besssia

@besssia (94)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 14 years ago

she flies with her own wings

Responses (41)

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Bossy guard

stuckonu @stuckonu (726) • Philippines 14 Oct 11

Why are there security guards who feels superior to employees and act as if they are the manager or something. I hate it when a guard sticks his nose where it don't belong. Just because they are assigned in checking bags and other...

boss

guard

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besssia Yes, I've encountered that a lot of times back when I was in college! They really wont let us in the campus if we don't have ids. It's really frustrating. What calms me down is the thought that that is why they only do what they do (guarding posts) is because...

14 Oct 11

How many times did you fall in love?

tamago @tamago (30) • Canada 14 Oct 11

Falling in love 3 times is perfect in life.. once ignorant, once impressive, once for a life time.. How many times did you fall in love?

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besssia I really like your thoughts on falling in love. I guess this is a true and honest way to sum up all the time we fall in love. As for me, I have fallen in love a couple of times in my adult life. And once upon a time, there's a puppy love I'm still fond of...

14 Oct 11

What are moles? What are moles for?

viney17 @viney17 (688) • Philippines 14 Oct 11

Moles as in the black dots or thing in our body. Some are flat and some are bulgy, some are in private places. They just pop out from nowhere and remains in your body until the day you die. What really are they? Why they are in...

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besssia I have a mole between my eyebrows and it is very centered. It's funny how my friends and family call me an Indian because of it. When I was younger, you can barely notice it but now that im older, it's very easy to see. And I do look Indian.

14 Oct 11

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We always seem to have something to 'talk about' often...

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 13 Oct 11

At my best days, I could be said to have the ability to talk too much, to give advises even if it weren't asked. I just guess I have something to say on each topic, however, there are times when I must admit that I should shut up...

talkikng

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besssia We are thinking beings. It is just normal for us to be opinionated. We just have to remember to be tactful all the time. Because like you said, sometimes our opinions are unsolicited in some cases. So, let's just remember where we stand in that certain...

14 Oct 11

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do angry workers have the right to complain online?

naim_foroodi01 @naim_foroodi01 (95) • India 9 Oct 11

Today posting every move, thought and feeling on social media sites is a way of life for many adults, particularly the young adults. Employers normally find themselves caught in the middle where they want to use social media...

online angry human rights

rights workers

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besssia They have the liberty to do so, after all it is their account. They can rant all they want but really, it's such a waste of time and energy. Who cares really? The people on their friends' list don't have to hear it. I mean, c'mon. some details in our life...

9 Oct 11

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What makes you cry?

inniewong @inniewong (42) • China 7 Oct 11

Sometimes i just wanna cry baecuse i dreamed of a person that i would never see again, or i was missing a friend that i had been out of touch for a very long time. What makes you cry? Does it really matter to you? Or because you...

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besssia It's been awhile since I last shed a tear. And as a mere human being, there are moments wherein we just want to cry even when there's mo reason. When that happens, what I do is this - I look for a sad movie and watch it with all my curtains drawn and my lights...

7 Oct 11

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Have you ever been stuck in the elevator?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

Yesterday, one of the elevators in our building got busted and people were stuck between two floors 15th and 16th. There were 10 people inside a 20 people-capacity elevator. They were there for roughly 15minutes and people started...

elevator

stuck

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besssia No, and I swear I wouldn't want this to happen to me! I have this fear of closed areas. One time, my bestfriend pulled a prank on me and locked me inside her closet. I cried sitting on the floor like a 5 year old! :))

7 Oct 11

Problem with her EX

sundownkid @sundownkid (115) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

I don't know why I keep on thinking about her ex. I just feel so insecure that somewhere out there he exists and could ruin my relationship with my girl who has his son. I hate it. Get's me homicidal. Please guys, help before...

confrontation

relationship

violence

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besssia There's a reason why he is an ex already so you really shouldn't worry about her past. You are her here and now and maybe if things work out for the two of you, you can also be the same man in her future. Just focus on the two of you. After all, you are in a...

7 Oct 11

Dating with multiple guy

mhelsdelacruz @mhelsdelacruz (160) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

good day . .just wanna know your opinion regarding a single woman who will date a multiple guy. .like this, is it okay with a single girl who will date with a multiple guy in a week like 3 guys in a week . . thanks for all your...

relationship

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besssia I see nothing wrong with socializing with different men. However, as a girl, in my opinion, it's kind of unbecoming to be seen with different men in just a matter of days. We may be in a modern world but still, we girls should take care of our reputation. We...

7 Oct 11

A sister passed away

artistic_temper @artistic_temper (83) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

WE have a sister at church who passed away last Tuesday, she was operated of her MYoma at a government owned hospital but after her operation, the doctor said there were some complications. She stayed for more tests, but along the...

operation

sister

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besssia That is so sad. I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe her death could have been prevented especially now with the technological advancement we have but then again, it is His will after all to take her back already. He always has the last say. Let's just pray for her...

