flip_flop_lollipop

@flip_flop_lollipop (97)

Singapore • Age 38

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tomorrow is my dad and mom's 35th wedding anniversary....

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 9 Jan 09

in this age and time when people's marriages doesn't last long and couples ended it with, separation, annulment or divorce i am so proud that my mom and dad are celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary. It wasn't an easy road...

50th wedding anniversary

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flip_flop_lollipop i'm really glad for you. my mum and dad's been married for close to 24 years. I really wish they can both be healthy when their 35th anniversary, even their 50th anniversary comes along. But my mum's not in good health and I'm really worried for her. :( i...

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Pushing your partner to a diet!!!Is that wrong?

Carla Estefan @chej18 (915) • United States 16 Jun 08

Hi, I am not sure if i am right but i do it anyway i want my bf to be healthy so i am pushing him to diet.I am prepering his food and salads for his work.As you know my partner got a little bit problem w/ his heart and his...

diet

partner

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flip_flop_lollipop hi chej18, i'm sure ur bf knows what you're doing is for his own good. but being human we do have our weaknesses and we do *cave in to temptations* from time to time, heh. however, i do think it's really important, in his case, for him to maintain his diet....

18 Jun 08

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Don't trust a lover who kisses you without closing their eyes?

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 5 Apr 08

Do you keep your eyes closed when you are kissing your lover?Do you ever opened your eyes once to check out if your partner is closing his/her eyes too? "Don't trust a lover who kisses you without closing their eyes.",I read...

kiss

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flip_flop_lollipop just a funny thought: how would you know if their eyes were open or close unless you opened yours and looked? does that make you an unfaithful lover then? lol. ;)

8 May 08

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high blood pressure may run in the family do you agree

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 25 Mar 08

If your parents have high blood pressure chances are you will get it too in your lifetime, this sounds scary to me does it to you? The suggestion here is that high blood pressure may run in the family we know that...

high blood pressure can run in families

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flip_flop_lollipop yup, it's definitely true. i read from somewhere, if both ur folks have high hp, there's a 46% chance that the kids will have it too. if only on parent, 23%. But even if both parents do not have high bp, the kids can still develop it, coz as some previous...

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Parents of teenagers...was I right?

foxyfire33 @foxyfire33 (10005) • United States 25 Apr 08

My stepson and I ended up talking for a long time last night. He told me that he really loves his girlfriend but feels like this should be his time to just date girls and have fun. (He'll be 18 in two months) He said he just feels...

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flip_flop_lollipop i'm sorry but i have to disagree. yes, it might not be a bad thing to date more people and gain the "experience" to help you decided who will be your ultimate soul mate. however, i don't think that's the same as having multiple gf/bf simultaneously. and i...

27 Apr 08

does absence make the heart grow more fonder? or forgetful?

katbalu102 @katbalu102 (377) • Philippines 11 Apr 08

a friend of mine moved to another country, leaving his girl friend behind and promised they would always keep in contact with each other. a year passed by and they were still going strong, only to find out very recently that they...

relationships

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flip_flop_lollipop i think it's hard to say... but i think most cases it won't work out. my friend was with her boyfriend for more than a year before he had to go abroad for his studies. but the thing about her situation was that even upon completion of his studies her bf...

27 Apr 08

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What strange obsessions did you have as a child?

ChaJudLeoBit @ChaJudLeoBit (1656) • United States 19 Aug 07

I had a think where I had to back-track everywhere I went. I imagined I was pulling an invisible string, so I had to always go back the way I came. If I turned in a circle 8 times, I had to 'un-wind' 8 times as well. If I walked...

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flip_flop_lollipop sorry, i know this is an old discussion and all... but it was so interesting to see everyone's little childhood quirks that i was reminded of my own. :) when i was young, i always had this funny notion that food will re-assemble in my stomache, much like a...

14 Apr 08

how to make them leave! update

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 14 Apr 08

thank you to everyone that responded to my discussion about my landlady. after 4 pages of everyone telling me pretty much the same thing i knew what i had to do. so i was ready for their next visit or so i thought. they came down...

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flip_flop_lollipop wow... that certainly was unexpected! anyway, i think you did the right thing. she does look like she needs someone to confide in, but i still wouldn't condone her son's behaviour. so i think you did good! hopefully, the situation will improve for her family...

