Tambunan

@Tambunan (28)

Indonesia • Age 39

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Tambunan's Responses

Dont you just hate it when your misunderstood?

setsuna26 @setsuna26 (2751) • Philippines 1 Apr 10

There are times that no matter how good you explain your idea or your opinion some people dont get what your mean.Its as if they shut their mind for the possibility of absorbing whatever it is that you have to say and just go on...

crisis

understanding

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Tambunan This happens to me several times a day. One of the greatest adventures in my life is my marriage. I have the best husband I can imagine, but the adventure comes because he is Indonesian and I am American. English is his 6th language and we got married before I...

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have you ever travelled to a unknown place alone?

mydfyang @mydfyang (30) • Bhutan 5 Mar 10

I always dream that one day i will travel around the world alone.Being left alone in a unknown city or surrounded by unknown people,I get a fresh feeling.And trying to sovle the problem unpredicted makes me feel good. have you...

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Tambunan I travelled to Africa alone when I was 18. I stayed for 3 years, living In Kenya, Uganda and South Sudan. Then I went to China and Hong Kong when I was 21. Now I live in Indonesia, am very happily married to a wonderful Indonesian man and plan to stay here...

5 Mar 10

How Would You Know That Your Spouse Is From God?

lendmhe @lendmhe (372) • Philippines 3 Mar 10

Hello! This question has been in my mind for a long time, I didn't know the answer until I found it from that man in http://www.justin.tv/topchannels/ he read it in Proverbs 19:14 says " house and wealth are inherited from...

from god

gift

prudent

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Tambunan THe reason that I know my husband is from the Lord is because I prayed for him. I asked God to help me to guard my heart, and not to allow me to have any real feelings for anyone who was not the "right one" for me. The reason being that I did not want to give...

5 Mar 10

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Household cleaning...

Chad525 @Chad525 (349) • Canada 5 Mar 10

You know the drill...every day/week the house seems to get messy. Dishes to do, laundry piles up.... So what is your least favorite household chore? Cleaning the dishes, doing and folding the laundry? vacuuming? As you can...

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Tambunan mopping. I hate mopping. I don't like the smell, i dont like cleaning the mop after Ive finished, and the results don't last long enough to be satisfying.

5 Mar 10

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Are you in love if so how long did you have to waite to find love?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 5 Mar 10

Sometimes I wounder how much longer I will have to waite to find what people call love. will it be years or months I dont know, of course know one really knows when that special someone will come in to there lives. though I hope...

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Tambunan Hi Apples99. I guess first you have to decide what LOVE means to you. If you are just looking for a warm feeling inside, or that romantic electricity that shoots through your body when your lover touches you, then you can probably find it just about anywhere....

5 Mar 10

Growing Up - What Did You Want To Be?

Beautyfactor @Beautyfactor (1512) 4 Mar 10

Can you remember when you were a child what you wanted to be when you grew up? I was thinking about this because at the age of 11 I made a time capsule and put in it everything that was important to me at the time. When I opened...

childhood

dreams

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Tambunan When I was growing up I wanted to be an Archeologist... I thought. What I was really interested in was skeletons which I'm pretty sure is not archeology , but anyway. I used to go out hiking with a friend who also had the same interests. When I was 11 a...

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What are loose joints? How does it affect us?

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 28 Feb 10

Loose joints what does it mean in elders like what are the disadvantages of this? Are there any particular exercises which we can practice....Is it harmful to have loose joints....

loose joints

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Tambunan If the joints in your hands and wrists are loose, you can strengthen them by these exercises: 1) gently squeeze together the two bones (tibula and fibula?) in your lower arm and then slowly release. This should not be painful, so if it is you are squeezing...

1 Mar 10

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Does your personality change depending on what you wear?

pandaeyes @pandaeyes (2065) 1 Mar 10

Today is quite a sunny warm day. I am wearing my trainers and a thin top with a 'hoodie' over it(hooded sweatshirt or cardigan). When I first bought myself a hoodie, I felt so daring because they are mainly youth type clothing...

personality

uniform

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Tambunan I am totally effected by the clothes that I wear. The same goes for whether or not I put on makeup or jewelry and do my hair. If I've just been working around the house all day, have my hair pulled back and am wearing "house-clothes" then I tend to feel lazy...

1 Mar 10

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Are you your own worst enemy?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 1 Mar 10

Have you ever thought that you might be your own worst enemy? When we experience trouble, doubt or fear, isn't it often true that most of it lies within our own consciousness? If we want to see others smile, than we must also...

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Tambunan Absolutely I am my own worst enemy- "I" being "my thoughts", mostly. I have found this to be even more true since I have been pregnant... good grief. Once I allow a negative thought or a fear to take root, it is so hard to get conquer it. I think worry is the...

1 Mar 10

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Do you like your name??!!

thunderbala @thunderbala (748) • India 1 Mar 10

hi guys do you like your name,i dont like my name because my parents kept it very lenghty and feel odd to write it fully at times,some will be feeling that their name is of older type some will wish a stylish one.so do you like...

life

name

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Tambunan I have always liked my name. When I was in Jr. High and High School my teachers used to start singing every time they took role-call. Why? Because my name is Rio and I was names after a Durran Durran song from the 80's. I love having a unique name.. unique...

1 Mar 10

Parents are The Best Teacher, Do you agree?

myl0t1 @myl0t1 (346) • Indonesia 18 Feb 10

in my opinion, The first teacher we have in our live in the most cases are our parents. They teach us speak, behave ourselves, walk etc..so i totally agree with the statement parents are the best teacher and i would say that...

children

parent

parent are the best teacher

parent teaching children

teacher

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Tambunan I agree, on condition. The condition being that the parent is interested in teaching their child. Many parents, in many cultures, have children simply to perpetuate the family line but do not pour into their children the tender love and care that every little...

27 Feb 10

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What purpose is there really in having children?

mandybeau @mandybeau (279) • New Zealand 27 Feb 10

I am fascinated by people that dfeel the need to replicate themselves. I mean the childis probably going to suffer somewhere along the way then die of some disgusting disease. So if it is a truly caring gesture, it isn't a...

breed

decide

why

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Tambunan I never gave a thought to having children of my own. I never thought I would get married either. I was so happy just being single, traveling the world, and contributing to it what I could as a single person. But then I fell in love, got married and now I'm 7...

27 Feb 10

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