JRJohnson

@JRJohnson (85)

United States • Age 58

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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It's Partially The Lack Of Money!

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 24 Mar 13

I just figured out one other thing that makes me feel "less than" other people. Maybe it's stupid, it probably is but my whole life I have not been able to do things others have because of lack of money, I did not fit in at school...

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JRJohnson We are all valuable and special in our own each individual way. You should think yourself lesser than because you lack material possessions. "Things" don't define a person nor does lack of "things" devalue a person. Trust in your path and know that all will...

24 Mar 13

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My counselor told me to have an affair..

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 14 Mar 13

Apparently I have bad luck with counselors. There's another one I'm not going to go back to.. but at least I do feel differently after speaking with her a few times. I started seeing her awhile ago.. and mostly talked about my...

counseling

marriage

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JRJohnson I applaud you for not simply giving up and finding the next quick fix! For, if you can't work out the issues with your husband, then they will appear again in another relationship. There are lessons that you as a person need to learn and this is the universe's...

14 Mar 13

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Selfish behavior

RiverLight @RiverLight (240) • Romania 14 Mar 13

Sometimes we have to deal with a selfish behavior in our relationships. Personally, i'm a generous person and i get hurt when i have to deal with a selfih partner, i really can't understand how far this behavior can go. How do...

relationship

selfish behavior

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JRJohnson The most important question you have to ask yourself, is what is my need in attracting a "selfish" partner into my life?

14 Mar 13

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Does Advising Others Enhance Your Own Life?

dubbc3 @dubbc3 (125) • United States 3 May 12

It's interesting that advice givers sometimes find it difficult to advise themselves. I am asked for advice at least 2 to 3 times a week. People somehow trust my opinions and advice. I enjoy the moments when I advise someone, and...

advice

advice giver

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JRJohnson You've hit the nail on the head! When you help someone in need, it feeds the soul with something that everyday occurrences cannot provide. We as humans are not an isolated species, so helping others strengthens our spirit. Although, some who give advice don't...

28 Aug 12

What will be your first reaction if you find out you got cancer?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 19 Aug 12

Its really hard to think that you are dying right? One of our former helper is diagnosed to have a colon cancer and the doctor says he has 10 months to live only. Its a pity that he has 10 months to live. But since the doctor only...

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JRJohnson Of course he has the right to know! He should be able to base decisions upon his shortened timeline. Who knows what direction his life would take if he knew. He would definitely prepare differently for his family's future.

19 Aug 12

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loaning money?

punkgurl73 @punkgurl73 (248) • United States 19 Aug 12

would you loan money to a freind if it was not an emergency?or even if it was.we all know this can create a problem with freinhship,what do you think?

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JRJohnson First, I would not "loan" a friend money! If I had it to give, I would give the money to my friend. That's what friends do! If you don't have the money to give to a friend, then it's a loan. But, why loan a friend money, when they're obviously your friend....

19 Aug 12

unable to take a decision on my love

ksandeepkumark @ksandeepkumark (19) 19 Aug 12

hello guys, i have a problem with my love...actually my love is on online and we both are serious in our love and this is going on since 4years...actually the problem is that when ever i ask her for out or for any other place or...

love

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JRJohnson It's as real as you choose to make it!

19 Aug 12

Relationships: The difference between reasonable and unreasonable expectations

sherrybelle @sherrybelle (707) • United States 8 Aug 12

Each and every day we have opportunities to interact with people. Some of our interactions involve business relationships and personal relationships with those people. If I tell someone that I will meet them at a specific place...

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JRJohnson Expectations start with communication. If you don't communicate well, you're fostering the very environment you dislike. So, do you communicate well? That sets expectations and no one is disappointed!

11 Aug 12

Gabby Douglass

lyricmemphis @lyricmemphis (260) • United States 6 Aug 12

Okay I am appalled by the negative comments about gabby's hair!! As a Black woman, even more disturbed that it is mostly my own ethic group who's so negative. We(as a people) have such a crab in the barrel mentality). This young...

hair

sports

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JRJohnson Hatred for ourselves as a people is tragic! I'm disappointed that a discussion of this type had to even be started!

11 Aug 12

Possessive Love: Family or Me?!

Shavkat @Shavkat (140157) • Philippines 11 Aug 12

Love is a strong affection, to love and to be loved. Being in-love can be describe with so many flowery words, the moment you felt it, the life has its meaning. Can love be a dangerous thing? I had seen so many people who had been...

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JRJohnson Some people don't recognize love when they're in it. Love is a risk, and some people aren't mentally or emotionally ready to take that risk without certain parameters. Often, those parameters involve control because if they have control, then they can love...

11 Aug 12

Can a Boy and girl remain best friends?

useaname @useaname (47) 11 Aug 12

Hi, Lets see. Me and my friend have been best friend for about a year and a half. We started off as total strangers. When i first met her...i literally did not even bother talking to her. But we had the same interest and we re...

best friends love relationships

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JRJohnson Once you cross that line, it's challenging to go back, especially if you both have feelings for one another. It makes matters even more challenging if you're both physically attracted to one another. You need to both sit down and have a real heart to heart...

11 Aug 12

Can Paul and Deron beat Tony Parker

paulli3 @paulli3 (312) • China 28 Jul 12

Dream Team will face the France in its first game. it is the first challenge that American face. the France is a good team in Olymipic Games and it has a lot of wonderful basketball player. the player always have good performance...

basketball paul dream team

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JRJohnson Tony Parker is not as good as Paul or Williams. His jump shot is off and on and both of the other guys are just as fast. Williams is more versatile. As far as the Olympics, the game is suited for a non-physical play, so even the Americans can be beaten...

29 Jul 12

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game of love

mylzcantor08 @mylzcantor08 (66) • Philippines 28 Jul 12

it's so funny how a person chases after someone while ignoring the person who chases after him. i'm pretty sure that most of us here have ever been in that kind of situation, wherein we try hard to be noticed by someone we like to...

chasing after someone

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JRJohnson People play these games because they haven't learn to be confident in themselves. Learn to love yourself and value yourself and you will have absolutely no tolerance for these games. You certainly won't attract those that love to play!

29 Jul 12

My friend's father passed away

aejey322 @aejey322 (1004) • Philippines 17 Jul 12

I received a text message early in the morning last Saturday. It was my friend informing me that our friend Gilda's father passed away. Though we knew his father had an illness, it was still a shocking news for us because we...

father

loved ones

parents

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JRJohnson When you love someone, tell them every day. I realize in our busy lives we often forget that old saying, "tomorrow is not promised", until it impacts our lives. Remember to say I love you and mean it. You just never know.

26 Jul 12

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What does it mean when someone says.....

ShootingStar79 @ShootingStar79 (67) • United States 23 Jul 12

When my ex and I broke up, he told me that I would always have a place in his heart...what does that mean? I mean, I have an idea but I would like some input on this and see what the outside world has to say lol

lost love

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JRJohnson That means in his own way there will always be love for you as a person on some level, just no longer an intimate one. He cares for you and is hoping you can always remain close friends.

26 Jul 12

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