disiweijay

@disiweijay (24)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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what is your top three(3) PRIORITIES IN LIFE....??

jenely103085 @jenely103085 (79) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

WELL.. i am goal oriented person.... my first priority in life is Education... this is what my parents do not think about this before ... all what they think is to eat three times a day.. but they change when i emphasized and give...

education

family

money

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disiweijay to me the first priority in life is healthy,coz only keep healthy so that you can do what you want to do.such as making money making friends and taking care of your parents.the second is family include my friends.coz when you r down they can lifts you up in...

9 Oct 09

what are the things you do when you are under stress?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 19 Sep 09

when i am under stress i just want to be alone,i do not want any noises.i also want to sleep when i am under stress and i ate a lot just to forget my problems for the meantime.i also listen to mellow music it makes me relax.what...

under stress

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disiweijay If i under stress probably i would listen the diffirent kinds of light music.the light music enable me to ease the stress.Instead of thingking about the problem i encounter i just immerse myself in the music.Then i will find that stress are disappear.It's...

21 Sep 09

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Do you always expect for your best friend to help you?

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 16 Sep 09

I know that we often depend on our friends when we have problems and specially when we can't confide with our parents. and many times that it is easier to talk our problems out to our friends. But do you get disappointed when...

friends

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disiweijay I would not always ask my friend for help as soon as i get a trouble.First i would try my best to cope with the problem.If the problem i encounter was really far beyond my abilities that i can't solve it by myself.Then i would share the difficulty with them.as...

21 Sep 09

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What do you do with books that you don't want anymore?

842484 @842484 (103) • United States 11 Sep 09

I have a bunch of books that I don't want (mostly novels and some textbooks) and I don't want to toss them in the trash. I was thinking about swapping them online. I can't remember the name of the websites right now. The way it...

books

sell

swap

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disiweijay If the book is really very important then i will save it cause someday it is useful as well.the rest of my book maybe i will give those who need them.Sending book to the library seem like a good choice.

14 Sep 09

Who Would You Save?

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 13 Sep 09

If you are in a sinking boat... with all of the people who are dear to you...(your mom, dad, son, daughter, husband, wife. brother, sister... bestfriends, boyfriend...) and circumstances only allow you to save "ONE"...

life

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disiweijay it's a very very very``tough choice and a situation which seems not to occur forever.If i have to choose one i will save the one who is next to me.

14 Sep 09

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Which is your favourite Cartoon and Why?

Iriene88 @Iriene88 (5343) • Malaysia 13 Sep 09

I believe each and everyone of us has a childhood memory. Our favourite cartoon now and then. My son and I still enjoy cartoons and animation movies very much! Recently we watched Disney-Pixar latest animation movie 'UP'....

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disiweijay I like many cartoon when i was a child.In the company of the cartoon i go through my childhood.but i can't tell many cartoon's name in english.If i have to choose one from which i know their english name.i will choose astro boy.LOL``

14 Sep 09

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studying hard will pay you someday

angguloy @angguloy (85) 13 Sep 09

This is what I call GOOD KARMA. There are many students who are not taking school seriously because they don't like to look nerdy and enjoys the pleasures in life. But, I believe that there are more mouth watering and worthy...

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disiweijay This is a belief which i always hold.maybe you will not as successful as your expectation.but if you are not study hard obviously you will get nothing.Studying hard is a attitude which will affect your altitude.

14 Sep 09

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Do you ever get jealous of a friend's success?

giada7raine @giada7raine (103) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

Whenever you see a friend living the life that you want or becoming successful in his/her life, do you ever feel envious? Sometimes we have goals in life that are hard to achieve but it seems to be easy for your friends to get...

jealousy

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disiweijay i suppose i won't jealous of my friend's success.If those who do jealous their friend's success then they will on a endless road with full of jealousy.At last you will feel tired and hopeless.As you know there are more than thousands people are more successful...

6 Sep 09

What is your favorite way of relaxation ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 31 Aug 09

Hello dear myLotters. With busy schedules each day, we have to find time to relax. With my full time job taking hours and hours each day, by the time I get home it is close to 9 pm. So tired and exhausted ! So, I have to have a...

relaxation

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disiweijay Relaxation is absolutely important for people who are under pressure.To me if i want to get rid of the stress.usually i maybe choose one or two classical film from my hard disk to watch.Then i will feel nothing but the plot of the movie maybe I just lost...

