andrew_lbp

@andrew_lbp (44)

Singapore • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How to stop my gf from smoking?, Her health is is declining... (Advice Wanted)

sir_hanz @sir_hanz (29) • Malaysia 3 Jan 07

Hi all..Need your advices. My gf dumped me but after 8 months past, she said she missed me so we kind of got back together. During those 8 months, she started smoking. That's because in her line of work (credit card sales) 9 out...

girlfriend

smoke

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andrew_lbp I would suggest that you introduce her to nicorette gum or patch. It helps the smoker overcome her dependence on nicotine by providing another alternative to nicotine, which is less hazardous than smoking. Over time, she would become less and less dependent on...

4 Jan 07

Friends i Have recived E-mail that i won Million $ Lottery what i do???check it.

suahsan @suahsan (785) • United States 4 Jan 07

HEADQUARTERS National Lottery United Kingdom Spectrum Money Mart United Kingdom No.1a-Bexon Court Carlton...

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andrew_lbp Looks pretty much like a scam. You got to ignore this. There will be many of these messages you could receive frequently. Too good to be true.

4 Jan 07

And Yes it's Friday!

weird_oh_me @LdeL0318 (6400) • Philippines 7 Apr 16

I have started tutoring kids again last Monday. It was fun to work again after almost a month of vacation. But it's also exhausting at the same time. I'm happy I was able to get through the week. I always look forward to weekends....

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andrew_lbp I have started tutoring kids again last Monday. It was fun to work again after almost a month of vacation. But it's also exhausting at the same time. I'm happy I was able to get through the week. I always look forward to weekends. I love Fridays because it's...

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I bothers me how blunt people can be...

cassiem0221 @cassiem0221 (274) • United States 3 Jan 07

I have a nine month old son who has some disabilities. They are mainly mental, however his head shows a physical appearance. He was born with hydracephalus, which is fluid on the brain and also a very large head due to the...

disabilities

manners

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andrew_lbp For the sake of your child, please do not be bothered with this bluntness. Just explained your child's condition normally and not read too much into people's thoughts. We can't change the way people behave and how they think. But, we can control our own...

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Bad Night

Island_Geko @Island_Geko (3759) • Canada 3 Jan 07

I just had one of my wost night on a long time. I had an hour and a half nap and my hun tried to wake me but had a hard time. I knew he was calliing me but it was like my body was fighting to stay asleep and my face was...

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andrew_lbp I would definitely do the same for my wife if she were to have the same medical condition. I'm not doing it out of responsibility. I do indeed love her and would gladly do anything for her that would make her more comfortable. Caring people are not a rare...

3 Jan 07

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Daily Bible Study

Valerie J. Routhieaux @just4him (317238) • Green Bay, Wisconsin 23 Mar 16

Day 4 Psalm 4 Psalm 4:1 < Hear me when I call, O God of my righteousness: thou hast enlarged me when I was in distress; have mercy upon me, and hear my prayer. 2 O...

sacrifice of righteousness

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andrew_lbp Day 4 Psalm 4 Psalm 4:1 < Hear me when I call, O God of my righteousness: thou hast enlarged me when I was in distress; have mercy upon me, and hear my prayer. 2 O ye sons of men, how long will...

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Chupacabra - Does it exist?

fluffleshark @fluffleshark (810) • Ireland 3 Jan 07

Do you believe that the chupacabra ('goat-sucker') exists? I was watching a documentary on the discovery channel about it the other night, and was wondering what other people think. On the documentary they basically talked about...

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andrew_lbp Think I watched the same discovery channel program. My opinion is that if we can reproduce the same effects on the corpses, then this should be a natural phenomenon. For the overnight incidents, it could be that the corpse had been in one location for sometime...

3 Jan 07

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Don't You Hate People That Park In Handicap Parking and are Not Handicap??

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 3 Jan 07

The other day I was at the grocery store sitting in the car waiting for my boyfriend to come out with our groceries, I noticed a van pull up to a Expectant Mother Reserved Parking Spot and out popped a mother with 3 grade school...

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andrew_lbp Same thing happened in my country. We have parking lots reserved for the disabled but many times, this usually end up as someone's "emergency" parking lot. I don't really know what we can do about this. This is a social behaviour and it is difficult to educate...

3 Jan 07

It's official: Britain is a country of drunkards!

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 3 Jan 07

A cabinet minister (Labor Party chair Hazel Blears) declared recently that attempts to reduce the amount of excessive drinking in the UK and move the British towards a more continental European "cafe style" culture may never work...

alcohol

behaviour

health

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andrew_lbp I wonder if the drinking problem could be addressed in the same manner as cigarette smoking. Nowadays, we usually see health warnings on cigarette packaging. I was wondering if we can use the same concept on wine or beer bottles. At least, this puts the risk...

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Truth stranger than fiction

rosebug23 @rosebug23 (1906) • Australia 3 Jan 07

Do you agree that truth is often stranger than fiction. I have started many discussions on here most relating to my life ,or i have responded to discussions using my own experiences, but looking back i think gosh so many things...

experiences

fiction

truth

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andrew_lbp I do agree that truth can be sometimes stranger than fiction. You will always have your critics and skeptics. My advice is not to be influenced by how they think about you and your experiences. You can force people to believe in you and it takes lots of effort...

