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dee777 @dee777 (1417) • South Africa 28 Dec 12

My friend has been married for almost twenty years. Throughout this twenty years she came to me to cry her heart out; has been in hospital for stress; is on heavy medication for depression; gained about 20 kg because her husband...

cheating husband

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favouredmost Hi Dee777 As much as it hurts you to see your friend in pain, you cannot help her make the decision about her husband. Be there for her when she cries on your shoulder. The only rule to remember is not to get affected, just listen and let her talk and you...

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Suzieqmom @Suzieqmom (2755) • United States 6 Jan 13

I have been writing on mylot, triond, helium and other sites for over a year now, and am working on a travel book (as yet unpublished). Although I really enjoy online writing, it doesn't really pay all that much...but online...

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favouredmost Hi Suzieqmom, Congratulation! you deserve it, I have been in this writing business for a while and I know how much is required until you breakthrough. Enjoy writing you, deserve all the good things coming your way.

7 Jan 13

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ofzhernandez @ofzhernandez (278) • Philippines 12 Oct 12

They say "Bad things happen to GOOD people while the good one's happen to BAD people" does that really happen to you? cos for me there are times that when you are really good to people things never went good in terms of life but...

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favouredmost unfortunately being good does not guarantee that bad things will not happen to you. There are things in this life that we have no control of and all that we can do is try our best and embrace the things that we cannot change.Some times life just gives a...

12 Oct 12

jadoixa @jadoixa (1166) • Philippines 12 Oct 12

i have seen recently on tv these cases wherein people are said to be possessed by bad or evil spirits, i can always hear or see about it on tv in the past and these days, but i am confused if these kind of possessions are true or...

evil spirits

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favouredmost Yes it does happen. So many cases have been documented even in the olden days, some African people believe in witchcraft that can actually be sent by others to affect a certain person and ruin their life's and to some extent makes a person go insane.They...

12 Oct 12

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 20 Sep 12

Picture this, a couple has nothing worth anything for most of their lives, they have young children, they have behind bills, they need a vehicle that can fit them all in, and finally after 8 years of suffering and being broke they...

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favouredmost Hi Lovingmybabies,I have come to realize in this life that you need to do what works for you first and don't let other people make you feel guilty no matter who they are. That is your money period and you don't owe them any explanations.Tell them that you have...

21 Sep 12

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zainirye @zainirye (36) • Philippines 8 Aug 12

I have been working on several work-at-home sites for a little over a year now, and I quite enjoy it. Then I found this site, elance, and i signed up as a freelancer. I applied to several writing gigs, and i got hired by a certain...

nehamukherjee85

online job

scam

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favouredmost Hi Zainirye, I so get your pain and your post actually encouraged me today as I was boiling over when I found out an article that I wrote as a test sample was sold by the client and he cancelled my order. Take heart and just do your best and the person who...

21 Sep 12

kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 12 Sep 12

My sister in law (my brother's husband's wife) will no longer talk to me or be friendly. They live very close to us and the four of us would always get together each week for dinner and drinks. They have been married a year now....

family

friends

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favouredmost Don't worry and stop trying too hard. just be civil to her when you run into her and don't show her that you are feeling bad because you had a genuine reason for not going to her dad's funeral. if she need help offer it and even though she is cold just be...

14 Sep 12

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Stretch marks are results of rapid weight gain or loss. I think most women suffer from this. It is not a disease but it can be a cause of shame for some others and prevent them from wearing bikinis or swim wears or show some skin...

stretch marks

weight gain

weight loss

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favouredmost Yes stretch marks are not attractive but that is a path of life that none of us can escape. As someone gets older all the stored fat starts showing especially at the bottom as cellulite. I guess the best thing is to love yourself just the way you are because...

14 Sep 12

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Stretch marks are results of rapid weight gain or loss. I think most women suffer from this. It is not a disease but it can be a cause of shame for some others and prevent them from wearing bikinis or swim wears or show some skin...

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favouredmost Yes stretch marks are not attractive but that is a path of life that none of us can escape. As someone gets older all the stored fat starts showing especially at the bottom as cellulite. I guess the best thing is to love yourself just the way you are because...

14 Sep 12

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bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 13 Sep 12

In many cases i've witnessed that most of women had to give way, understand, and give solutions to the problems either in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship or in family matter.I really hate to think that male gender are stronger...

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favouredmost First I think that women have amazing strength especially where their children are concerned and will do almost the impossible for the kids. I think the boundaries that a woman establishes determines how her man will treat her. If you allow a man to get away...

