Cactus2010

@Cactus2010 (167)

India • Age 63

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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I have never understood this...

AidaLily @AidaLily (1450) • United States 11 May 12

Why is it when a woman finds out her man is cheating on her, does she attack the other woman? I have never understood this concept of their partner cheats so they blame the other person. After all some people say that their...

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Cactus2010 The fight is between two rivals, so they fight it out. As far as the cheater is concerned, he is the object for which the battle is on.

12 May 12

knowing everything

erjn @erjnsimon (1191) • Makati, Philippines 4 Apr 12

Did you ever imagine or dream of being a person who knows everything? I am still in college and i am taking up computer engineering because i want to know more about computers. That is my basic reason why i chose it. However,...

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Cactus2010 For knowing everything, you have to be God. So while you may know a great deal about your subject (which you must try to do), it still remains a drop in the vast ocean of knowledge.

6 Apr 12

Am I mistaken or not?

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 29 Jan 12

Am I mistaken or not? All the companies I have been working for did not last long, sorry...its not my problem, its the employer problem. He and she is not very willing to communicate better with me, and when he delegates work...

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Cactus2010 I think you need to have some introspection and honestly too. If one person does some thing to you it is a chance. If two persons do it, then it may be a coincidence. But if it happens again and again, then a closer look is required at our own actions and how...

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Have You Ever Planted Trees?

fannekhan @fannekhan (783) • India 28 Jan 12

Do you think planting trees is the best way to fight pollution and global warming? I remember living in a township where planting of trees over a decade brought about so many pleasant changes. The climate underwent a gradual...

trees

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Cactus2010 Yes. I have planted many trees. It is true that trees make a significant change in local climate. In our place where we have planted many trees, there the temperatures even in summer are cooler than else where. Some times I have a thinking that we should have...

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Does a boss admits his or her mistake?

beamer88 @beamer88 (4259) • Philippines 19 Jan 12

The president of our company had recently started micromanaging one of our newer departments. Her experience however in this field pales in comparison with those of the employees who have years of experience. Lately, she's been...

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Cactus2010 All good bosses admit their mistakes. I had few such bosses. But more often than not, the ego of position prevents most of the bosses from admitting mistakes, whereas, if they do admit, then their credibility will increase.

19 Jan 12

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how many time can two people stop being friends?

ladybugr2d2 @ladybugr2d2 (575) • United States 5 Jan 12

I started talking to my ex best friend yesterday I don't know if i fully forgive her but i miss her and her son a lot and she was my best friend for over 15 years. So am i doing the right thing by talking to her. she did not say...

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Cactus2010 Do not allow small incidences to spoil an otherwise beautiful relationship.

8 Jan 12

will i study medicine even if i am not sure whether i like it or not?

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

parents

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Cactus2010 You can appear for an aptitude test to find out which career would suit you temperament and talents. What are your natural skills and what are your stregths. which career would be best for your personality type.

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Do you believe that LOVE has always Matter..?

Premods @mods196621 (3652) • Philippines 3 Oct 11

Hello friends here.. I have one common question in my mind about the love .. is this always had matter? Matter in any form of different shape or aspect, like age gap, height, size and a lot more.. For me no matter for...

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Cactus2010 "All Love is sweet, given or returned, Common as light is love, And its familiar voice wearies not ever, They who inspire it most are fortunate, But those who feel it most are happier still" -Shelley

3 Oct 11

I want to be positive but I keep going back to being depressed

gracemanotoc @gracemanotoc (641) • Japan 2 Oct 11

Please advice how to turn my life around? I am a good person I believe, I'm a good worker and a good lover but last year everything turn sour in my nice life and no matter how hard I want to be positive still everything seemed...

advice

depression

lucky

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Cactus2010 I must that -have faith in yourself and your abilities. This is a temporary phase. times change and so does everything. Disappointments are part of life. While one has to learn lessons from them, one need not take them to the hearts. Most important is that...

3 Oct 11

Selling the virginity!!.. Is this a good way to make money?

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 20 Sep 11

Maria Ramirez $5.000 dolares price.The first Dominican woman who did it.A bussines man of that country accepted the proposition and did it. "Unigirl" $10,000 dolares price. Natalie Dylan Californian woman $5 million...

selling the vinity

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Cactus2010 It seems that all Governments are pulling out from education and health system. That is running away from the responsibility. Education system should not be so expensive that it is out of reach of common people. The deserving students must get opportunity to...

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How come a mother buy to her baby two years old cigarrettes?

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 18 Sep 11

Aldi is a baby of Indonesia who smokes two boxes of cigarrettes daily his mother says that she buys the cigarrettes because he begins to hits himself on the floor if she doesn't give him that. His grandpa says that there is no...

smokers babies

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Cactus2010 It is not good for anybody to smoke 2 packets a day baby or grownups. I too am shocked that this could happen.

20 Sep 11

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What is more important to you: sportsman spirit or win in a game?

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 16 Aug 11

M.L.Dhoni, skipper of Indian Test Cricket team now visiting the UK, called back Bell, an English Test cricketer, as a token of sportsman spirit and lost the second Test against England. The same attitude was shown by...

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Cactus2010 When you are not winning the game is better not to take advantage of minor technicality. In any case India would have lost reinstate bell or not. I think Dhoni has done a right thing.

16 Aug 11

Do you acknowledge your mistakes?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 13 Aug 11

I don't have a problem acknowledging my mistakes or saying I'm sorry. For some doing this is very difficult. I'm a real mellow person and don't feel that it is such a big deal to apologize when I'm in the wrong. If I do something...

acknowledge mistakes

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Cactus2010 Absolutely. The relationship gets stronger if you acknowledge your mistakes easily. Initially it was hard for me but now I can admit my mistakes quite easily, even after a very hot argument.

13 Aug 11

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Why didn't she see it being "single" is a blessing?

jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 31 Jul 11

It creeps me out when a friend who was single for years is getting married. I never heard that she is going steady with a guy. Never did she mentioned she is dating and out of sudden, one afternoon break, she called and sending...

quick marriage

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Cactus2010 Sometimes being single may become very scarry for some people. They must be feeling acute relationship vacuum around them. They may feel that some relationship (even though it may not be very intimate) is better than having no relationship at all. Perhaps this...

12 Aug 11

What do you do when you had a bad day with work?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 12 Aug 11

I had a bad day with my work, sometimes It's just hard to do some procedures and I felt that I'm doing my best but it's not enough. I don't know what's wrong but I'm really trying hard. Do you get what I feel? (sigh…) am I too...

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Cactus2010 Sometimes you need to talk about all these with your seniors or other better people in your place to get some better perspective and some advice. you may feel lot better. Everyone gets a bad day once in a while. When I have a bad day, I ponder to find out what...

12 Aug 11

If there's no trust anymore

FickleSky @FickleSky (140) • Philippines 12 Aug 11

What would you do if you don't have the capability to trust your partner anymore because of the many times he/she has lied to you? Would you still fight for your relationship/love for him/her?

love

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Cactus2010 It is time to say goodbye if your circumstances permit. Sometimes we are so lonely that a sour relationship also looks better than not having any relationship.

12 Aug 11

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