Lochoa

@Lochoa (222)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Duped, the child was never mine.

RonanDoran @RonanDoran (201) • Ireland 21 Sep 10

In 2003 I was dating a woman that I'll refer to as Amy for arguments sake. At the time I didn't see the relationship going any further and I decided to end it. Amy was pretty upset but we agreed to go our separate ways. About...

baby

child

duped

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Lochoa Yeah so there is someone I know that this may have happened to but since the years have gone by and the child knows no one else but their father theres no point on a DNA test now.... My husband's brother got with this girl started living with her snd after...

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i need more money...........................

Linda4ualways @Linda4ualways (2282) • United States 9 Aug 10

OH MY GOODNESS! THINGS ARE SO TIGHT FOR ME RIGHT NOW. SCHOOL IS AROUND THE CORNER SO OF COURSE THAT MEANS SCHOOL CLOTHES, SUPPLIES, AND EVERYTHING ELSE NEEDED. I WISH I HAD THE TIME TO DO MORE ONLINE STUFF TO MAKE...

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Lochoa Ok so for me right now I'm work very very PT so it brings in some money but my husband is the main one supporting us. What has helped us lately get by is coupons. I tried this the other day and I saved about 100-120 bucks in coupons and spent the same amount I...

9 Aug 10

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what do you do if a friend just refuses to take good advice?

alchan72 @alchan72 (67) • India 15 Jun 10

Hey Mylotters! I've a friend who's been through various surgeries over the years, and has undergone a major spine surgery a year back. Her back is not healing and now, her hands have started going numb because of the nerves...

advice

friend

refuse to listen

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Lochoa I don't know anyone in that situation but just as an overall general answer...I usually don't give advice to people I know. I only give suggestions b/c people are very hard headed and think they know best ever though they asked you for your advice! It's weird...

15 Jun 10

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What irritates you?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 15 Jun 10

We tend to get irritated sometimes with little or big things. What seems to bug you the most? For me, what bugs me the most is when in line and the person behind you is standing so close, it's like you can hear the person...

irritates

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Lochoa A lot of things irritate me but I don't react on how I feel inside. People for the most part don't think or pay attention to there surroundings which irritates me b/c you could be trying to pass them up walking but can't b/c there in their own world and...

15 Jun 10

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do you wash your hands after petting or playing with your cat?

mario_stevens @mario_stevens (6971) • Malaysia 7 Jun 10

i remember the days when my mum used to tell me, 'you don't know where the cat's been'.. well, true, we don't know where it's been. but the cats, especially the home-trained ones, do like to groom themselves...

petting cats

playing with cats

washing hands

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Lochoa I never really noticed...I know for sure I always wash my hands before eating regardless as if I was home or not especially if I just finished petting my cat. She's a good girl really clean but she sheds alot and I can;t stand not washing my hands before I eat...

15 Jun 10

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do you feel yourself getting older or younger?

victorywp @victorywp (3524) • United States 24 Apr 10

i still remember when i was around 17-18 years old, all the people who don't know me thought that i were in my 30s (based on my looks). there was a salesperson asked me to buy a wedding ring as he said people who are in their 30s...

older

younger

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Lochoa I think it all just deoends on how we take care of ourselves too. B/c usually when we're younger we eat all kinds of garbage. Alot more candies and sodas and stuff like that. We def still eat when we're adults but maybe not as much. Plus when you get older you...

25 Apr 10

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I Blew It this Morning!

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 24 Apr 10

my diet that is. I have been dieting for 4 weeks & i have done real good, i think. Have lost around 15 pounds but i miss my good breakfast sooooo much. A cold bowl of cereal for breakfast leaves me colder than a cucumber but i...

breakfast

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Lochoa I don't diet nor did I read all of the responses to you yet so hopefully this is a dup....but statics show that when one is dieting they should have 1 day a week where they have 1 thing they miss b/c if you give up all your favorite foods "forever" or for a...

24 Apr 10

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Would you prefer to wear uniform while working with your present job?

jinjer168 @jinjer168 (1596) • Philippines 24 Apr 10

Hello to everyone! Just would like to know if you prefer to wear uniform or civilian attire while you are working with your present job. Whatever your preference maybe, what's the reason for picking that choice? I would love to...

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Lochoa Currently I'm in a job wear we have to wear a uniform. I don't hate it but I don't like it either. For me my last job we didn't wear a uniform but it had to be business attire and I found myself buying a lot more clothes b/c I didn't want to wear the same...

24 Apr 10

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why do women take the mens last name?

xxazndragon01 @xxazndragon01 (1250) • United States 19 Apr 10

Mylots I was talking to my girlfriend yesterday about if she wanted to take my last name and stuff. She said she was ok with it but this morning i was talking to my teacher who said it is immoral for the women to take the mens...

