casper65

@casper65 (38)

United States • Age 59

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I am feeling guilty and sad. Please help

cultoffury @cultoffury (1283) • India 18 Feb 07

Yesterday, I told some secret about my best friend to some one else, which she came to know. I never thought it was a "secret" and I should not tell it to anyone, if I had, I would never have told. But, then she came and asked me...

betray

friendship

love

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casper65 I think you were very casual about sharing the information without feeling for the person involved.Her asking you made you realise the severity anyways having realised it only teaches us to be more careful when talking of someone. The Person involved has...

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Here in myLot do you think is the right amounjt of discussion to post per week

killahclaire @killahclaire (3665) 18 Feb 07

For those of you who know me, you probably noticed I dont start too many. I'm trying to be polite and not just write rubbish so I am very selective generally over discussions I start. SO often in here I read so many posts which...

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casper65 A discussion should be started when one feels like getting a few opinions on a topic.I dont think one should restrict it to some number but be free to express it when one feels like it. I started 2 discussions but never got much response ,so I would like to...

18 Feb 07

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Do you get nervous about sarting something new?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 18 Feb 07

As many of my friends here will know, tomorrow I am starting a new job. It is still within my original company, but is a 2-month contract, that will involve some very long hours and quite a lot of stress, and hassle, and hard work...

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casper65 Everynew situation makes a person feel little unsettled initially.A job change within the same organisation or having a change of boss or changing the job & company makes it new to handel & little uncomfortable. Sometimes we may work hard but the boss may...

18 Feb 07

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Would you tell your partner?

SageMother @SageMother (2277) • United States 17 Feb 07

One of my nuttier friends had an affair and got a sexually transmitted disease. Its not one of those that can lie dormant for years either so its pretty obvious she got it from ther little stud. Now she is trying to keep the...

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casper65 One should definitely tell mistakes happen to evryone.By hiding the truth can not be supressed.Moreover one is responsible for the other person in marriage.If a peraon loves the other person surely it will be told. if it can be treated then medical advice...

18 Feb 07

What's wrong with Britney Spears?

astromama @astromama (1221) • United States 17 Feb 07

Usually I try to limit my intake of celebrity culture, but the downward spiral of Ms. Spears has actually got me concerned. Mainly because she has two young children. With the recent crotch-flashing, drug bingeing, bad girl...

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casper65 I think she has been under the attack of media,they have made her life misserable she cant even lift her legs these guys are out to click everything. She is a very normal person like others but that everything she does has been discussed in the open. Coming...

18 Feb 07

Living Spaces and Attitudes!

byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 17 Feb 07

My question now is do your surroundings effect your attitude? Does a messy house or apartment make you feel depressed, unorganized, or non-productive? When your living space is neat and clean to you feel happy and positive?I know...

attitudes

living spaces

people

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casper65 Oh a very messy room to stay in would be the most difficult thing for me.It just brings about indiscipline to the fore and lack of clarity.An organised & clean and well kept room gives a good signal of calmness & order.The kitchen has to be uncluttered clean...

18 Feb 07

why is life worth living?

smuggeridge @smuggeridge (2148) 16 Feb 07

I was just waliking home from the pub and on the way we came aross a car on its side with its roof cut off. On the floor was lying a young woman who didn't look very alive to me, she was being treated by paramedics but it didn't...

life

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casper65 When we come across these sort of incidents we begin to feel about the fragility of life.We generally keep looking forward & planning ahead taking things for granted. I remember a person who had gone for a family reunion & there he suffered a stroke.How ever...

17 Feb 07

my boyfriend did not spend valentine with me...

djmarion @djmarion (4898) • Philippines 16 Feb 07

hey, i just want to share this with you...my boyfriend and i were together for more than 3 years now and i could says within that span of time he has been a very ideal man that any woman could wish for, he is very supportive,...

love

relationship

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casper65 The problem here is lack of communication & when we dont talk one starts to think a lot.You have said that he is a very understanding & ideal person.Then for a sudden change you must talk & find out. I am sure you dont want to label him & be suspicious...

17 Feb 07

A Bad Case Of Fatal Attraction

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 16 Feb 07

What would you do if your daughter brought her boyfriend home and when your daughter was out of the room their boyfriend made a pass at you? He is extremely good looking and young. You know that if you told your daughter she might...

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casper65 Well here we talk of guy who is home & then makes a pass,& that he is handsome!!! & daughter not believing !!! Everyone makes wrong choices at some point so if this guy behaves likes this the most proper action would be to let him underatand of our...

