kabudel

@kabudel (175)

Philippines • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Any good tilapia recipes?

sourxgirl @sourxgirl (73) • United States 24 Nov 08

I usually buy a box of tilapia at the local grocery store, and cook it with some butter and garlic and put it over rice. That gets a little boring after awhile, so does anyone have any good tilapia recipes they'd be willing to...

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kabudel cooking it with cocoonut milk is my personal favorite! just saute some garlic, onions and ginger then add the tilapia and a bit of vinegar then let it simmer for 5 minutes... then add the coconut milk, a bit of horse radish leaves, a pinch of pepper and a bit...

29 Jul 09

Do formula milk make the kids smarter?

vingyan06 @vingyan06 (2486) • Malaysia 24 Jul 09

I read some where mention that kids will became smarter if they take good brand of formula milk. Do you agree or disagree? My 2 kids are on a good brand of formula milk. What I know is each of them take at least 1 tin of 1.3 kg...

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kabudel Yes, the more expensive the formula is, the better -- since the nutrients and the vitamins are much well balanced. But of course, you have to check with your children's pediatrician which formula best fits them. Also, I agree with the previous posts that for...

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Feeling crazy with Dysmenorrhea?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 1 May 09

I have a friend who suffer from painful dysmenorrhea and it always make her crazy. I too suffers but not miserable as my friend. She complain that she feel weird, undergone many symptoms like bloating, headache, painful breast and...

red days

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kabudel I suffer from dysmenorrhea every month. My best aid for cramps is to add warm compress to my lower ab and if a headache combos with the cramps, a low dose of paracetamol.

20 Jul 09

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As a WOMAN, Would you still use your SURNAMES after getting married?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

If you are given a freedom of choice to retain your surnames after getting married. Would you accept it as a form of recognition to every women right to choose what you want even in terms of what surnames should be used by you? Do...

girl power

singles surnames retention

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kabudel I think I will keep my surname... Or maybe just add my husband's to it.

19 Jul 09

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What helped you to improve your english?

just4you0 @just4you0 (421) • India 19 Jul 09

English is an international language and people who dont know english can be considered as illiterate. People who born in english speaking countries are lucky to have complete command over english from their birth.But for others...

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kabudel Read. Read. Read. I read a lot and watch a lot of english films and shows. At times, when reading a book and I come across an unfamiliar word, the thesaurus or the dictionary provides big help in understanding... Then I would try and use those "new" words...

19 Jul 09

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Which is better a lie that draws a smile, or the truth that draws a tear?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

I rather just know the truth and tears on my eyes, then just lie and draws smile.Anyway if in the end I will loose the person who will make me smile, I rather just loose her now and tears in my eyes. In the end there will be pain,...

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kabudel Better to slap me with the truth rather than give me a run around. It hurts more to know in the end that you were betrayed. Besides, reality bites, it's just a matter of staying productive even when it feels like your world is crushed into bits.

19 Jul 09

ironing of clothes..are you doing this?

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 16 Jul 09

if so, how do you do this? by batch? or you just iron your clothes when you need to use it? all of us wanted to wear clean, good smelling and well ironed clothes...of course its nice to look people wearing such neat...

clothes

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kabudel I iron my clothes once in a while... But most of the time, I don't. We usually add fabric softener when doing laundry and that makes most of our clothes not so rumpled--which is good enough for me since I prefer wash and wear. Ironing usually becomes a...

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When you were little, what did you want to be when you grow up?

tomjoad @tomjoad (551) • Philippines 16 Jul 09

does the question sound familiar? yes of course! at one point of our lives we were asked that question. at school our teachers would ask us to come up front and tell the whole class what you want to be when you grow up. sometimes...

