ieniemienie

@ieniemienie (232)

Netherlands • Age 45

Joined myLot 13 years ago

When life gets you down, pick yourself up!

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Ladies...shaving??

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 9 Mar 12

Okay! I have a question for all the girls here at mylot. I have read and been told multiple times that it is better to shave in the direction of the growth of my hair. I guess it's suppose to be better for your skin and reduce...

beauty

shaving

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ieniemienie it is true that it is better for your skin. When you do it in the opposite direction you increase the chance of getting ingrown hair, which is very painfull. Also it is harder to get it nice and smooth when you shave in the direction of the hair growth,...

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how do you define and face stress?

arnoldream @arnoldream (1332) • Philippines 2 Oct 11

problem and stress goes together though their meaning is not the same.. stress do come if problem arise..and when you're in stress it really adds more problem..i've been doing some reading and sites researches about stress and...

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ieniemienie My guess is everyone has stress sometimes. Stress however is something personal. I mean something might be stressfull for one and causes no stress for another. A great way to relieve stress caused by work for example is letting go. Many people keep wandering...

2 Oct 11

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How to overcome my depression?

ricextreme @ricextreme (964) • Ecuador 1 Oct 11

Hello everyone... I need you to tell me some activities to do to overcome my depression. Please I need advice so I can be happy or at least not sad all the time. I've been suffering this long time ago, but lately the problem...

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ieniemienie The first thing I would say is visit your doctor! Especially since you have thoughts of suicide this would be the smartest thing to do. Do not be afraid he will just prescribe you pills, he could als advise you to visit a psychologist or something. If you do...

2 Oct 11

Do you plan your trips before you leave or do you make plans when you arrive?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 22 Sep 11

When you travel do you like to plan your trip before your leave (book hotel rooms, buy bus and train tickets in advance etc) or you do you prefer to find hotel rooms and buy tickets when when you arrive at your destination?...

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ieniemienie When I travel I do not make strict plans. I know where I am going and that is it. Usually I check at home, which things there are to do. For example what activities there are and sightseeing areas, cities etc. I take this information with me. When at the...

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Is it bad to press the + sign for every conversation

catof1 @catof1 (683) • United States 6 Aug 11

Is is bad or over kill when you press the + sign in every conversation and for every one you like? I do this almost every time since I like the topic and the people who respond.

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ieniemienie Ever since I realised where these buttons where for, I do use them a lot. I have never rated negative yet. Just the ones I think gave a well overthought response to whatever discussion. I agree these buttons where placed with a reason. So why not use them? It...

6 Aug 11

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How to persuade my husband to do something for us?

bobosusanwang @bobosusanwang (135) • China 5 Aug 11

Dear mylotters,my daughter is 16months old,I'm very happy to be a mum and enjoy every second being with her,however,I'm facing a big problem-my hubby.He is big fan of CS and online games,and I feel more and more that the only...

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ieniemienie Counterstrike? It is addictive. Had a boyfriend addicted.. Ever thought of 'forgetting' to pay the internet bill? I think it is really hard to get him of his computer by just asking him nicely. These computergames are really addictive and he has not yet...

5 Aug 11

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Google is Revised CIA

Netsbridge @Netsbridge (3253) • United States 4 Aug 11

Did you know that Google the spy is the revised CIA? Google does not only store your online activities and supply them upon court order or by request of other government officials, Google inhibits other search engines from...

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ieniemienie Scary stuff. I am a bit scared now hearing (reading) your story. I always realised we put our lives out there. Some we do ourselves knowing, some unknowing. But the part about the lawsuit?? They will take it that far!? I never heard of these isues here but...

4 Aug 11

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Do You Agree Soon Most Networks Will Be Wireless ?

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 4 Aug 11

I have seen different types of cabled LAN local area networks which used ethernet cabling standard from UTP to thinnet and thicknet cables I m finding that the cabled networks r fastly replaced by wireless networks Do u...

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ieniemienie Yes, I do. Here it is most common to use wifi (wireless internet connection). Almost every provider delivers their equipment with a wifi modem. In companies however it is different, most companies have established years ago and put in the wires then. I...

4 Aug 11

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I always get side tracked! It is soo annoying.

kwylima @kwylima (451) • United States 4 Aug 11

I have tons and tons of pages to read for some test and then when I start to read I also start to think about other things. It makes me crazy and I always have to spend more time than I really need to finish something. I don’t...

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ieniemienie I always had the same trouble. I was not able to concentrate and focus on what I was doing. I was not able to learn only. I will share the thing I used to do to improve this. I just to summarize everything. With french I just re-wrote the words, sentences...

4 Aug 11

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Have u ever told someone you cared about him/her & then regretted it afterwards?

five678 @five678 (23) • United States 28 Jul 11

Just curious. I was listening to Jennifer Lopez's song a while ago, entitled "Should've Never." The chorus went something like this: Should've never told you.. that I cared about you.. Didn't think that it would be so...

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ieniemienie Yes I have. I once told a guy I cared about him and respected him. This was not a lie. I just did not mean it in a romantic kind of was, at least not yet. After that I told him, he went overboard. He gave me the key to his house. When we were out I had to...

29 Jul 11

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its OK not to be OK!?

j0vyCute @j0vyCute (35) • Philippines 29 Jul 11

good day! have you experience this? when somebody ask you this what would be in your mind? GBU!

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ieniemienie When you meet people on the street, they usually ask: 'how are you doing?'. They expect you to answer, 'good' or 'great'. They do not expect you to answer that you are feeling down or sad or something. When you answer in a negative was, people usually do not...

29 Jul 11

Giving advise doesn't develop a person...

xcyper2084 @xcyper2084 (152) • Philippines 29 Jul 11

Do you beleive that we are not helping a person develop when we give advise? For me giving advise is my way of sharing my thoughts and experience to someone. It some how we are giving a solution to someone who is in need .We...

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ieniemienie I think if a person is looking for advise they usually have their own plan already. They just want another persons'point of view. If you are afraid you are getting people depended on your advise, first ask them about their own point of view on something. Then...

29 Jul 11

cant forgive someone?

mathgadiano @mathgadiano (166) • Philippines 29 Jul 11

Forgiving isn't that hard, It's just giving away just one plain room in your hearth. Forgiving is giving your hate just a little room in your hearth. Forgiveness is a happiness.

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ieniemienie Forgiving in a way is freeing yourself. It is not healthy to keep walking around with hatred inside. Although it is better for yourself to forgive, it is not always possible. Some thing are just to hard to forgive. When you got betrayed for example, by your...

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Leaving MYLOT!!!

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41289) • Delhi, India 23 Jul 11

Hello MYLOTTERS, I know there are people from whom some are new & some are veterans.We all have Fun here on MYLOT rarely we get bored from it.If we get bored then after taking our time we again come back to...

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ieniemienie Well I am even shorter here and I understand where you are coming from. When I started here, I first thought I came into a group and would never fit in. Although after time, you get your friends, you read their comments and discussions. And all of a sudden you...

25 Jul 11

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Could you forgive infidelity?

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 25 Jul 11

know that everyone has come in such a situation. or he has committed adultery or cheated. I think some others do not forgive. Do you forgive a betrayal?

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ieniemienie When your loved one betrays you in such a manner. The most people will decide to try to forgive him and not let the relationship go shatter. However this is the case when the batrayal happened once and it almost never happens once. I said try to forgive...

25 Jul 11

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