FitCoachJess

@FitCoachJess (278)

United States • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

fitcoachjess aka BassChick

www.myspace.com/basschickjess

FitCoachJess's Responses

the secret

dawyka3 @dawyka3 (34) • United States 17 Oct 09

Ive been trying to use the secret in everyday life are there any people out there that use it to?

using the secret

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FitCoachJess The Secret is a documentary based on a very old idea. It is a simple concept, but not always easy. I wrote about it in my blog "Hypnosis Works." It is called "Hypnosis and The Secret." Check it out http://jbergkvist.blogspot.com

1 Nov 09

I want to loose weight fast!

sujuwonder @sujuwonder (212) • Philippines 31 Oct 09

hello everyone! its nice to be back. My husband is working overseas but is planning to come home by January. Well, i want to surprise him by loosing weight. Im not really that big but kinda chubby. Im not comfortable with my...

diet

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FitCoachJess The way to lose weight permanently is to start eating 5-6 small meals (or 3 meals/2 snacks...) throughout the day. Cut out most of the sugar & fats. Exercise for at least 30 min, at least 4-5 days a week, including resistance training and cardiovascular...

1 Nov 09

Is it good to skip meals??Which meal would you skip???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 21 Jul 09

Hello Mylotters, I believe many people skip one of their meals to stay healthy.But I was doubting that,because it may lead to stomach ulcers. Today I was so late to office..Thats why I had to skip my breakfast.....

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FitCoachJess Skipping meals is not the way to stay healthy. I wonder who it was that decided that even 3 meals a day was enough... I am more of a 'grazer' I eat when I am hungry and it usually turns out to be several times per day. Not big meals, but small ones. Skipping...

23 Jul 09

are you really aware of hyponotism?

kawalsukhi @kawalsukhi (641) • India 20 Jul 09

friends you know what is hyponotism. hyponotism is a task in which a person can control yhe mind of other person. you know how to do it ? if some want to pass cpmmment. best@ mylot.....

hypnotism

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FitCoachJess First, I have to tell you and anyone reading this that the idea that hypnosis is mind control is nothing more than a myth. You do not surrender your will to the hypnotist. Hypnosis doesn't even work with the will...nobody can change your will; what you want....

20 Jul 09

Lyrics?

anna728 @anna728 (1499) • United States 20 Jul 09

I don't usually pay much attention to song lyrics, but I do like Jewel's... what do you think of them?

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FitCoachJess I think she is a great writer/composer of beautiful music :) I like Tori Amos's lyrics as well. I could go on and on... I have always paid attention to lyrics :)

20 Jul 09

Do you prefer headphones or speakers?

Rootmere @Rootmere (133) • United States 19 Jul 09

I myself prefer speakers when I need to know what's going on around me, which is like all the time. Headphones block out too much sound if I'm being a paranoid nerd. Headphones also have great sound because they block out so much...

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FitCoachJess Speakers for sure:) Headphones are good if I am listening to something I have recorded looking for mistakes, etc... but I don't like the feeling of one of my senses being cut off from what is around me. It just makes me uncomfortable. I also like the sound of...

20 Jul 09

Hypnosis

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 14 Jun 09

Have you ever wanted to be hypnotized? I know I have I think it would be so awsome.I have seen it done to my friend it was so cool. She got picked from the aduience. They had her dancing, singing, saying crazy stuff and had her...

hypnosis

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state of mind

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FitCoachJess I have been a practicing hypnotherapist for 18 years...I had to reply to this, especially the part about the devil and some of the responses... First, hypnosis stage shows are really great and alot of fun. You have taken from it what I believe is the right...

23 Jun 09

Do you have a lot of birthdays right in a roll with family/friends?

kykidd @kykidd (6812) • United States 23 Jun 09

Do you have a lot of people in your circle of friends and family that have a lot of birthdays right in a roll? From June 20th to June 29th I have 4 people that have birthdays. This year, I'm just passing out birthdays cards....

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FitCoachJess OMG YES. Mostly in July... Dad 7/3, Mom 7/16, best friend 7/17, sister 7/24, brother 7/26. Whew!!!

23 Jun 09

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Well Slap my Wrist and Call me Pagan!

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 23 Jun 09

Several years ago when I first got online for more than "Hi, how are ya?" I signed up to a website because I liked their E-cards. I hardly used them though and frankly forgot all about them. Several days ago I received an email...

slap my wrist

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FitCoachJess What happened to all that 'love and tolerance' that so many Christians talk about. Just by them saying that they cannot forgive you they are judging you, as well as being unforgiving (not that you need it...). I could be wrong, but I have often heard that...

