fourjems08

@fourjems08 (550)

Philippines • Age 45

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cheaters...unfaithful partners...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

Who wants to cheat..or to have an unfaithful partner? No one. I for one never imagined myself to be put in that certain situation. I don't want to be called a cheater or unfaithful partner..but the sad truth is that I have gone...

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i love him but i need him...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

Have you been in the situation or heard of someone in the same situation like this? A person is loving someone other than his partner but cannot leave his/her partner because he/she needs him/her for whatever reasons he/she...

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Can loving someone be wrong?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 27 Feb 11

IS there some rule in love where it says that loving someone is wrong? Share your point of views guys..

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What is your greatest fear in life?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

My greatest fear is death of a loved one. I don't know how to handle situations like this. If someone dear to me dies, it would be very much hard for me to be strong. Just like when my father died, I just can't seem to move on and...

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Hardships of weaning my kids from bottle..

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

Yesterday morning I decided to start weaning my son and daughter, ages 2 and 3 respectively, from feeding bottles. At first they were crying out loud when they ask for their milk in a feeding bottle. Of course I was firm in my...

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do you have/want a twin?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

My sister-in-laws are twins. They really look alike and the only distinction is the mole of the other twin on her upper lips. I am really wondering how does it feel to have a twin brother or sister. If given the chance, I want to...

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Do you feel lucky today?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 11 Jan 11

Today's date is a very rare and special date. Know why? Because it's 1/11/2011. Has something happened that made you feel lucky today? Or is it the other way around? Share you experiences here guys! ^_^

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What or who influenced you to drink and smoke?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 8 Jan 11

I noticed teenagers nowadays are starting to smoke and drink at a very young age. My parents were a smoker and my mom is a drinker but I never followed their paths. I don't like the taste of cigars but I used to drink...

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Emotional blackmail from husband...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

The problem is already present in my marriage since the day I went to live with my husband. We quarrel almost every night and I shed tears just as the same. I have come to point of leaving my husband for a hundred times and...

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How did you wean your child from bottlefeeding?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

I have a 3 year old daughter that i wanted to wean from bottlefeeding. Unfortunately, I am having a hard time keeping her hands off the bottle since she can see his younger brother with it. When my son asks for milk, she asks too....

Anything for my kids...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

I have decided to work overseas, leave my children for a while to my aunts care in order to help my husband augment his income. My husband is working overseas for 2 years now and still our financial status have not changed a bit....

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Experience made me tough...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

I have been through hardships since I went to live with my husband. Sometimes I regret everything and wish it did not all happen to me. Sometimes I ask the Lord why me and why they happen to me. I've been good and just want to...

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When can you say that the love has died?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 12 Dec 10

If: - you always argue with your partner - he's far but you don't miss him - you don't like talking to him or talking to him frustrates/irritates you... Can you say that you don't love your partner anymore? If you feel...

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Friend online...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 12 Dec 10

I am just wondering, I hope you guys can help me here. I have a friend online for a year now. When we talk he would say he miss me. And I do too. He said I am special and there's chemistry in us. He admits he's not in love with me...

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Can you still remember your first kiss?

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 10 Dec 10

My first kiss was unforgettable. I can still remember after being kissed by my boyfriend (at the age of 17), I was caught by our housemaid looking like in a trance or something. I was like in some other world, with a smile on my...

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Listening to christian songs...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 8 Dec 10

I am listening right now to Casting Crowns songs. Their music is all about God. I feel happy and at peace while listening to the songs. It's like something or someone has touched my heart. There are songs that I feel like crying...

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My dog killed the neighbor's chicken...AGAIN!

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 7 Dec 10

My dog Jumong had done it again. This is the second time he killed a chicken from the neighbor. He hates chicken. And every time he sees one, he chase and kill them when he catch them. Last night, I let him loose and open the gate...

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Being a mother is the toughest job I've ever had!

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 6 Dec 10

To conceive a child and nurture it for 9 months inside your belly is hard enough. But the toughest is being a mother to your kids when you brought them out to this world until they grow up. It is one thing that can never be...

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The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 6 Dec 10

Do you believe with that line? Have you experience having someone in your life that you have taken for granted and when lost, you realize how valuable and important he/she is to you? We may have at one point in our life that...

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