labli09

@labli09 (70)

Philippines • Age 33

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Communicaiton within relationships

isha242 @isha242 (83) • United States 2 Jul 12

I used to think that communication was the key for a relationship to work well and last long. Now, I still do believe that it is important but how do you make a relationship work when one person tries to communicate about...

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labli09 What problems are you referring to? Is it your problem as lovers or your own problem that you're sharing to him? If you mean your problem as lovers, you should understand him because sometimes especially in times of misunderstandings, a person chooses to be...

6 Jul 12

Have you brought anything ready for christmas yet?

Anne18 @Anne18 (11029) 26 Sep 11

I do have a few gifts for people upstairs on the top of the wardrobe for people, last week I brought some christmas chocolates half price and I put them on top of the wardrobe. Today I went to the supermarket and brought two tins...

christmas food biscuits to eat

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labli09 i haven't bought anything for Christmas yet. i think it's too early to buy stuffs for Christmas. maybe i'll start buying on the last week of october or first weeks of november.

27 Sep 11

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Freinds any suggestion or Solution about Head ache?

lou_is @lou_is (665) • India 26 Sep 11

Hi friends, i am facing this Head ache from past 3 years or more. I am trying myself to reduce this head ache but i am not. Even i went to hospital and shown to several doctors but they told its normal and nothing to worry. But i...

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labli09 hi there, i read in your discussion that you're drinking coffee. i think you need to stop it, caffeine is a stimulant, so if you'll continue drinking coffee, it will worsen your condition. seeking medical advices is the best thing that you can do.

26 Sep 11

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if words could kill, how many have you murdered?

obe212003 @obe212003 (2299) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

i happen to pass by a neighborhood and saw a middle-age lady endlessly ranting on his husband. She was somewhat cursing him, and hoping he would just vanish! then she turned her wrath against her daughter who was crying and...

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labli09 the child is more pitiful on that situation.well i have never yelled or cursed anyone so i guess i would never be a murderer if that's the case.i am a patient person so if i get angry with anyone, i stay away from that person until my anger subsides.

26 Sep 11

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Having A Child at a Young Age

godsaveus @godsaveus (5) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

Having a child at young age is not a hidrance for reaching your goals in life.Instead, this will be a good motivation for us young parents to continue and finish our studies. Think about it? If you have a good education then...

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labli09 i agree with you..young parent should also think of the positive side on having a children at young age.i can relate with this discussion since my parents married at the young age, it was really difficult, according to them at first but later on, they moved on...

26 Sep 11

Have you been Inlove to a Married Woman/Guy??

Ayeth22 @Ayeth22 (66) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

I been struggle this problem long time ago.. I meet this guy when i was at work!.. Since he was my workmate and mentor he is the one who trained me with everything and everything.. Since then, I figure out i fall my self to him....

struggle

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labli09 hello there ayeth.i can only suggest you that you need to clear things up with that guy.if he's divorced with his ex wife, then you may continue what you already sttarted and be happy with him.but if not, tell him to do legal ways to be separated to his ex...

26 Sep 11

I really want to practice my English!!

Lisa_lam @Lisa_lam (8) • China 25 Sep 11

I'm college student in China and I'm not very good at English. But I really want to make a change. The best way I think is to communicate with local speakers. Maybe you can help me to improve...

learn english

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labli09 hello there lisa..welcome to mylot.you really made the right decision to be here in mylot.you'll definitely enhance your english here.

26 Sep 11

Do you believe on predictions..?

Premods @mods196621 (3652) • Philippines 25 Sep 11

Hello to all friends here.. We are all aware about the fortune telling of those fortune teller. They are all psychic as we know and we tend to go to them if there is thing that we wanted to know immediately. Like if there is...

prediction

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labli09 helo there mods..wel i don't really believe in fortune telling.and i never consulted any fortune teller either.

26 Sep 11

Students have crush on their teachers

pogi253 @pogi253 (1596) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

The high school crush apparently innocent until imaginary becomes reality. Everybody has experienced an infatuation on their professor. It is seamlessly normal. Teen boys and girls are often attracted to teachers who are near in...

crush on teachers

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labli09 haha.i have experienced this but that was when i was in college.it was a very funny story. i had a crush on my clinical instructor before, he was really cute and charming.my classmates always tease me and our instructor. they told our instructor that i had a...

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Unequality: Poor versus Rich people

bessyjanmayi @bessyjanmayi (278) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

We are created by God and we are just the same right? But why in the world poor people are being rejected by other people. Even if you don't tell me there is always a favoritism to rich people. When you have a rich visitor, you...

poor

rich

unequal

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labli09 there is unequality between rich and poor because people think that the rich people are superior and on the other hand the poor people are inferior. this must be stop,all people must be respected and trated fairly. there must be no such thing as who'se...