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Should Christians date a non-Christian?

dicsyen @dicsyen (54) • Malaysia 22 Jun 09

This subject is very controversial.Some churches allow members to date anyone they like whereas some a definite restriction.The truth is man are wired to woman.They are naturally attracted to woman.There's no doubt about that.But...

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FitCoachJess Just my humble opinion:)... I believe "spirituality" (our relationship with God, the Universe, the powers that be...) is "God-made," and religion is man made. This is just my guess, but I think that religions are kind of set up to create more of their own, so...

23 Jun 09

Is there any method of geting rid of the massive fat around tummy?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 1 Jun 09

One of my friends is very fat although hes not eating much, yet hes growing like anything, Is there a way to reduce fat from hips and tummy area where fat deposits alot and it is very difficult to remove. There are some excercises...

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FitCoachJess He doesn't have to starve! Fat is not lost from specific places, it is lost all over. Now, some people store more fat in certain places than others. Fat is like gas in the tank of your car...it must be used. Fat is energy stored. The best thing he can do is...

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Do you think we lost the ability to enjoy life as we get older?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 28 May 09

Children are better at enjoying life than adults. Everything is fun when we were young. Eating ice-cream was enjoyable, climbing tree was enjoyable, watching the clouds and making up stories about fairies and dragons was...

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FitCoachJess Definitely not true for me. My 20's were much better than my teens, my 30's much better than my 20's, and my 40's are better than my 30's...so if the trend continues, I expect that I will enjoy life more the older I get :)

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What is your motivation to lose weight or stay healthy?

happythoughts @happythoughts (4109) • United States 28 May 09

I am trying to get motivated to lose weight and take better care of my self. I know I will feel better, live longer, have more energy and thus more fun, get more done and of course look better. Somehow that isnt enough. My family...

health

motivation

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FitCoachJess As a personal trainer and hypnotherapist, and as a person who has lost a significant amount of weight, I have found out a few things about motivation. One important thing to remember is that if you exercise to FEEL good, looking good will follow as a side...

1 Jun 09

Can 2 persons read each others mind?TELEPHATY!

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 28 May 09

Telephaty is the ability to read and influense another persons mind. Do you think that is posible for humans to connect on a psychological level.? People have been trying to communicate telepathically for hundreds of years....

questions

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FitCoachJess I know this to be true, BUT...it is not "mind power." You cannot force your will on another person, unless they are (consciously or subconsciously) willing to allow it. I do not know anyone who can read minds word for word, but the basic ideas people can read...

1 Jun 09

Subliminal messages/hypnosis

thunderstar17 @thunderstar17 (323) • United States 18 Mar 09

Have you tried one any of the subliminal message CD's being advertised or hypnosis for weight loss? This is something I have always written off as a scam, until today. . . I was watching TV, and I saw a paid advertisement for...

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FitCoachJess Hypnosis is one of the most effective tools for weight loss. It is also one of the most misunderstood. It is a 'tool,' not a magic wand (although it can often work almost as well as one...) If you think of how many times you have tried to lose weight,...

28 May 09

is it ok for a teacher to fall in love with his student?

porygon @porygon (2) • Philippines 25 May 09

I am a language teacher at a young age. This gives me tne opportunity to meet and know other races. But, as a professional I must separate personal matters from the others. I had a student (of different race) and started to...

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FitCoachJess FEELINGS aren't wrong, but actions can be. I don't know what the particulars of your situation are, so I can't say whether it is right or wrong. If she is under aged, then acting on such feelings would not be right. There is another thing to consider..(as a...

26 May 09

help please!!!

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 22 May 09

I am 5 feet 3 inches and i weigh almost 160lbs.I am fat and want to lose at least thirty pounds,what should i do?I am trying the cereal diet with little fat and less food on my plate.But its hard for me to do.Although i feel...

weight lost

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FitCoachJess The diet industry is BIG business. It rakes in over 80 BILLION dollars per year in the USA...and about 95% repeat business. That means that people are going from diet plan to diet plan, to pills to machines that promise weight loss from doing a simple sit-up,...

25 May 09

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Breastfeeding in public!

sanuanu @sanuanu (11235) • India 13 Jan 09

Recently, I was traveling in a train. There was a couple with a new born baby with them. That baby is really cute. I don't know it was a baby boy or a baby girl. So, after sometime, the baby started to cry and the mother needs to...

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FitCoachJess I think if we realize that feeding hungry babies in what breasts are made for, there is no need to feel uncomfortable. It is a miracle that we are able to feed our children this way :) There is nothing wrong with the human body, breasts included. I agree that...

25 May 09

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