dozhou

@dozhou (326)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How come our Mother's food always tasted so good?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 23 Sep 09

Hello friend, I'm really kind of pissed right now, the reason why is because Something just came to me like a scent and it took me back to my mom's cooking for only a second. Then I started thinking, how come my...

food

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dozhou A mother's recipe sometimes only fits her kids. I realize that when I got married. My wife does not like my mother's food, instead she like her mom's, then I know that everyone's good memory of food in his or her childhood is combined with his or her happy...

24 Sep 09

Who has the most power to hurt you with their words?

Amber @AmbiePam (92711) • United States 21 Sep 09

I have heard people say that we can give people the power to hurt us. But when it comes to one speaking hurtful words, I think we don't give them the power to hurt us, they just plain hurt us. I believe we can...

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dozhou My wife has the most power to hurt me. She knows a lot about me, how to trigger me anger. Sometimes, her one word could make crazy and out of control. That is too bad. It could ruin my mood for a whole day.

22 Sep 09

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How's your self control?

ChaoticBeauty @ChaoticBeauty (263) • United States 21 Sep 09

I know for a fact that I am slow to anger, and quick to forgive, and give another chance. Sometimes there are times I have lost it, but they are very rare, and when they do happen, they are completely desereved. Do you become...

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dozhou I am a negative guy, and always blame myself. When I think about my career, and feel the uncertainty of my future. I am in a bad mood, and try to escape from others.

22 Sep 09

Do you believe in psychic power?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 21 Sep 09

There are different forms of psychic abilities. Some people can see vision or dream about it. Some people talk about inner voices talking to them. Some people have strong feelings of happiness or danger. Some people just know. I...

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dozhou It is not easy to say it is true or not, but basically, I don't believe it, since I could never sense it in my life. It is too hard to believe something without any proof.

21 Sep 09

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Do you buy a copy of a film that you saw from the cinema? DVD / VCD :)

danitykane @danitykane (3183) • Philippines 17 Sep 09

There are movies that I can't stand not to have a single copy. Whenever I saw a film from the cinema that I really liked, I make sure that I bought a copy of it whenever the film releases its dvd or vcd version. Or if I saw a film...

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dozhou No, I'd rather leave it in my memory. You can taste it in the future. I don't want to watch it so frequently that one day I don't want to see it any more.

18 Sep 09

If you could modify your children to be genetically perfect would you?

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 17 Sep 09

Hi mylotters, I watched a TV program about a month ago now (I am terribly lax when it comes to starting discussions as I had to do some commenting first) and it was about the future of something genetically minded (damn the...

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dozhou If everybody could design a so called genetically perfect baby, it would imperfect. Just leave our babies alone. Let them grow naturally. That is real perfect, naturally perfect.

18 Sep 09

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Do you think love can be learned?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

I think so, because my mom and dad's marriage was arranged both of my grandparents. My mom told us that she had a boyfriend before my dad came and asked for her hands. She's deeply in love with her boyfriend, but since she's very...

learned

love

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dozhou Even in this evidence, you cannot prove that love can be learned. It could only prove that love can be generated through family life. It is too complicated to give a simple answer.

18 Sep 09

Which rots faster?

biman_s @biman_s (1060) • India 18 Sep 09

I am very curious to know what you think. If you consider three fruits, an apple, a banana and a pear. Which according to will rot faster than the other when left in an open place and also why?

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dozhou There is a protection wax on the surface of apples and pears from supermarket, so a banana will rot faster than the other two. Naturally what will happen? I cannot give the answer.

18 Sep 09

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Should I let my dad meet my husband?

agirnow @agirnow (157) • France 17 Sep 09

I am a young, fairly newly-wed and my dad has never met my husband. It started out as a circumstantial problem, my folks live in California, my husband lives in France and the only time they came to visit me in France was 2 weeks...

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dozhou Just let them meet. Sometimes, what you imagine is totally different from the reality. If there are some difficulties you should face. Go ahead. Then maybe you will find it is a piece of cake, not so hard.

17 Sep 09

Have you had a crush on your child's teacher?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 16 Sep 09

Last night was my oldest son's curriculum night, where you go and follow the child's schedule and each teacher talks about class rules, what the children will learn, how they grade the students, etc etc. Most of my son's...

crush on teacher

kids

school

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dozhou My kids are too young to have their teachers, but I know that adults and children have totally different perspectives to judge teachers. You don't know if your teachers were attractive or not to your parents. You don't know either if your son likes his...

