jayjovita

@jayjovita (27)

Philippines • Age 61

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Are you willing to pay High Tuition fees for Pre-Schools?

clod0327 @clod0327 (817) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

I only have a 1.4 year old daughter but I notice that pre-schools now accept toddlers as young as 1.8 years old. So I already started scouting for good pre-schools in our area where I can enroll my daughter. But I was shocked...

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jayjovita I am willing to pay high for the tuition fee of my child as long as I am sure the school would attest that they are really that good. Good school ,Discipline/ training and good foundation at an early age will be the stepping stone for elementary to...

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Do you Punish Your Child, If They Tell You Your Butt's Getting Big?

all4ucnc @all4ucnc (861) • United States 25 Mar 07

Okay, I was completely stunned. During a few sun breaks We went out and started picking up some of the winter mess, branches, and such. When we came in for lunch. my son who is 5 is standing next to me and says. "Mom I noticed...

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jayjovita Well considered it as a wake up call. Good for you it was just your butt. My child even told me one time that I am "fat". My child said- Mom you need to buy those exercise stuff we see on TV you need them because you are fat. And don't wear two piece swim suit...

26 Mar 07

Should you teach your kids or let them just enjoy themselves?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 25 Mar 07

I spend a lot of time at home guiding my kids play so that they are learning things and also actually sitting them down and doing formal lessons. With my 2 year old we do matching of letters and numbers, I try to get her to write...

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jayjovita Provide them with a schedule of what to do per day. don't give them to much academic work. Your kids also need to play and enjoy life. Putting to much pressure with their studies, they might get bored when they reach their higher level and would loose interest...

26 Mar 07

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Would you have an affair with a coworker?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 2 Nov 06

Office Romance? Would you?

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jayjovita Yes- I would have an affair with a co-worker as long as i know that the person is single and has good moral values. I will just make sure that I will put a barrier between my personal and professional lfe.

23 Mar 07

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Would you consider having an affair with a married man or woman?

gloria777 @gloria777 (1674) • India 22 Mar 07

You're still single and near hopeless to find a relationship.what if you come across someone and fell in love with that person- and found out that he/she's already married- but wants to have an affair with you.Will you still...

affair

affair with married person

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jayjovita what!!! you will still take it with limitation? you are really that hopeless. Why - is it okey for you to play second fiddler for the rest of your life. Having an affair with a married person would really ruin a family's life and marriage. while you can get...

23 Mar 07

Will you stay in the relationship or go IF....

catcai @catcai (1056) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

ladies...Here is the situation- you have been seeing this guy for quite sometime now say 6 mos, all of a sudden he told you that he got his ex gf pregnant and the pregnancy has been going on for 7 mos now..for some reason the...

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jayjovita first -the guy should really take responsibility for what he did. second - not sure if I would stay in the relationship with him. I would really really pause and really think about it. I would also consider the ex girlfriend side. How sincere and honest is he...

23 Mar 07

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edatajob.com and clickbank does not work well if you're in the Philippines

fortheweb @fortheweb (61) • Philippines 18 Mar 07

Just signed up in edatajob.com and paid $47 via paypal. edatajob.com does recommend clickbank. When I login to edatajob.com and follow their recommended steps, at step 2, it is recommended to get a clickbank account only to find...

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jayjovita duh... never pay any amount to any company that promises you extra income. Always double check first. Said to say you lost $47.

23 Mar 07

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Should I tell my sister he's not right for her?

ehlana88 @ehlana88 (330) • United States 21 Mar 07

My sister is in love with someone who is controlling and abusive. I sit and watch her subvert her personality just to be with him. What was once a bright and gloriously happy young woman has become a dumpy, depressing caretaker of...

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jayjovita If I were you, talk to you sister before it is too late. Regrets are always at the last. I know your sister would really be offended and wont liten but at least you said you piece to protect her from being "abused and used ". Isn't the guy taking advantage of...

22 Mar 07

How can we find happiness?

yanstill @yanstill (1490) • China 22 Mar 07

some people say our greatest source of happiness comes from our relationship with friends and family.do you believe? here's the test,if you could lose your friends or your eyesight,which would you choose?

happiness

life

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jayjovita Happiness comes from within. Happiness for me is satisfaction and contentment of what you have. You don't need to be filthy rich to be happy nor you don't have to be a pauper to be happy. If you ask me what would I choose my friends or eyesight- It is okey...

22 Mar 07

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rich

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 1 Mar 07

do you want to be rich?? is it a material one??

