ernakienchaie

@ernakienchaie (33)

Age 35

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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When Life Gets Lonely

artistic_temper @artistic_temper (83) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

Sometimes, you get hit by loneliness and no matter what you do to entertain yourself it just doesnt seem to work. You can laugh and smile at jokes but deep inside you are really lonely. Thats how I've been feeling lately... I feel...

life

lonely

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ernakienchaie That's our humanity sinks in. We are only human, we feel happy and sad. We don't have a control the undesirable things that is going to happen. Look at the brighter side of life. We should take obstacles as a challenge. We should face it bravely.

11 Jul 11

Do You Forget when you Forgive?

Bannybanzie @Bannybanzie (1397) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

I heard it in the lyrics of the song of our neighbors. It says "to forgive is to forget". I must say that this should be true. When we have a fight with someone, if we forgive them, we should forget what happened and...

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ernakienchaie If a person asks forgiveness simply means that he had something very painful to you. When we experience pain, it's traumatic. Some trauma has high impact and some may not. You can forgive the person but you cannot forget what he had done especially those...

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Suicide, acceptable or not?

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 25 Jun 11

Suicide runs in my family, it seems to be a choice of elderly persons when hope and life run out. I can see that conditions would cause me to make that choice, and I would hope that I could do this without damage to others. I...

questions and answers

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ernakienchaie Each of us has a defense mechanism of coping with our problems. Not all the time these defenses can help us in consoling ourselves and when everything goes, the thought of committing suicide comes in. This should be not the case. If we are in the midst of...

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Why People Give Advice They Don't Do?

Bannybanzie @Bannybanzie (1397) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

I find a lot of people give advice on almost everything. Those are very good pieces of advice which would really help someone in such a situation. But what I noticed is that when those people who often give advice are in that...

advice

mistakes

people

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ernakienchaie I think these people are so idealistic. They know what is the right thing to do because they are witty but when they are on the certain situation, they are fail to help themselves. Very ironic.

10 Jul 11

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how is your love story like?^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 10 Jul 11

hi guys^^ i would like to know how did you meet your soulmate^^ how was your cutest love story ^^ i really like to read about real love stories. its even more cute than those that we read in love stories. so please just share...

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ernakienchaie I met my bf via online and right now we are going stronger..

10 Jul 11

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got beaten by the man i love

tinyrivera @tinyrivera (14) 10 Jul 11

I was 19 years old when i had my first boyfriend. You can say that i was so innocent during that time that i was so blinded by the thought of being in love. I was so afraid to lose him thats why i did everything i could to make...

broken

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ernakienchaie There's a logic why our head is located higher than our heart. The control is all over in the head, in your brain. Our mind has the capacity to control our emotions and actions. We have different ways on expressing our affection. Some would give their all and...

10 Jul 11

Unbelievably there still more Honest Pinoys out there :D

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

Hello Lotters, After Mylotting I just decided to take a break and watch Television hoping i can get sleepy but i couldn't. but before that i saw an episode of the IMBESTIGADOR (Investigator Series) hosted...

filipinos

honest

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ernakienchaie The honest Filipino could be compared the rose among the thorns.

10 Jul 11

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Why Do People Do things Rushed?

Bannybanzie @Bannybanzie (1397) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

It's almost 1:00 a.m. here in Philippines and I'm still awake. I'm so tired and so sleepy. I'm used to going to bed at 9:00 p.m. But two people are causing me this. First is my brother. He always likes asking me to do his...

deadline

project

work

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ernakienchaie I think they were overwhelmed with their relaxation. They almost forgot that they have some homework to be accomplished or maybe some of them are depending on their older sister or brother just like in your case. In my opinion, discipline should be implied...

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should we be asking God questions about what happens in our life?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

I mean, of course things do happen in our lives, and many times too we are always wondering why we are suffering, or why we have encountered such things in our lives... i admit often i wonder why me.. and why me again?? for the...

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ernakienchaie The Gospel today gives me a lesson. A very good lesson. "Do not blame your failures or misfortune to God". Instead, strengthen your faith on Him and believe His words. If you experience hard frustrations, it doesn't mean that He doesn't care for you. It simply...

10 Jul 11

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So What Do You Think Of Life?

Jellrey @axlrate7 (1398) • Philippines 10 Jul 11

It just came up to my mind, this question about life. What is life? Is it just only about became a kid playing around, then study for long years for someday to get a decent job, then have a partner in life then become a grand and...

