funlola

@funlola (26)

Nigeria • Age 42

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Sick to death of people making marriage a joke

killailla @killailla (1301) • Canada 6 Jan 07

I am sick of cheaters Sick of people who get married and divorce a short time later People who marry multiple times people who dont take their marriage vows seriously I am sick to death of the fact the 50% of marriages end...

marriage vows

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funlola okay i know how u feel cause this has been a major cause of concern for me.the fact is dat people dont take marriage to be a sacred institiution.dey get into it for different reasons and get out of it without thinking.but i think education is needed about...

6 Jan 07

Marrying the first guy you meet

carolynpb @carolynpb (647) • United States 29 Dec 06

What do you think about an 18 year old who just started dating when she turned 18 (last month) and has only dated one guy and now is set to marry him? Is it possible to fall for the only guy you ever dated and is it safe to think...

relationships

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funlola marrying the first guy u meet when u start dating.there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.but in this are they both sure they are ready to settle down are they financially okay graduated from college and a list of other things then if the answers to thess...

30 Dec 06

Do you think that I am cheating my parents?

babyqueen @babyqueen (39) • India 29 Dec 06

I am in love with a person who is not able to walk. He is paralysed from his waist. I really love him and he loves me too and cannot live without me. I did never tell my parents a lie. I have not hidden it from them at the...

cheating

telling lies to parents

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funlola the bible tells us that a man/woman shall leave his fatherand mother and cleave unto his wife/husband and they too shall bcome one flesh.no i know u are not cheating ur parents.u are the one who is getting marrie not ur parents i need u to go back to them and...

29 Dec 06

How to help an old lady?

stonozka @stonozka (43) 27 Dec 06

There is a lady who lives on our street. She is 81 years old and lives alone. She doesnt have any children and never married. She lives in a small apartment by herself. I saw her always alone and befriended her if I can call it...

old lady

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funlola okay this is really tricky but i think the best way ti handle this is to see if u can get her to talk about her past why she never married or had children.her past definitely has to do with her apperance.when u hear the story u can then help her to overcome...

28 Dec 06

Will you accept apologies from a person who ruined your relationship?

shaj_me @shaj_me (149) • Philippines 27 Dec 06

i have a cousin who's been in this kind of situation. she's been in a relationship for 8 years and they have planned for marriage already. One day, her fiance's ex-girlfriend suddenly appeared from nowhere and seduced her fiance...

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funlola my advice to ur cousin is to forgive her friend because forgiveness holds the key to her healing.about her bf she is the only one that can decide wht exactly she wants if she wants him back or not.let her be truthfull toher slf seacch her heart and no wht she...

28 Dec 06

I Did it with my Girl friend's sister - Suggest

manav_in4u @manav_in4u (76) • India 27 Dec 06

Guys I will narrate a story which happened to me last night. I stay in an apartment. My girl friend and her friends also stays in the same apartment.y' day when my GF went to her home town I went to her apartment and enquried...

suggest

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funlola there is a saying that goes- there is nothing hidden under sun.i know the best way to handle this situation is to tell ur g/f about it explain the circumstances dont leave anything behind.and belive me if she truly loves u she will forgive u and it will build...

28 Dec 06

Bad Breath...what should i do?

cheenlly @cheenlly (3476) • Philippines 27 Dec 06

I have a boyfriend and he is a great guy but one thing i dont like is his breath is rather foul smelling, so that i find the odour from his mouth sickening whenever our faces come close together. He is not used to be like that...

bad breath

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funlola hi my advise to u;communication is the solution to a lot of problems talk to him in a very polite manner let him know u are not embarraeds by it but that he has to do something about it because of future purposes.advice him tosee a dentist but b4 then get him...

28 Dec 06

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What would you do if you went to an ATM machine to do a transaction and...

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13388) • United States 27 Dec 06

when you went up to the machine you noticed two $100 bills sitting in the compartment where the deposit envelopes are atored? Would you take the money and leave? Would you leave it there? This has happened to me several times...

what would you do tempting situation

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funlola if u had taken the money,then it would have been stealing which is a sin in the sight of God.so wht u do next time u come across such money report to the bank authorithiies u never can tell why it was left there.if they are not willinng to do anything about...

28 Dec 06

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Is it true that these cellular pphones can cause brain tumor?

Samson Ogola @Jatelo2 (166) • Nairobi, Kenya 26 Sep 12

I've been reading some articles claiming that the use of cellular phones predesposes one to Brain Tumor. I just got scared because I do use my phone, seriously! More information on this issue would be accommodated and...

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funlola I've been reading some articles claiming that the use of cellular phones predesposes one to Brain Tumor. I just got scared because I do use my phone, seriously! More information on this issue would be accommodated and appreciated!

26 Sep 12

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Mechanical Turk( Amazon) - Please share your experiences

sreekutty @sreekutty (1051) • India 25 Sep 12

Please share your experiences you have on Amazon's mechanical turk. How often do you make a payout there? Are gift cards better than cash?

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funlola Please share your experiences you have on Amazon's mechanical turk. How often do you make a payout there? Are gift cards better than cash?