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want

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jayjovita I want to be rich. Indeed it is material one. I want to be rich not through corruption but through hard work. And if I am rich - then I can share lots of my blessings. wouldn't that be nice? how- to have a foundation or build a nice school.... donate...

21 Mar 07

Can you describe “What is the difference between want and need”?

Akhilesh @yourgoogly (1671) • India 26 Jan 07

Can you describe “What is the difference between want and need”?

need

want

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jayjovita well - when you say want - it is just a desire and you can do away with it. When you say need - it is a necessity and essential.

21 Mar 07

Vegetables or Meat?

honey_angel125 @honey_angel125 (46) • Philippines 9 Mar 07

We all love eating. But I love vegetables than meat coz I can get more energy in vegetables. Are you one with me?

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jayjovita I agree. It is better to eat lots of veggies and fruits , rather than meat. For those who are meat lovers - chance your diet. More veggies than meat especially red meat.

21 Mar 07

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Not eating is not a diet.

honey_angel125 @honey_angel125 (46) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

Some don't eat to be thinner and sexier but they don't know that what they call "diet" is not really diet but death. You'll lose weight but you might also lose your life at the same time.If you want to stay fit or lose weight, eat...

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jayjovita If you want to die early - don't eat. If you want to stay sexy - have a 10 to 15 minutes exercise everyday. dont drink soda. lessen you carbo intake at night. eat lots of fruits and veggies and you surely you will stay sexy and healthy. don't believe in...

21 Mar 07

What am I to do with the taste of AMPALAYA [BITTER GOURDS]???

vesuvius @vesuvius (1677) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

The entire Philippines is halved in this one GREAT issue: The taste of AMPALAYA [bitter gourd]... LOL Many people say it's good but some people think otherwise.. Me, I personally dont like it.. It tastes just like the common...

bitter

food

vegetable

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jayjovita I used to not like bitter gourds but come to think of the nutrients I would be getting from them. I gave it a shot. Know I enjoy eating them. I got used to the taste. Actually you make it into salad- use french dressing. sliced it thinly add tomatoes and...

21 Mar 07

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When did your kids start preschool? What kind was it?

princesszee @princesszee (28) • United States 12 Feb 07

My daughter turned two in December and I'm just looking for thoughts on when she should start preschool and what kind she should go to. She's very independent but she's never been to daycare or anything, either. I always planned...

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jayjovita Before enrolling your child to a Montessori preschool- look around at other school first near your neighborhood compare and observe to see if there are teaching the values you wanted. If you don't believe in the philosophy of that Montessori school well -...

14 Feb 07

Debating academic redshirting my son

teagsmom @teagsmom (91) • United States 13 Feb 07

My son will be 5 in very late April. He's in his second year of preschool, this year being a pre-k program. His teacher is starting to work more one on one with him, but has already mentioned the possibility of academic...

academic redshirting

holding kids back in school

kindergarden

preschool

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jayjovita Each child has its own individual differences. The teacher should respect that. Holding him back is not the solution. The teacher should identify why your son doesn't have the interest to write and why does he get bored. How would your son feel if all of his...

14 Feb 07

Philippines: celebrity politicians filing candidacy for the upcoming elections

peachtabernilla @peachtabernilla (305) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

Duhhhhh.... what do they know about laws? and implementing it? making platforms and doing projects??? for short what do they know about gverning the country??? some of them didn't finish high school...I don't think they have the...

philippines

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jayjovita I agree with you. How I wish the Comelec would have a better critieria in choosing a candidate. Some of the "wannabe" politicians are making the country a laughing stock... Filipinos should wake up and think of their future... NO popularity please... It is not...

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Boxer for Politics?? Maybe you know him??

sourgrapes77 @sourgrapes77 (95) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

Do you know MANNY "PACMAN" PAQUIAO?? He is my Idol and one of few persons that gave way to fame and heroism in my country. Man he sure could punch and knockout his opponents on the ring . But recently he is running for...

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jayjovita duh! indeed I know him. I just couldn't imagine him being a politician. He isn't yet ready to be one. As of now he is still at the height of his boxing career.Politics can wait. If he would insist in joining politics I do believe that he would be losing his...

14 Feb 07

Did your parents make mistakes when raising you?

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 12 Feb 07

It seems many people blame their parents for things that have gone wrong in their life. Or they'll say they want to raise their kids differently than they were raised. Of course no parents are perfect, but do you parent your...

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jayjovita If you think your parents made a mistake when raising you. Dont repeat history and do it to your children for revenge purposes. That isn't right. I agree that no parents are perfect - I am just lucky that my parents tried their best to impart good values to...

13 Feb 07