colorfulseafish

@colorfulseafish (82)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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What motivates you to work?

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 26 Jan 11

What motivates you to work? Is it money? Or personal growth? If you say money, then you'll probably end up working as one of those people who are sick and tired of their lives. In Japan, they commit suicide because of...

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colorfulseafish in fact,money is the main factor for me.i come from China and i'm the only child of my family.i must work hard to support the whole family.but i also agree that personal growth is important.for me,if the work can provide me both good payment and personal...

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Love without friendship

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 25 Jan 11

Everyone knows that every love relationship starts with friendship. The fact that people prefer friendship so as to know each other.. But nowadays people do things express way.. skip the friendship and go for love...

friendship

love

relationship

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colorfulseafish friendship is the base of love,especially if the two want to be married.being friends means you two may have a lot in common:same interests,same hobbies,and many other things. so when troules come,you two may have great courage to face them.and your love maybe...

26 Jan 11

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I bring an umbrella all the time, even when it's not raining.

thebassdude @thebassdude (342) • Philippines 23 Oct 10

I guess I'm one of the rare breed of men who bring an umbrella with them all the time. It's always in my bag, I never take it out. If for someone reason I don't feel like bringing a bag, I have a smaller umbrella that fits in my...

fashion

rain

umbrella

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colorfulseafish i think it depends.in some places,the weather keeps changing rapidly even in a day.so it's necessary to bring an umbrella with you all the time.but since it's heavy and costs too much space,i seldom carry one with me.

23 Oct 10

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an easy to breaking up with a guy or a girl

lynlypiochy @lynlypiochy (706) • Philippines 3 Oct 10

I have been in a couple of relationships and I know that there is no easy way to break up with someone. Someone always ends up getting hurt. Either it's you, or the other person. I tried breaking with someone over a text message....

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colorfulseafish when breaking up with someone,you will undoubtly hurt him.once,i broke up with my bf by sending him a letter,and another time,i did it by sending text message.i can't agree with you more that talking face to face with someone is such a cruel thing,the one may...

4 Oct 10

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In your case, does long term relationship works?

beauty_denia @beauty_denia (41) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

Base on my experience long term relationship works only if there's trust, honest and understanding. I've been going out with the guy for almost 8 years. Long distance relationship is not easy and very expensive. Your honest is...

relationship

work

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colorfulseafish long distance relationship is hard to keep.in fact,i am now caught in this trouble.he works far away,and has little time chatting on the net,so we can only call each other during the night.as we live around different friends circle,our topics become little and...

18 Sep 10

Can we trust a friend?

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

How often do we get disappointed with friends and colleagues? We thought we know the friend well enough when suddenly ... Oooopppsss! The friend does something that takes us by surprise big time and in a negative way! We don't...

behind the mask

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colorfulseafish in my opinion,friends that you made with when you were young are truly friends.i mean maybe before you go to college or step into the society.because at that time,people are always naive,they talk with you heartly.there are not so much interest conflicts among...

20 Aug 10

can the love of money ruin a relationship?

keshia2007r @keshia2007r (2880) • United States 15 Aug 10

ok, so my boyfriend is always working! He bascially set his own hours. I understand the fact that you bascially need money to live, eat, sleep and all. but it's sunday!! I let him work all last week didn't complain once about his...

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colorfulseafish i am not sure it's right or not.as he loves you very much,he works very hard in order to give you fabulous fortune to make you happy.but as women,we always expect our boyfriends to spend more time with us,talking,shopping,watching movies,or something else.so...

16 Aug 10

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is it okay to be loved/courted by twins?

attente @attente (986) • Philippines 7 Aug 10

I have this friend who is courted by twins, not at the same time though. The three of them have been friends for a while because they graduated from the same university. They already know this girl and admire her from the start....

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colorfulseafish sounds like a tv series:) for me,i think it's ok to accept boy2 if your friend really loves him.true love exists all the time,there is no wrong if twins love the same girl.you should not be awkward about that.if the girl loves boy2,and if boy1 really loves...

11 Aug 10

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Why people stop posting because of late earnings update?

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 6 Aug 10

It's funny that people feel discouraged and stop posting or post less when their balance isn't updated.It's the same Mylot that was yesterday.Nothing has changed.Your money hasn't gone anywhere, don't worry.Keep posting because...

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colorfulseafish i don't think so.when i signed up here,i didn't just treat it as an earning money website.i just hoped to improve my english.and i also feel great when i can make lots of friends all over the world.posting is just a funny thing to me,and i don't consider money...

6 Aug 10

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do men have sweet tooth too?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

most of my guy friends don't like to eat any form of sweet foods..cakes, pastries and chocolates.., Even my boyfriend too.. so i am wondering if sweets are just for women.. or are there some guys out there who craves for sweets...

sweets

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colorfulseafish as a woman,i really love sweet food.candies and chocolate is my favorite.my bf love sweet a little,he only loves cakes.maybe sweet food is only for we women.:)

5 Aug 10

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i love you goodbye...

sincerelyne @sincerelyne (156) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

if there's a beginning,it also needs to have an ending. but the hardest part is,to say, i love you but i need to say goodbye,there are some instance in a relationship that maybe need to let go even if the love still there,not all...

