluvmyjames (84) • United States 1 Dec 08

im currently far away from my family now, i mean my mom, dad and my little brother. im here at other side side of the world, so far away from them, cuz i need to build my own family with my husband and our son. i admit at first i...

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SultanaH I've been away from my family since I went to the University, 8 years ago. I'd go back home every few months. After university I got married. But I could visit them a every few months too. Longest was 6 months apart between visits. Now that I am living...

1 Dec 08

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what are u feeling when your on foriegn land?

iluvmyjames @iluvmyjames (84) • United States 30 Nov 08

i am at a foriegn land right now, place which i never know, place where i dont have relatives, expect my husband and my son, no close friends around, dont know any neigbhoor at all. i feel alone, i feel like im lost, when i need...

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SultanaH I can relate to your predicament. I am in Hungary. Language is the biggest problem aside from the culture. All I can say is, I can't wait to get out of here.:P We plan to go back to my country in 2-3 years. Hopefully, everything will go according to plan.

1 Dec 08

christmas gifts for grown children

creativedreamweaver @creativedreamweaver (7297) • United States 1 Dec 08

This Christmas we are on a tight budget this year as are many folks out there. Normally we give our grown kids each a $50 gift card or check and the two grandbabies get about $50 of presents each. I don't think we can afford that...

gifts for grown children

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SultanaH Christmas isn't about how much the gifts cost. Spend as much as I can afford is the way I'd go. I don't have any grown kids. Only a 3 year old. So for a 3 year old, even cheap toys are great. :) We spent more or less $10 last year on her. A little bit more...

1 Dec 08

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What is Consciousness?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 1 Dec 08

Science can't quantify it. Philosophy can't explain it. Religion can't dogmatise it. Spiritualism can only meditate over it. We all know it exists, but only because we know. We can only offer personal experience, but as you...

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SultanaH Consciousness is the tiny small voices that only you can hear. Other than that, I don't know. But why must find the meaning of things we simply cannot find instead of finding something that we can? :)

1 Dec 08

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Do you think abortion is wrong?

akilaram @akilaram (72) • United States 23 Nov 08

Some of them will go for an abortion to end an unplanned pregnancy.. Do you really appreciate doing so or is it something wrong as its kind of killing a baby? I feel its something wrong.. What do you think?

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SultanaH Moral questions are always difficult to answer. I think it all depends of circumstances.

1 Dec 08