7 Oct 11

With Steve Jobs gone, do you think technology will still innovate quickly?

viney17 @viney17 (688) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

With Steve Jobs gone, a worthy opponent of Bill Gates do you think there is still someone competitive enough to match Bill Gate's brilliant mind? People only do their best when there is competition. We push our mind and body to...

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besssia Of course. He may have pioneered on many things but these days, there are also great minds who are emerging everywhere. But of course, Steve Jobs is a tough act to follow! He was a brilliant man.

6 Oct 11

how to put own profile pic?

evanfred0219 @evanfred0219 (209) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

hi guys!. im new here,i've been here for 3 days now. can anyone help me on how to put my own profile pic?.i've already uploaded a photo but there're no icons to click referring to profile pic. thanks a lot.:)

profile

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besssia Click on this link - http://www.mylot.com/nr/editcustomize.aspx you can now change your avatar :)

6 Oct 11

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Help me to get rid of my toothache

edumate @rollylolly (2843) • India 6 Oct 11

My dentist is out of station . My gums are swollen . I am having terrible toothcahe .Do you have any home made solution to get rid of this awful pain

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2 people

besssia Try to alternate warm and cold compress 15 to 20 minutes each. You can also take over the counter pain medications like aspirin. A simple soft rubbing does help too. I hope you feel better!

6 Oct 11

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Apple Company CEO Died

anitha123 @anitha123 (252) • India 6 Oct 11

Apple CEO Steve Jobs died at the Age of 56. He had done lots of achievements in his life by developing innovative products like iPhone, imac, ipod....Hats Off to his Work. What do you feel about it?

apple

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besssia He may have died but his name will always be passed from generation to generation. His works will always be a part of our daily lives. He surely made the most of his almost sixty years here on earth. Let's all try to be like him, his family background and his...

6 Oct 11

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Drinking alcohol is an evil habit.

RUBESH @Manasha (2861) • Pondicherry, India 4 Oct 11

Drinking alcohol is a major disastrous habit a person has in his life. The habit not only spoils the drinking person, but also others who are surrounding him. Hence,it is regarded the social issue on the whole.The family life is...

drinking alcohol

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besssia Drinking alcohol is really not that bad. It's the regularity and the amount that makes it a bad habit. Too much of something is never good for you. But when we do things in moderation, it's really not all bad. Drinking in that way can be fun too. especially...

5 Oct 11

I Stopped Drinking Coffee

ronadelle @ronadelle (1547) • Philippines 4 Oct 11

I used to love drinking coffee for it's actually what's always there available may it be at home, at work or at stores. I'm not a coffee lover though but I do drink coffee once in a while. But then, lately, I don't know why...

coffee

palpitation

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besssia Me too. I stopped drinking coffee back in college because I get these scary palpitations! Any drink with caffeine in it makes me feel so out of breath. I had to stop. but I miss coffee though.

5 Oct 11

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How to take care of our eyes?

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 4 Oct 11

Good morning guys! I'm not into mylot for few days now 'cause I think I have a problem with my eyes. Also, my kid is not feeling well few days back. I observed that everytime I stayed on my computer for long hours, it cause me...

how to take care of the eyes

vitamins

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besssia I don't think I take care of my eyes well enough. I read even when I'm on a moving vehicle, I sometimes read even with the lights off and only using my phone's backlight. I can't stay long using my pc because whenever I exceed an hour in front of my pc, I get...

5 Oct 11

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Do you use your bathsoap for your hair?

Venkataraman @venkataraman_vc (5293) • Chennai, India 4 Oct 11

Whey I was young, I've seen some people use bathsoaps for their hair. We were using a hair care powder, (shikakai, also known as Acacia concinna), as it was the cheaper than shampoos. Now, we switched to shampoos for ease. It's...

haircare

shikakai

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besssia Bath soap makes our hair dry. I don't think it's a good idea to use soap to wash our hair because it can roughen the texture and even make our hair brittle and coarse. Shampoo is more appropriate to use. :)

4 Oct 11

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What will you do or what did you do after your highschool graduation?

viney17 @viney17 (688) • Philippines 4 Oct 11

So this is my senior year now in high school, and im gonna enter college next year so what should i do ? should i stop for a year to rest? or out of school study to refresh my mind? go to th euniversity right away? or what? i...

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besssia I went to a Catholic school back in high school and they were very strict, we have dress codes and everything. We weren't even allowed to have our nail polished or eyebrows plucked. So when I graduated I decided to have my hair dyed. It was burgundy. You can...

4 Oct 11

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