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colorfulseafish yes,this tragedy did always happen.maybe the two love each other very much,but there are too many unexpected reasons forcing them to depart,such as long distances,disagree from families,lacking of money,etc.no one expects to see such things happen,but when it...

5 Aug 10

Are you a shopaholic?

triselle @triselle (55) • Canada 4 Aug 10

I am. Everytime I go to the mall or store, I'll have to buy something. Most of it's makeup, cosmetics and fashion accessories. I can't help myself buying all these things, my makeup bag is almost flooded with a bunch of makeup...

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colorfulseafish I think i am not.if i find i lack of something,i will go to shops to buy.most of the time,i prefer staying at home or surfing the net to shopping.i heard of someone saying:shopping is the women's nature.but i just hope you could learn to control yourself.maybe...

5 Aug 10

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Ok, I really am starting to get mad now!

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 4 Aug 10

I get on really well with one particular neighbour but her son is really doing my head in. He keeps throwing stuff over the fence into my garden. He once threw a rusty old bicycle wheel over and when I confronted him about it he...

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colorfulseafish well,the question sounds really annoying.but I thinking talking to his mother is the best way to solve the problem.as he is 13,he should tell what is right and what is wrong.and as you are just his neighbor,you'd better not quarrel with him.if his parents...

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It is good to love her..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 3 Aug 10

I have completed my graduation degree last year and i'm working in a office which is little bit far from my home so i use to go in bus. In that bus many school students also go on that time when i use to go. So there is a girl...

love

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colorfulseafish she is tryly so young for you.if you approach her at present,you may scare her.and if you wait her for years,are you sure till then she still have no bf?it's really a risk for you.and i think you should have a deep thought.

3 Aug 10

Do you contact you lover every day?

l415565972 @l415565972 (36) • China 2 Aug 10

Do you call you GF/BY every day? Do you chat her/him online every day? Do you think it is the best way to keep the feeling? Why I feel that is boring and disgusting? I desire a loveship when I was single. But, I desire free...

love

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colorfulseafish i have the same trouble with you.my bf works in another city,and he usually gives me calls 2 or 3 times every day.i know he loves me very much and so do i.but i can't bear so much phones calls.because we hardly have anything to talk about,except"did you have...

3 Aug 10

What can you say about irresponsible parenting?

ronaldallan1916 @ronaldallan1916 (154) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

Last night, my friend posted a link of an article. It is actually a headline news in Japan. It is about a divorced woman who had become tired of caring for her children. She just wanted some free time. She just wanted to enjoy and...

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colorfulseafish it's a pity that this kind of parents does really exit.a few days ago,i also saw a terrible news that a mother ruthlessly beat her daughter to death.in my opinion,these parents should be punished by the law.the time when they decided to have children,they must...

3 Aug 10

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do men prefer women who can cook?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 3 Aug 10

Hi..me and my boyfriend are always together in their house.. when his parents are not around.., they will leave the budget for food to me.. and i will decide what will be our meal..but the problem is.. i'm not good in cooking..yes...

cooking

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colorfulseafish there is a famous saying in our country:"if you catch the man's stomach,you will catch the man's heart."funny?in my opinion,men usually prefer those women who can cook splendid food.i think delicious food is the first important thing,as after marriage,you two...

3 Aug 10

Getting a tattoo of someone's name

saizo6 @saizo6 (2199) • United States 2 Aug 10

My friend wanted to get a tattoo of her boyfriend's name but I keep telling her that it's not really a good idea. Tattoos are permanent things (sure you can remove them but that's expensive) after all and it would be strange to...

name

tattoo

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colorfulseafish in my country,the one who get tattoos is seen as evil ones.my boyfriend will never agree me doing this,and i will never have that try.there are so many ways to show you love somebody,why you just choose it?if you love your bf or babies,you can treat them...

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Desperate teen wondering about money in life

Gioben @Gioben (7) • Panama 2 Aug 10

I am a teen , of highschool in a thirdworld country. I am not in a bad economic situation but, I think money is very important, not the most important thing, but very important. I have tried many ways of making moneys, and trying...

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colorfulseafish as a teenage,i personally don't think you can make big money.but you can make a little money to begin with.for example,you can find some part time job or go to some paying website.and if your writing skill is good,you can write to some magazines.but...

2 Aug 10

Do you ever give money to homeless people or others who need it?

m_perez @m_perez (506) • United States 1 Aug 10

Well I have given out money to those who have asked me. One day a women with really worn out clothes was walking around asking people to give her money. Then she came up to me and I reached in my pocket and gave everything that I...

homeless people helpless

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colorfulseafish yes,sometimes i do.when i see someone really poor and miserable,i couldn't help but give them money.but recently,there are truly some people disguising themselves as poor ones and asking money in the streets.i am totally shocked by this.and nowadays i seldom...

2 Aug 10

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