25 Sep 12

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Here is something I can speak on with confidence...MARRIAGE

try2bsincere @try2bsincere (69) • United States 27 Dec 06

God Day Folks! I have been married for only 6 years and I married at the age of 18. Why so young you may ask, but I did this for a few reasons. One, I was attracted to men (lol). Two, I had already decided that if I was going...

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funlola hello i really agree with u.if a marriage fails or works it is the womans responsibility because she is the home maker.i admire u for reconizing ur weakness and doing the right thing.apart 4rm all these things u have mentioned that can make a marriage work,u...

27 Dec 06

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Alone On Christmas Day

rhea_lyn @rhea_lyn (199) • Philippines 22 Dec 06

In Life,Its my first time to celebrate Christmas Alone,A month ago i run from my house bcoz i cant understand my mom anymore,she always shout on me eventhough its early in the morning.Theres a thing that old mistakes that she...

are alone on this christmas too

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funlola hey dont worry try and catch some fun thie season.do most if not all of the thingsw u love doing.cal ur family especially ur mum let them know how much u love them.and keep ur FAITH IN GOD.cause he is the only one dat can leadus right.above all learn rm ur...

23 Dec 06

A lying child

badmammajdollars @badmammajdollars (83) • United States 22 Dec 06

Hello, I'm a single mom with just one son. My son has being going through some behavioral issues, but as he get older, the issues change. Where we have put a stop the the old, out comes the new. Lately my son has been lying...

child

lies

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funlola hi,the bible tells us that we should train up a child in the way that he should go so that when he grows up he will not depart fromit.pls buy a childrens bible that illustrates and explains every thng about jesus telling lies the consequences and all other...

23 Dec 06

FAITH

ossie16d @ossie16d (11821) • Australia 21 Dec 06

A little girl had been shopping with her Mum in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain...

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funlola this is so far the best thing i have seen on my lot.thank u osie fpr reminding us adults that we need to be like children somethings and accept te things we can not change andchange those we can.thk u so much u can never guess how this few words have bleesed...

22 Dec 06

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T-shape brush

rockatrina @rockatrina (16) • Philippines 27 Jul 11

Have anyone of you tried it and is it effective? My cousin is trying to sell me one, and it's kind of pricey, and I'm contented with the one I'm using right now, the traditional one. I'm sitting in front of the computer for a long...

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funlola Have anyone of you tried it and is it effective? My cousin is trying to sell me one, and it's kind of pricey, and I'm contented with the one I'm using right now, the traditional one. I'm sitting in front of the computer for a long time now, I'm supposed to...

27 Jul 11

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Use daycare if not working?

beth2419 @beth2419 (12) • United States 20 Dec 06

I was wondering if you would still use daycare for your child if you are not working. I have a three month old son and I was planning to go back to work in Jan and have the daycare set up. In the meantime I was told I have been...

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funlola i totally agree with u there is nothing bad in leaving him in the daycare whileu get some household chores done.the only thing is make sure it isnt for more than a few hours as he is stil quite young.

21 Dec 06

Adoption

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 20 Dec 06

If you were abandoned by your birth mother as a child,but adopted by wonderful people and you love them with all heart and they are all you know. Years later your birth mother wants to be a part of your life would you accept her...

adoption

biological mother

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funlola dat is a very sensitive issue.but non the less she is ur mum,wht u would dois let her know that u acknoledge her dat is how far u can go.visit her ask questions about the past and u can then take adecision but i beg u do not in anyway hurt ur foster parents...

21 Dec 06

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A wedding in the near future?

beautyoperater @beautyoperater (1890) • United States 20 Dec 06

My oldest daughter (who is 21) went to her boyfriend's parents house for christmas and told me everything she got from his parents. They gave her a hundred bucks, 50 dollar victoria secret card, another gift card for 50 dollars...

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funlola i dont think ur daughter is too young to get married.but i need u too have a serious talk advice her to finish college and at least get a job.have a career as a woman in case of unforseen circumstances.if she still feels she can do all these while married pls...

21 Dec 06

I am at my wits end!! PLEASE help!!

CheckNitout @CheckNitout (853) • United States 19 Dec 06

My three yeard old daughter won't keep her clothes on for anything. This is nothing new she has been taking htem off every since she figured out she could. I have to dress her 50 times a day and everytime it is a huge struggle....

children

clothes

help

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funlola hmmm dont wory toomuch about it it is just a passing face.but in the mean time u can try dressing up,maybe like qa princess or something and let her know howbeautifull she lookswhen she is dressed and try as mch as possible to be very firm with her when she...

20 Dec 06

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Another Baby!

Mommamea @Mommamea (1215) • United States 19 Dec 06

My Daughter is having another baby. She has a two year old and six month old now and is pregnant again. She was afraid to tell me and other family members thinking they would over react. Would you tell your son or daughter not to...

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funlola our body matabolism differ,and i strongly belive that it was not her fault.so all u need to do is give her all the support and luv u can give her as a mother.it is going to be very difficult 4her i can tell u da but just be there 4 her.after this baby advice...

20 Dec 06

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