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ernakienchaie Life is mysterious. You don't know what's gonna happen. That's all thank you ^^

10 Jul 11

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how to lose weight?

chandruu2 @chandruu2 (6) • India 1 Jun 11

i am so fat my weight 95kg i am having big belly i want to reduce my weight and belly,give any bright ideas to reduce my weight and belly.

lose weight and belly

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ernakienchaie I have a chubby body type. After I finished college, I gained weight. OMG, I don't like it. My tummy turned big as well as my shoulders and face. When my relatives and friends see me, they would tell me that I'm so fat. It's really distressing and shameful. I...

10 Jul 11

Stay fit by eating slowly.

thetis74 @thetis74 (1525) 9 Jul 11

I have learned that it takes 20 minutes for our stomach to recognize that it is full. If we are always in a hurry when we are eating, we are potentially overfeeding ourselves even before our stomach could tell us that we have...

heath

weight loss

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ernakienchaie I eat fast. I can't resist the temptation to foods that are so palatable. It's one of my problems in my diet plan. Somehow, I tried to eat slowly and avoid those foods that would trigger my craving. There are times that when I'm in a diet, I cheat on eating...

10 Jul 11

Are you a different person at home and outside?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 10 Jul 11

Most of us behave differently in different situations. We may be talkative at home but very shy at work. We may be very talkative and cheerful at work, but hardly speak a word when we are at home. We also assume that the person...

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ernakienchaie Yes I am!. I tried to hide my attitude outside because I'm trying to avoid having conflicts with my friends. I tried to be nice although sometimes I am angry or short tempered. You cannot show off all the good and bad side on you. Sometimes you have to adjust...

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Is it really necessary that a woman should know how to cook?

jdex_143 @jdex_143 (1093) • Philippines 8 Jul 11

My uncle used to tell me that if ever I get married and the fact that I do not know how to cook, my husband would definitely leave me for that reason. I was wondering, is it necessary that a woman should know how to cook because...

cooking

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ernakienchaie Definitely yes but in some instances maybe it's a case to case basis because the trend nowadays the wife is already the role as the breadwinner and the husband is taking the role as the househusband. It's still necessary that a woman should know how to cook.

9 Jul 11

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" To whom much is given, much is expected"

louievill @louievill (28851) • Philippines 8 Jul 11

Actually this is a biblical quote but I have been thinking how it actually relates to our lives, often people would relate to it as money, if you have much then you are expected to share, but it could also be about your talents...

giving

sharing wealth

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ernakienchaie MUCH is given to those who are in need. Simply as this. Give it to poor people for they are the members of the society that really in need of help, a really BIG HELP. MUCH is expected when you have shared your blessings to others and that MUCH is a word...

9 Jul 11

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Do you think the world will really end in 2012?

pinkpiglet @pinkpiglet (330) • Philippines 8 Jul 11

I can't help thinking that the world is really coming to an end when I hear the word, or numbers rather, "2012". Having watched the movie "2012" made me feel pessimistic too. Usually, I don't believe in those, but with all the...

2012 end of the world

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ernakienchaie I don't think so. Predictions is a matter of guessing. Calamities and tragedies are just a warning that we should take care of our nature. We had abused a lot for our own pleasure. We didn't think the consequences waiting on the line. We should better change....

9 Jul 11

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Do you feel intimidated when a Veteran reminds you?

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 8 Jul 11

Hello there. Don't worry I've been to that situation myself, I know the feeling. most of you prefer to respond to topics or discussions that are made by either newbie or people lesser than 200 post. I see this...

mylotters

veteran

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ernakienchaie For me no, comments from them is just a signal that we have to do something to improve ourselves. It's just somewhat a correction for whatever failures we had committed. That's why they were called veteran because they had acquired a lot of experiences which...

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Calling All Beyonce Fans!!

SHEREE1978 @SHEREE1978 (39) • United States 21 Apr 11

This is for all you Beyonce Fans! Which one of Beyonce's CD's do you think was the best thus far and why??

beyonce

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ernakienchaie Sasha Fierce... OMG.. I love it, she's phenomenal..

8 Jul 11

what If you were given one more chance to return to your childhood?

Fireheart @Fireheart (683) • India 8 Jul 11

Just a thought that ran into my mind, what if you were given a chance to go back to your childhood with the at present memories and knowledge all along with you..would you go for it or do you like to live the present life as it...

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ernakienchaie I would rather return to my childhood so that I would be able to do the things I wanted to do. I want to be a member on girlscout and CAT officers. I want to join singing contest. These things that I really want to do before because I believe having these in...

8 Jul 11