3 Sep 09

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A few real friends or a million fake ones, which would you prefer?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 17 Aug 09

Huggs to all of my true friends, so hey guys and girls, I'm over there thinking, which would you rather have, a few real good friend, or a million fake ones? Actually this topic happened to pop up in my head as I was commenting to...

fake friends

true friends

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disiweijay in my opinion true friends are those who can share your sorrows but not your happiness.when you're down and the world seems dark and empty.the true friend will lifts you up in spirits and make that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.they also...

19 Aug 09

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Are you "the talker" or "the quiet one"?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 17 Aug 09

My sister just called a few minutes ago. They had company for four days from California and her brother in law talks all the time....to the point where she said she just went in the bathroom sometimes for peace and quiet! LOL....I...

family

noisy

one sided conversations

peace and quiet

talker

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disiweijay outgoing doesn't mean that i should talk all the time```introvert also does't mean i should quiet all the time.It all depends on what the occasion is.``some serious occasions i will be very quiet just like a tree.LOL```while sometimes i will be very active...

19 Aug 09

Are you in good terms with your parents?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 31 May 09

I am. Though I most of the times like chitchatting with my mom best. But I'm in good terms with both of them. But I do have friends who can't seem to be in good terms with their parents. I have friends who intentionally work...

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disiweijay Absolutely i'm in good terms with my parents.You know i wouldn't be talking here without the unyielding support of my parents.they made me who i am.So whatever happens i will still love my parents and respect them just as i do now.I'm grateful for what they've...

4 Jun 09

How do you eat your food..slowly or finish as soon as possible?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 21 May 09

Do you always Enjoy your food slowly or Eat them up as soon as possible? I like eating slowly, all time when i eat with others, i am last who finish to eat. Is good for stomach, is good to feel food taste, and why not people...

enjoy life

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disiweijay It all depends the flavour of the food.If the food is very delicious then I will eat slowly so that I can enjoy the meal time.

23 May 09

Discribe yourself in 3 words

sconibear @sconibear (8016) • United States 25 Apr 09

If you had only 3 words to let people know how you are what would they be. I could think of a few more but my first three choices would be. "FUNNY,LOVEABLE at least I think so and CRAZY" How about you? Don't be shy...

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disiweijay 3words?Maybe i will choose diligent responsible and approachable.I think three words is not enough to discribe myself.this three words are just the first appeard in my minds. Have a nice day ahead.

28 Apr 09

What's your dream as a college student?

happyforever @happyforever (191) • China 31 Mar 09

Hello mylotters, I'm a first year college student who loves travelling very much. To be honest, I am a person full of curiosities. I want to see other countries and visit places that are famous, interesting or beautiful. I also...

dream

save money

travel

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disiweijay Hi my dream is that I can improve my self-cultivation and English level.Then try to learn a second language if possible.Spend much time on reading books.Broaden my horizon. but u know it's hard to win a war with words.So i will spare no efforts to realise my...

13 Apr 09

Do you think its better to look for love or let it find you?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 17 Mar 09

For me... Let love will find you... because if we;re looking love, then it will easily go. I dont know, because i already experienced few times that looking for love may be bad ending... ahaha. It makes me more dependent on...

look for love

love

love will you

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disiweijay Active or passive.that's a question.

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What town or city do you live in? how is it?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 15 Mar 09

Now, i live in davao city, the largest administration city in the world. Hmmm... actually most people live in the central but not in the urban areas... i dont know why this city is very big, because most population is concentrated...

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disiweijay Now I'm in Dalian to continue my studies.Dalian is a very beautiful coastal city in China.the climate is very suitable for human living and working.

17 Mar 09

good books

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 14 Mar 09

Do you get taken up by a good book? I get so mad at myself, I can't put the Da** thing down. I know the story will still be there and the ending will not change, it defeats all reasonable thought. I use to do this when I worked...

reading questions

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disiweijay A great book must be full of magic.As U seem not to lay the book down unless you read the book.However U know it that the book will not lost and the ending will not change.Great book will put you deeply attracted. Enjoy your reading time!

16 Mar 09

Will you leave your spouse because of the health problem?

youless @youless (112497) • Guangzhou, China 14 Mar 09

A few days ago I have a post about my sister-in-law. She stays in the hospital for over a week now. It is a complicated case and I don't want to mention it here. But I feel very hurtful when she told me secretly that her husband...

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disiweijay I really hate someone who betray his wife.U must prevent him from doing so.For me I will always love my girl friend just as i do now until i die.

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which do you prefer? Woring for your boss, or starting your own business?

Braveheartok103 @Braveheartok103 (380) • China 13 Mar 09

As for me, I like doing my own business, but now I do not have that condition. So I have no choise, how about you?

make

money

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disiweijay I would like doing my own business when i graduate.However you know it's too difficult for a no experience of university graduates.So now i am confused.

13 Mar 09