genecgena

@genecgena (34)

Philippines • Age 42

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freelancer.com----scam or legit?

hannanable78 @hannanable78 (437) • Philippines 2 Feb 10

i found this site and signed up on it. i opted to give it a try, but i wind up confused. so i bid for some projects that i'm willing to take. then what? again my anxiety attacks on sending out my articles as sacrificial lambs...

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genecgena Hi, I have just started using freelancer.com a few months ago. My advice for you is just be patient and be extra cautious in using the site. When I started i just bid on projects without really analyzing if they're worth my time. I ran out of bid without...

18 Dec 10

if love fails Is it correct to commit suicide?

srinivas2036 @srinivas2036 (188) • India 2 Nov 10

Today we are seeing so mwny news daily in news papers and tv channels about lovers commiting suicide.lovers climbing afort then jumping from their tying their bodies together, and driking pesticides to kill themselves if their...

love suicides

lovers

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genecgena I think it is NEVER correct to commit suicide. Love is such a wonderful thing and it should not be used as a reason to end one's life. A lot of people have gone through heartaches and pains but they get past them. If you continue your life and move on you'll...

3 Nov 10

Sugar content in water

atha13 @atha13 (159) • Malaysia 2 Nov 10

This is kind of silly, but my friend and I had unsettle argument about this the day before. I'm just wondering, is the sugar content (let's say 3 spoons of sugar) is still the same if it is diluted in different volume of water?...

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genecgena I'm sorry to tell you but your friend is right. Three teaspoons of sugar is still three teaspoons of sugar whether it's in a cup or in a liter of water. But the good things is since it's diluted more if you add more water your body may have time to process it...

3 Nov 10

When a relationship breaks up, who suffers more?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 26 Oct 10

is it the man who suffers more when he breaks up the relationship? Or the woman who experiences more pain. Of course it depends on the man and the woman. But in general on an average who suffers more, the man? the woman? My...

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genecgena I think it is the one who loves more, regardless if they're male or female, who suffers more when a relationship is ended. Women are generally known to be more expressive of their emotions but it doesn't mean that men doesn't hurt too. When a relationship ends...

27 Oct 10

I marry the man I did not really love...but love the way he loves me....

mumaysagrado @mumaysagrado (38) • Philippines 27 Oct 10

Well, this is difficult for someone like me because I have a case that I marry the man I did not really love, because I have love someone else, but one night everything was change in an instant, when my husband slept with me and I...

love the way you love me

married

unhappy married life

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genecgena You are in a very hard situation. I know we all deserve to be happy and I know most people here advised you to end your relationship with your husband but I'm afraid I have to disagree with them. Being married is different from just being girlfriend-boyfriend...

27 Oct 10

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I cursed my mother

beeh13u @beeh13u (1037) • Philippines 26 Oct 10

Yesterday, I had a fight with my mom. I get irritated when she burps out loud. I then throw and tear all her things. I know I am being a brat but I can't control my anger. It is not the right place for me to teach my mother a...

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genecgena You got angry with your mom because you thought it was rude that she burps out loud but think about how much more rude it is to throw and tear all your mother's things and fight with her. If her offense was so great that you can't manage to be patient with her...

26 Oct 10

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Wouldn't it be nice?

slovenc1 @slovenc1 (2089) • Slovenia 25 Oct 10

Wouldn't it be nice to have a piece of land with no neighbors at least 5 kilometers around you? To go there and do whatever you want without thinking someone will see you. To just relax in the grass and enjoy freedom? Don't know...

dream

dream home

dream house

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genecgena I would want a place just like you imagined but maybe I would want a neighbor nearer than 5 kilometers away. I want to be surrounded by nature. I want to be in a place where my children can run around without me worrying that a car might hit them. I want...

26 Oct 10

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Stubborn Kid???

babyEj @babyEj (1522) • Philippines 22 Oct 10

My son is just two years old but he is so stubborn most of the time. he likes to do what he wants. Whenever , I discipline him it seems that I am ignored. He doesn't listen to me and think everything was just a play. Yes, he's too...

adjustment

playful

stubborn

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genecgena I think you should relax :) It's normal for a child that young to be playful and you can't really expect them to follow whatever you tell them. Just understand that your child is in a stage that he likes to explore a lot, play a lot and at the same time he's...

26 Oct 10

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Loving your children or spoiling them?

tjen_anni @tjen_anni (317) • Indonesia 22 Oct 10

The words ' love' and 'spoil' are totally different in meaning. But many people tend to assume spoil with love. Spoiling a child is not really good for next development of the child itself...Don't you agree with me??

children

love

spoil

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genecgena I agree with you but just the same, sometimes people assume that if they love their children too much they are spoiling them. I think there's nothing wrong with loving your child so much. I guess it's okay to give your child whatever makes them happy. We just...