19 Sep 11

Atheist having problems with Christian friends

Opalina143 @opalina143 (1240) • Morristown, New Jersey 18 Sep 11

I am an atheist, but I used to be a Christian. I used to believe in the bible and go to church. I won't get into the reasons why I changed my beliefs, because they were many, but the thing is, a lot of my friends I met while in...

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labli09 i am a catholic here and i respect the beliefs of those people who belongs to other religion. i think your friends can understand you soon, just be patient on explaining them.if they're really your friends, they will understand you and respect your present...

19 Sep 11

closing your heart to some feelings

saeedonline @saeedonline (340) • Saudi Arabia 18 Sep 11

It is possible for you to close your eyes to what you dont want to see. Can one also close the heart to what you dont want to feel and how (if yes)?

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labli09 for me it's possible.based on my experience i closed my heart when someone hurt me a long time ago.it wasn't easy but its possible. you must really have the courage and determination to shutdown your feelings to someone.. it actually had a positive outcome and...

19 Sep 11

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A difference of opinion between couple is irratating ....

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

The whole weekend was a bum .... just because i did something which my hubby disagreed, we did not communicate well at all. He was in the house going about his own things and me too. The remote was in his hands and i had to watch...

opinion

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labli09 this problem is really common to couples.but this can be handled easily if both understands and either of you give way for the other.so i think you also have to be patient if there are things that your boyfriend doesn't want and tell him to be patient too...

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S A V I N G M O N E Y ... is very important..

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 18 Sep 11

[b]Money money money, without which there is no life at all in this beautiful world. These days people respect your money and not your character or other background and also the soft and loving nature you have is not...

money

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labli09 yeah saving money is really important..i don't have income yet since i just finished my studies but of course in the future, i look forward to saving money for my own good and for my family in the future.i really wish i could have a great job with good pay so...

19 Sep 11

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My kiddies have become naughty than they were!!!

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41281) • Delhi, India 19 Sep 11

Hello MYLOTTERS, As you all know i have twin children.It was really great hard work we did to raise them up and now they are 3 years old.When they were small we thought that their mischeifs will be reduced once they will start...

kiddies

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labli09 hello there sj, you're really lucky you have twin children. toddlers usually behaves like that, its normal for them, you just need to guide them.i really wish i could have twin children soon..hehe

19 Sep 11

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Creepiest Phonecall

chiwasaki @chiwasaki (4694) • Philippines 18 Sep 11

I was speaking with my friend on the phone around 2am. He said that he'll just get a water first so I waited for him. I heard his footsteps and as he walked away since he need to go to the kitchen. After about 30 seconds, I heard...

call

creepy

phone

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labli09 oh that was really scary chiwasaki..im so thankful i haven't experience such scary call.im really scared of ghosts even if its true or not, ill be scsred to death..maybe they're right your friend was just scaring you..hehe

19 Sep 11

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Love reading

sharj123 @sharj123 (17) • Canada 18 Sep 11

I have always loved reading. From the time I was able to remember family stuff all of my family has read. I remember my dad and mom reading things to the family that they were reading--newspaper articles, magazine articles, etc....

family reading

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labli09 i don't really love reading..i just read books if it's necessary, just like when there are coming exams..i really hate being silent in a corner, it makes me feel sleepy..but i really wish i loved reading, i envy those people who always bring books with them.....

19 Sep 11

Broken Family

gelaMS07777 @gelaMS07777 (14) • Philippines 18 Sep 11

I don't want to spoil your day myloters. I know its a poignant topic, i just want to let it out. Having a broken family can change a lot to the members of it. Rebellion, depression and it may devastate the relationship between...

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labli09 hello gelamso..just be strong and have faith in God.i know He won't leave you. just think about your sister and your mom, you still have them. you should be strong for them and for yourself.pray always and listen to God's words so you'll be guided.i know...

18 Sep 11

c r i t i s m ---- how do you -- h a n d l e....???

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 18 Sep 11

[b]The most critical situation a person faces in life...is criticism. And, to bare this it requires a firm and strong will to overcome that atmosphere which makes every one weak .. So how are you managing this unavoidable...

handle

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labli09 i accept criticisms if it could help me improve myself but if it could destroy me, it would be another story..i would just ignore it if it isn't helpful..i don't care what other people say especially if they're just trying to destroy my life.

18 Sep 11

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