16 Sep 09

Do you like window shopping?

sasalove @sasalove (1709) • China 16 Sep 09

I date my female friends out for shopping this weekend and she refused, and I ask why, she advised, " I did not get my salary this month yet, no money, how to go shopping?" I argued immediately, " We can go shopping without too...

window shopping

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dozhou If your girl friend had credit cards, she had not worried about her salary. She could buy stuff she wants in advance, pays later. It is much easier and convenient.

16 Sep 09

Energy Crisis in the over 40s

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 16 Sep 09

For the past 10 years or so I have always had a huge energy sap in the afternoons. At work I used to have to fight sometimes to stay awake in the afternoons. I always put my energy crisis down to being stressed. However, now I am...

napping

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dozhou Don't be too worried about yourself. It is a natural phenomena. A lot of guys over 40s have to face it. If you could arrange your life schedule better, it will change.

16 Sep 09

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Why do people join PTC sites?

manvik @manvik (981) • Hungary 16 Sep 09

Despite knowing that most of PTCs are scams then why do people join them? For instance,sites like Sweetptr(which pays $10 to $50 for a click) are becoming popular day by day. I have checked and found that an average of 400...

paid to click

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dozhou A lot of people want to earn something without work including me. I have ever try a website for three months for $200 bonus. Of course, finally no result, but I can not control myself to try another PTC for another seduction.

16 Sep 09

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Do you like to enjoy sunshine?

yuhongchao1981 @yuhongchao1981 (286) • China 16 Sep 09

Picture yourself lying in a chair under the sun without any disturbance and just enjoy your life.I know some old men who like to enjoy sunshine.They sit one by one aganst the wall to chat and enjoy sunshine.Is it good way to enjoy...

life

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dozhou I like sunshine, but not sunburn. I don't like use sun cream. So it is too hurt. So I'd rather stay away from sunshine. It is too much to me.

16 Sep 09

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Have you shoplifted before for any reason?

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 16 Sep 09

Some people do it for fun. few do it because it is their way of earning money or living. i didn't try to shoplift nor i plan to even for fun. i think it is just plain wrong. i just watched a show where they caught a mother...

shoplifting

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dozhou There is a disorder named Kleptomania. People in this condition are compelled to steal stuff of little or no significant value. This disorder was first recognized as a mental problem in 1960s. It always manifests during puberty. I think the daughter in your...

16 Sep 09

Paid 2 View Tube

Autumnrose2008 @Autumnrose2008 (1478) • United States 16 Sep 09

Is any one a member of this site? They pay you to watch video's. I just joined and was wondering if its legit or another scam. If you are a member and have been paid please let me know. I am not looking for referals as of yet due...

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dozhou As I know, they won't give money to new members this year. The promotion is over. You still could watch video through their website, but I don't think you can earn some money from them.

16 Sep 09

Please help, send me some ideas!!!!

jodylee_04530 @jodylee_04530 (1097) • United States 16 Sep 09

So, I need a huge response for this one. My husband and I have changed our lifestyle dramatically and are really working hard to save money. I need all the tips and tricks I can get. Please respond with any ideas you all have for...

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dozhou If you shop a lot through internet, you can log on ebates or fatwallet to save money for your shopping. If you want, give me your email address, so I can give you a reference.

16 Sep 09

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Does anybody ask you to buy theme present when you travel?

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 14 Sep 09

Hello everyone, I am just curious on how all of us get some gift for present to people we know when we travel. I like buying gift for other people its just I don't like it when they ask me to buy things for theme because for...

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dozhou It does not happen to me a lot. My wife sometimes ask me for one or two presents for her. Since it is not so often, it is easy for me to fulfill her requirement. If my friends ask me for some tiny stuff and it is very easy, I will also be happy to do that.

15 Sep 09

It just hurts

bluehibiscus @bluehibiscus (702) • United States 14 Sep 09

I keep trying to do things to occupy my time and keep my mind off of my breakup but it hurts so much. I sent him some of his things and I've never heard anything back. I know it's inevitable but I really am never going to hear...

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dozhou In the world there is only one thing to cure your hurt: time. Gradually, you will forget him. He is part of your life, not all of it. You will meet another nice guy in the near future. Everything will be fine. Love is a sweet torment. I know you feel it right...

15 Sep 09