14 Sep 12

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alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 10 Sep 12

I can't take my mind of him. everytime I promise myself that I'll forget him something happens and I'm back in love with him...it's driving me crazy. he's practically like a drug. I know it hurts me but I can't stop thinking of...

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favouredmost The only way to get over a temptation is to indulge in it, think about him as much as possible but if you want to forget him then you can't go see him no matter how hard it is for you. Look for hobbies or other activities to occupy you especially when you...

10 Sep 12

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41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 6 Sep 12

It could be a decision to marry someone else, or choose a different career. Perhaps to move to another country or just to explore a natural talent. I'm not giving any more ideas because I would rather hear yours.

changes in life

making choices

mistakes

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favouredmost The one thing that I would do is put myself first and treat myself good and love my family but not let them take advantage of me. I would save the little money that I get to ensure that I do not struggle and eat well and be healthy. Follow my heart and not be...

7 Sep 12

keshlois143 @keshlois143 (713) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

If there is one thing that I have been learning in a relationship of any kind is this: I should never think that he/she can provide me the joy that I need to survive everyday. Joy in the heart is something that I need for me to...

source of joy

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favouredmost its also the same with stuff. we think that if we buy a car that we will be happy and after we buy it ,the happiness that we expected does not materialize.Yes I so agree with you, only you and me can make ourselves happy and be content in who we are and the...

7 Sep 12

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oyomesan @oyomesan (115) • Netherlands 6 Sep 12

How is your relationship with your siblings compared to when you were younger? Did you always get along or did you fight a lot? And how is your relationship with him/her/them now? As for myself, I used to have lots of issues with...

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favouredmost I guess it all depends on how you are brought up and if your parents brought you up to compete with each other then you cannot be truly friends. My older brother by two years used to scare me when I was little and my younger sister was the family favorite so...

7 Sep 12

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 6 Sep 12

At the mall today I was standing behind to girls in line at Tim Horton's and they were talking really snotty to each other about people that were walking by. There was a lady that walked by with really wet hair and these girls...

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favouredmost if my hair is wet for long, i get a headache so its a big no for me. There are reasons why people do what they do so these girls have nothing better to do but critic others.The woman with the wet hair had her reasons why she could not wait to dry her hair...

7 Sep 12

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Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

As we live each day , we observe good hygiene , take a bath everyday ,soap our body , spa ,scrub , moisturize and perfume it. All the the good hygiene we observe and apply. We do all kinds of pampering to our physical bodies. In...

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favouredmost As far as I am concerned, I think those left behind should decide which option works best for them and then implement it and if the cremation works best then I agree to go for it.if it was not hazardous I would prefer to be thrown into the ocean but that is...

7 Sep 12

cottonie32978 @cottonie32978 (19) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

I have been working as an Administrative Assistant to the second highest official of our company. However, most of the senior staff have been complaining about him for being strict especially when it comes to work. I have been...

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favouredmost I have come to learn that there are people that are just obnoxious and it is not what you do, they will behave however they choose. Do your work well and you don't need to interact with them to be productive at your work.

7 Sep 12

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ryanong @ryanong (9665) • Vietnam 6 Sep 12

I just read a news in here, there is a girl whose boy friend supposed to get married in the end of this year. She has not much money for her wedding so that she decided to sell xxx to earn money from that. Unfortunately, she is...

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favouredmost yes but we do foolish things from time to time and her only mistake is being too in love to reason well and got herself in that situation, the good thing about this situation is that she got to see the other face of her boyfriend before she committed herself...

7 Sep 12

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hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

i am bombarded with this negative thought this morning. i feel so stressed i feel like hopeless in my life. so i tried to clean the house and do a lot of things and stop using the computer. and after a while , my mind feels so...

peace

stress

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favouredmost At the end of the work day, I clean the office before I go home and it is amazing that it relaxes me so that the stress I got during the day is left behind. Yes I understand how cleaning the house can get rid of the stress for you and I agree it helps me too.

7 Sep 12

Pale_moon @Pale_moon (98) 6 Sep 12

I god a bad cold several days ago.I have got much better and I think I nearly recovere from illness.But an unexpected rain make it worse.This afternoon it rained on my way home but I have no umbrella with me.As a result I got...

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favouredmost So sorry about the cold as it can be so uncomfortable, rest and as most of the other people have suggested drink lots of warm water and have some chicken soap as well, put some ginger and lemon in your tea and sweeten with honey and very soon you will be back...

6 Sep 12

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