3 Jan 07

Grandparents raising Grandchildren

audraac @audraac (109) • United States 3 Jan 07

I have a sister that is raising 2 of her grandchildren. Aprox. 5 years ago she was raising all 4 of my nieces children until she had 2 brain anurisms and nearly died and they gave her a 50/50 chance of living. Other family...

grandparents raising grandkids

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andrew_lbp In my society, everyone is so caught up with work. Most times, you see both parents working. The grandparents played a very important role in taking care of the grandchildren. There was a research on this topic and it was found that children who had extended...

3 Jan 07

Eating alone...

Chapman15 @Chapman15 (1492) • United States 3 Jan 07

Today I had to go drop some stuff off at another location and directly after I dropped it off it was time for lunch... Is it just me or do you feel weird when you eat alone? I went to Carl's Jr. and got my food sat and waited....

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andrew_lbp Can understand how you feel. I used to feel that way but not anymore now. I think this is due to the nature of my work. Sometimes, I was so busy that I don't have time to go for meals during lunch hours. I would have to wait til late afternoon before I tuck...

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will technology be the death of us?

4ftfingers @4ftfingers (1310) 3 Jan 07

Over the last few years i find myself sepnding more and more time sitting at the computer, rather than out doing physical activities. this kind of concerns me. it's nice to sit and chat to people from all countries and cultures in...

technology physical activities internet compute

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andrew_lbp This has been at the back of my mind all the while. With the advancement of technology, we are really couch potatoes now. Gone are the days when we have to depend on physical work for survival. But, with more comfort at work, there is no longer any incentive...

3 Jan 07

Horrendous crime in my city!

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 3 Jan 07

There has been a horrendous crime on the outskirts on my city and i don't know maybe most of you must've read about it in the papers ? Its about a psycho serial child killer. It's so gross.. theres this guy and his servant who...

news

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andrew_lbp Its really disturbing and the sad thing is that these crimes are on the rise every year. Maybe this is also related to increase in the number of people developing pyschiatric problems.

3 Jan 07

Do you think that it is rude or helpful to correct some people grammar?

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 3 Jan 07

I have noted a whole lot of people saying that the reason they like my lot is that they get to practice their english skills. Do you think that by rephrasing their response in your return comment in the proper english form is...

corrections

cultures

different perspectives

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andrew_lbp If they are seeking self improvement, then I think pointing out grammar mistakes would not be considered rude. I would suggest that in your return comment, state that you need further clarifications before rephrasing their response. Less impact this way.

3 Jan 07

Have you ever been in a road accident ? Was it bad ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 3 Jan 07

My worse road accident was when a bus bashed into my car. I got a hole on the left side ! I borrowed money from friends and got it repaired right away. went home and told mom there was a scratch..else she would've killed me....

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andrew_lbp I can feel for you. I had only 1 road accident and after that, I decided not to drive anymore. Although the accident did not result in injuries or casualties, I have developed a phobia of driving.

3 Jan 07

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What's your favourite coffee?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 3 Jan 07

I love coffee. And when I saw the myLot coffee cup I wondered what type of coffee everyone likes? Is it espresso, cappucino, latte, mocha, or flavoured coffees? Irish coffee, French coffee? For me, it depends on my humour....

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andrew_lbp For me, it also depends on my mood. Normally, I would like to have hot strong coffee. On weekends, I would go for cappucino or flavoured coffee. However, the coffee bean I have best is Sumatran Madheling. It has strong aroma and body. Try it!

3 Jan 07

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Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome...Mother Poisons Child...

birthlady @birthlady (5609) • United States 3 Jan 07

Mother is caught putting substances into her ill 19 month old daughter's IV line. Suspicious of this mother, police secretly videotaped her as she tampered with her daughter's IV line (a feeding tube) 3 times! This poor child was...

munchausen by proxy syndrome

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andrew_lbp No way! The child should not have to undergo these kind of treatment over and over again. The mother needs psychiatric help. I ever watched a documentary on Munchasen Syndrome by Proxy. Its really scary and most times, the issue was not discovered til the...

3 Jan 07

Telemarketer

cute_missmary @cute_missmary (3866) • United States 3 Jan 07

The phone rang as we were sitting down to dinner. I answered it and was greeted with, "Is this William Wagenhoss?" This didn't sound anything like my name, so I asked, "Who is calling?" The telemarketer said he was with...

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andrew_lbp That's a good move. I had my experiences with telemarketers. Boy, were they insistent. I should employ your strategy next time I encounter another telemarketer. Thanks.

3 Jan 07

would you get rid of your partner if he abused your child?

Nglentasha @Nglentasha (532) 3 Jan 07

Hi this is a personal one for my partner i would just like to know how many of you would keep your partner if they abused your or there own child, and once you found out the truth would you forgive them and carry on a normal life...

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andrew_lbp Of course, without doubt, I will get rid of him. If he can abuse the child, there is a possibility he might abuse you in future. Stay clear of this man!

3 Jan 07