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kabudel I wanted to be a lawyer then but I am not. LOL. My bf says I can be a lawyer with the way I argue ahahaha... So I guess I can only pretend to be one atm... :P

16 Jul 09

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What time of day do you feel you are most productive and why? Morning vs.evening

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 13 Jul 09

We must to follow our natural rhythms?.Why people who are more productive and creative think that people who can work much better in the evening are lazy?they are not, they make same work, but in different time of the day. Are...

question and answer

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kabudel I'm a nocturnal person, so I prefer working at nights. It must be because it's more quiet at nights that I get to concentrate more on my craft. But anytime of the day, as long as the drive is there and the job is interesting, I can work A-OK! :P

13 Jul 09

College or Not College

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 11 Jul 09

I am a 45yrs old woman that lives in KY. Some time back I had started going to college to prove a point to my adult cousin. I was trying to get him to go to school to get a new profession and he made at statement that he was too...

college

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kabudel You're not. Learning isn't about age! So, go for it, finish what you started and become whatever you want. Some people say, once a person ages, he or she isn't that open to the thought of change anymore... Prove them wrong! Tell through your actions that...

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I shoud watch friends how many times if I want to improve my English?

colydf @colydf (913) • China 10 Jul 09

I am a Chinese girl. And I want to improve my English through watching friends, because some people say that friends is really a very fantastic soap opera and very suitable for you to improve your English. And I just wonder I need...

friends

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kabudel Friends is ok but I would advise you watch more kids' shows because they use simple english to start with. Nickelodeon is a good one to watch. :)

10 Jul 09

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HP or IBM

entrepinoy @entrepinoy (709) • Philippines 4 Jul 09

If you will be a chance to work for either company, which company would you choose and why?

ibm

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kabudel If it means being part of their solutions or IT department, then sure, I'd love to work with any of them... But if it means working for them as a call-center agent, who will go through super-toxic-everyday-job wherein you'll miss your family during the...

10 Jul 09

kulangot?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 10 Jul 09

hi there my pinoy friend mylotters. i want to know what is "kulangot" in english. and have tried to taste it? does anyone want to answer this? thanks.

kulangot

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kabudel hahaha booger! omg kids eat their kulangot, don't they? we were kids, weren't we? hahahahaha

10 Jul 09

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My dear lady friends..I need your help....nothing against you guys and if you

moondancer @moondancer (7431) • United States 10 Jul 09

can help that would be great. I am in Canada, so I'm a long way from home. I am having bad pains in my lower stomach.. mostly on the whole right side. I even hurt in my back. This is entirely different from the other medical...

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kabudel Urinary Tract Infection? Not sure, but your symptoms show that... Try to drink more water and try to detox. Try warm compress when your lower abdomen hurt. And of course, see a doctor asap.

10 Jul 09

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Having two cellphones, do you think it's necessary or just a style?

maxilimian @maxilimian (3099) • Indonesia 10 Jul 09

That's right, having two cellphones, do you think it's necessary or just one of the living style? Why do you think you must have another cellphones again?nowadays people are even more have than just two, i know a...

cellphones necessary

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kabudel I am using two celphones, we got a couple of extra units at home... I am using two, the other one as my personal line while the other one is for work. It's not really a necessity for some people, but it is a big help for me and my family/friends/co-workers...

10 Jul 09

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Are you a hard or a smart worker by nature?

rexythesexy @rexythesexy (174) • India 2 Jul 09

I have seen both kinds of people .One who is not at office but works efficiently and takes good benefits and bonus, but rest are all really hard working and overtime but fail to get a recognition why is it so?

smart

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kabudel I practice the following when working: efficient and proactive. Working smart and hard at the same time, no need to do overtime if one is efficient and proactive. It's okay to be smart, just make sure that your integrity is intact.

9 Jul 09

have you experienced attending wake for the dead? what did you observed?

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 8 Jul 09

here in the Philippines, usually when we lost a loved one, we usually have a 3 days- 1 week wake for them, on those days usually families of the dead offer a prayer for their loved one, also during those days friends and relatives...

burial

dead

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kabudel Funny, wakes become family reunions for most here. Relatives from abroad would come home to pay their respects and it's surprising that you get to see the kids to be all-grown up. During wakes, it was fun--getting to chat with long lost cousins and friends,...

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is it healthy to stay in a marriege for the children?

deedeehall @deedeehall (1144) • United States 6 Jul 09

is it healthy to stay in a marriege for the children? i have such a mean husband some times i find my self walking around with my cell phone in my pocket just in case he gets to out of control.he is gone all the time and never...

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kabudel It would be better for the kids to have a single parent and be raised properly, than have two and get confused between what is right and what is wrong. Better for them to have a grown up parent who will be a good example.

7 Jul 09