17 Feb 07

No Smoking Please!

lvap0628 @lvap0628 (731) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

How do you get somebody to quit smoking? I've been asking my husband to please stop smoking or at least minimize it, but to no avail. It started as an every after meal thing (to lose that filled-belly feeling, he said), but now he...

health

smoking

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casper65 Smoking is an addiction & very difficult to leave.External help could be in the form of some chews to create a distaste for smoking or de-addiction.Whatever be the help there is a final deciding factor of choice element of stopping it.For everything to...

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School cancelations oh no, but....

byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 14 Feb 07

I had a restless night last night and actually slept late for me this morning but was woken to the sound of the phone ringing at 6:10 a.m. It was a recorded message from my son's school, "Good morning and Happy Valentines Day...

parent notification system

schools

winter

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casper65 Wow that is nice.Here we can hear such recorded message when we call up the school to enquire whether it is a working day. However the silver lining is the the school calls home to do a safety check when the child has not attend school on a particular day!

14 Feb 07

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Your Thoughts on Getting Old

cuddleme01 @cuddleme01 (2725) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

We grow old every day or should I say every second. Growing old is something we cannot stop, nor delay. We age as the clock ticks. Do you fear getting old? Do you fear not being able to do the things you normally and ably do now?...

thoughts on getting old

white teeth

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casper65 The truth is even though we are growing old every moment. In relation to our interactions with our parents spouse & children we tend to think that time is static and deal with them the same way.As regards dealing with it we tend to change our habits in terms...

14 Feb 07

Are your cats inside, outside or both?

SxyFlGrl315 @SxyFlGrl315 (306) • United States 14 Feb 07

There is always the debate on whether a cat should be able to live outside or if it should be kept in at all times. I am the proud owner of 4 cats and they are all inside/outside cats meaning they come and go as they'd like. I...

cats

inside or outside cats

pets

population

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casper65 wow pets are good but just cant imagine that your are abel to take care of 4 cats & 4 dogs.I have a cat 2 years old it is a inside outside cat.I think every animal would like to be out in the open for some time.Initially we used to be scared thinking whether...

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is it me or is this happening to you too

missyd79 @missyd79 (3438) • United States 14 Feb 07

I have been without a computer for a couple days, but i have been working my butt off this past week to get caught up so i figured that i would earn alot of money in this past week because last month i posted like 100 posts in one...

less money

mylot

post

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casper65 Its 4 days that I joined this site my earnings till date is .25(cents).This appears to be awful I would like to know if anyone has made money on this site.If so if some one could help to understand how to go about it in earning.

14 Feb 07

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Data entry jobs on the Internet - Are they genuine - Do they pay - any such site

casper65 @casper65 (38) • United States 13 Feb 07

At the very outset when people hear about data entry jobs on the internet the reaction is "All scams".With so much material on the internet to read regarding such jobs it makes one think is it all Scam. I would like to hear...

genuine data entry job sites

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casper65 Thank you for the response,I will try the site you mentioned

14 Feb 07

Heavy weight wrestling !!!

casper65 @casper65 (38) • United States 13 Feb 07

I have seen heavy weight wrestling on TV on many ocassions I felt that these people are cheating the viewers .The bouts shows severe violence can anyone go through it & still be alive?.Usually they show a guy recieving all the...

heavy weight wrestling

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casper65 True as you said it is entertainment with some reality components.Further there is no compulsion to watch as one has a choice.But thought to write about the same as it contains lot of drama & one gets a feeling are they taking the spectators for granted.

14 Feb 07

"Girls Gone Wild" ...Should they be allowed to Advertise on Network Television?

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 13 Feb 07

Imagine for a moment that it's Friday night, a little after 11pm. You're watching television with your 13 year old son when, suddenly the show you were watching gets overthrown by the obscenity of the "Girls Gone Wild"...

girl gone wild

network advertising

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casper65 True this is a major issue,just like grading of movies for watching advertisements must also be graded.It would be very embarassing to watch such stuff with kids.Nothing of such should be shown without proper information & notice.

14 Feb 07

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private diary!. keep it Private!.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 13 Feb 07

privatE and i mean private!. not to be viewed by anyone else but me!. that is my diary.. my diary is a very private thing to me and i would hate it if someone read it.. anyway i was so shocked when i learned that my hubby has read...

life

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casper65 writing a diary is a very good habit it helps us to write our very feelings & feel relieved having written down. Yes one gets a very bad feeling when one knows that somebody has read it.It is something very intimate your feelings are correct however the best...

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