14 Apr 08

There aren't enough hours in a day...

teeaye98 @teeaye98 (287) • United States 20 Mar 08

I have 2 children; a 2 year old and a 5 month old. I wish there were enough hours in a day. I find myself extremely tired, and I can't ever seem to get enough done. I clean a room only for that same room to be a mess the next...

organizational chart

spouse

time

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flip_flop_lollipop no offence, but you sound exactly like my mum! :) she's definitely ocd and my dad does practically nothing around the house, although he's a little better these days. my mum, she can't stand one bit of mess, while the rest of us (i.e. her husband and...

13 Apr 08

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Can you tell your spouse/partner anything?

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 12 Apr 08

It's important to have honest lines of communication in a dating relationship and, more important, in a marriage relationship. Can you tell your spouse/partner when he does stuff you don't like without being afraid that he/she'll...

human relationship

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flip_flop_lollipop yup, we tell each other everything. no secrets. :) we went through a rough patch at the beginning of our relationship and since then we've promised to tell each other everything, good or bad, and we try to sort it out together. i think that's how our...

13 Apr 08

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how do i make them leave!

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 12 Apr 08

our landlord and his wife are very very nice people. they helped us alot and i don't want to make anyone mad. they built a house up on top of the hill above us and she is always coming down here. and i mean for hours like anywhere...

air hockey

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flip_flop_lollipop the last thing you should be doing with these sort of people is to give them attention. next time she knocks on your door either don't answer it, or tell her your busy amd would she drop by another time. do that enough times so that hopefully she'll get the...

13 Apr 08

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Does studying annoy you?

jeanniemay @jeanniemay (1798) • Philippines 3 Apr 08

Sometimes, when we were younger and still attending school, the thought of going to school annoys most of our classmates or even us when homework gets tiring. In my experience, my pitiful childhood experiences has always been...

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flip_flop_lollipop studying, per se, doesn't annoy me. it's those irritating exams!! Studying (and school in general) will be so much more interesting without them!

4 Apr 08

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why does he make me feel like nothing???? help

angelaglass2008 @angelaglass2008 (44) 29 Mar 08

well where do i start, i feel like i am nothing because my fiance keeps puting me down he calls me a fat cow, sl ag, jabba the hut, says i am not worth anything! i feel really hurt and very low about myself. he says he loves me...

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flip_flop_lollipop hi, so much have been said by the folks around here already, there isn't much left for me to say, lol. well, i trust you know what needs to be done and be will be firm enough to do it when the need arises. All the best to you! :)

1 Apr 08

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Dear mylotters i need ur views.....

keep_onwatch @keep_onwatch (2680) • India 30 Mar 08

I always post on my lot how much i love my husband and so does he, but just 2day we had a huge fight over some issue and who doesnt have fights? But after things cooled down and we came to good terms, i actually said that this...

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flip_flop_lollipop I think that's just the way he's trying to let you know he loves you and can't do without you. :) Men, they never quite know how to express themselves properly... ;)

1 Apr 08

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what would you call it????

misschriss @misschriss (110) • United States 29 Mar 08

I am married to a man who I love very much. The only problem is that he and I don't see eye to eye on alot anymore. I asked him last night why he loved me. He says that the things I do really mean alot to him. He said nothing...

play video games

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flip_flop_lollipop That's the way my dad is!! And my mum goes on about it no end! But she still continue doing what she does everday (albeit with lotsa ranting). My dad occasionally helps out with the "light" chores when he knows he has no way out, lol. but that's about it. if...

31 Mar 08

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Does age really matter?

piatos03 @piatos03 (393) • Philippines 28 Mar 08

Well, does it? I have this friend, she's 21 and in love with a 29 year old that loves her too. But then some hopeless people just seem to always get in the way. They tell the 29 year old that it's wrong and that they should feel...

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flip_flop_lollipop I really don't see the big deal. I know many people with age gaps wider than that. A few of my aunts/uncles have more than 10 years of age gap between them and their spouse.

29 Mar 08

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Do you give others access to your accounts?

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 27 Mar 08

My boyfriend just came home to pick up my atm card to withdraw money. I trust him and know he would never abuse that privilege, but have had other relationships in the past that I wouldn't have dreamed of giving up my card. Do you...

access

financial accounts

relationships

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flip_flop_lollipop I have my boyfriend's atm card with me (and of course the pin) all the time. He gave it to me because he doesn't use it anymore since he has his debit card. I didn't ask him for it at all. Later I realised my friend's boyfriend did the same. I guess you really...

29 Mar 08