26 Oct 10

How to Say Love...

ivanmarginal @ivanmarginal (675) • Indonesia 21 Oct 10

I lose mother when I was a kid. But it is just OK for me. Nothing to grieve at. I have many mothers in the form of teachers, sisters, aunts, friends... I just want to say love to her. Though it is impossible to say to the dead. I...

loneliness

love

mother

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genecgena I'm sure your mother wouldn't want you to be lonely, she'll be so proud that you grew up to be a good person even if she was not there to guide you. Sometimes we need not tell someone we love them. I'm sure wherever she is your love reaches her. When you feel...

26 Oct 10

Can you stay alone at night times in a big house?

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 24 Oct 10

Hi friends, Can you stay alone in a big house alone in the night times? For me I cant because from my childhood I never stayed alone atleast one time also.. always either with my parents and sister or atleast with my granny...

alone

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genecgena I have no problem staying home alone at night. I used to be afraid when I was still young but eventually I grew out of it. I still feel a little afraid sometimes especially when I'm in a big house but I just think to my self there's no point scaring myself and...

25 Oct 10

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dealing with a jelous boyfriend

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 24 Oct 10

let's say you had an extremly jelous boyfriend who doesn't allow you to do anything, you can't go out, you can't dress the way yout want because he thinks you're trying to get other men, you can't meet your girls or tell them to...

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genecgena I think that's a little too much jealousy on the part of your boyfriend. You can't love a person and how that little trust. You should talk to him that he has to let you live your life. Whether it's insecurity or maybe he's doing something wrong that made him...

25 Oct 10

Im I too bad of a sister?

jramorinD @jramorinD (85) • Philippines 25 Oct 10

I grew up understanding that my father isn't staying with us in our house. He has his own family, a legal family. It hurts to say this but my mom is just a mistress and we're just the second family. Even for our situation, I...

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genecgena I don't think you're a bad sister just because your brother turned out that way. We can only do so much in disciplining our younger siblings. Remember that taking care of him is not your sole responsibility, there are your parents to do that also. And even if...

25 Oct 10

csi

snowy @snowy22315 (180870) • United States 24 Oct 10

DO you watch CSI? We are watching a rerun right now on spike. It's new to me though. I never saw it before. It is apretty good show, although some of the medical scenes can be gross.

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genecgena We always watch CSI. Sometimes I would complain to my husband because we already saw a particular episode twice or thrice yet he wouldn't allow me to switch to another program. Although i do enjoy watching CSI myself. I don't have any problem with "gross"...

25 Oct 10

As a wife do you obey husband's command??

Premods @mods196621 (3652) • Philippines 24 Oct 10

I am a working wife and away from my husband and children but going home 2 times a week. Now my husband told ma to stop working and better stay at home but the problem is I don't need to stop. Many things are going to...

wife

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genecgena I wouldn't tolerate it if my husband ORDERS me to do anything especially something I don't want to do. But if he ASKS me, that's a different thing. I might not necessarily agree with him immediately but i will definitely consider. As husband and wife we should...

25 Oct 10

do you make friends easily ?

laken02 @laken02 (3065) • United States 21 Oct 10

do you make friends easily ?

friends

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genecgena Yes, i do make friends fairly easy. You just have to find interest in people and getting to know someone wouldn't be that hard. I guess the more important question is if we do keep our friends because i think maintaining a good relationship with someone is...

23 Oct 10

Would a person be considered two-faced if they do agree with both parties?

spiderlizard22 @spiderlizard22 (3444) • United States 23 Oct 10

Say there are two people who have a different point of view and argue. The third person comes around and claims to agree with the first person but when the third person is with the second person the third person claims to agree...

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genecgena Not really. Sometimes even if two people are arguing they can be both correct at some point. Maybe they argue because they just don't see the point of the other person but a third party usually has the advantage of seeing both sides of the coin. SO it is...

23 Oct 10

Do You Care of What You Wear?

ivanmarginal @ivanmarginal (675) • Indonesia 21 Oct 10

Does everybody care of what he/she wear? In this case, I'm included in those who doesn't really care about that. Dress, uniform, shoes, shirt, or anything we wear. They just complicated things for me. I love of being 'as I am'...

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genecgena I am usually more concerned with comfort rather than looks in what I am wearing. I don't usually dress to please people. Although I can't help but care sometimes like when my husband comments that he doesn't like what I'm wearing.

22 Oct 10