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Lochoa I wouldn't say it's immoral at all. I still have my maiden last name and took my husband last name. I opted in doing that b/c I loved my maiden last name and everyone knew me as that but I also wanted to take my husbands last name so I thought it would be the...

19 Apr 10

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Have you ever been in this Scenario

nykel88 @nykel88 (999) • Philippines 19 Apr 10

I really can't forget this Heart Pumping and Life Threatening scenario I have been through. I was crossing the street in the highway and as a good pedestrian I crossed in a crossing zone. While crossing I saw at a far a huge Truck...

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Lochoa I say you are lucky! I can't even imagine. There are times where people get swooped underneath trucks! I remember when I was 19, a couple of years ago, my lil sis and I went on a road trip to a fam members house. We got stuck in traffic then we made a stoo on...

19 Apr 10

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Get Paid by..... a dog?!

valkerion @valkerion (1827) • United Kingdom 15 Apr 10

Hello there myLotters. Long time till I started a discussion. Well, a weird thing happened this morning! Whenever I go to my college, I stop by a bakery next to my college to get a croissant and a cocoa milk! There is always...

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Lochoa That's so cute! I like that it's kind of like a community dog. As long as everyone's taking care of him he should be fine! If not someone should take him in.

15 Apr 10

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Do You Still have a Landline?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 14 Apr 10

That is the question at hand today. In the past couple of weeks we've had representatives from our local phone company at our front door at least twice trying to get us to sign up with them. We don't have a landline into our...

cellular

landline

phones

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Lochoa I actually got a landline 2 months ago and that's b/c we need interenet. I wouldn't feel bad if I cut the internet nor the phone. But where I live I have to have a phone line to get internet. The main reason we got it though was so my husband can play games...

15 Apr 10

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Tyler Perry's New Movie "why did I get married Too"

doulaworks @doulaworks (1079) • United States 15 Apr 10

Have you seen it? if so did you think it ws as good as, better than or no as good as the first "why did I get married? would you recomend it to a friend? I haven't sen it uyet, and People I know who have I have gotten mixed...

medea

tyler perry

why did i get married too

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Lochoa I haven't sen it yet but I want to. Prob when it comes out to rent b/c I don't have extra money for the movies right now but whenever I watch a movie with my husband he cracks up over the smallest things so even if the movie is horrible seeing him laugh always...

15 Apr 10

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..Changes..

kquiming @kquiming (2997) • Philippines 15 Apr 10

He didn't change my life. He changed me - in a lot of ways. I used to be an irritable person who gets easily annoyed and angry at people and things. I wasn't used to being sweet to anyone, until I fell in love. I always...

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Lochoa I say yes. I was really self absorbed before but now it's not just me it's me and my husband. I hated cleaning and all that stuff, who does really? My husband does a lot for me. I used to work 2 jobs b/c I wanted to but b/c of it I didn;t clean as much or did...

15 Apr 10

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what do women look for in a man

sugaree @sugaree (109) • Philippines 15 Apr 10

i have read about a discussion which asks what men want in a woman. but the discussion is only for men. most of them look for attractive physical appearance, nice body and only a few if not one look for good personality or...

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Lochoa The main thing I think I looked for in a man was yes there appearance b/c that's the first thing you see and attractes you to that person. After that def their personality b/c if you can't stand the conversations you'll go mad! Personally when I met my husband...

15 Apr 10

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how to fall in love again when love grows cold

doulaworks @doulaworks (1079) • United States 15 Apr 10

I have been married for many years. I don't plan on going anywhere, I just want to know some ideas for getting a spark back. that feeling of love and admiration I once had for my husband. I dont' dislike him, we don't fight, I...

falling in love again

rekindling romance

sparking romance

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Lochoa Man that sucks! My husband and I have been together for 11 years this year married for 5 and we're so in love still. On the other hand we don't have children and I hear that makes a BIG difference! It sounds like you're doing all you can do and leaving the...

15 Apr 10

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Who else has a hard time to give away their own artwork?

MeritSelket @MeritSelket (68) • Germany 15 Apr 10

for me it is always difficult to give a wai a painting or drawing. anytime I make one it´s like I make up some sort of story in my mind and the result(painting-drawing-colage) is part of that world I just created in my mind. I...

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Lochoa I haven't been much into my art lately but when I was I could not stand the thought of selling it or giving it away! I know how you feel! but if you want to do this or if you are doing this as your profession you're going to have to part ways sooner or later....

15 Apr 10

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Newspaper Job Description

artsyfartsygypsy @artsyfartsygypsy (755) • Canada 15 Apr 10

I was once a newpaper courier and it wasnt a bad job really but Im just not sure how to describe my job in a resume or even to the average person. I brought epopele their newspapers. But that dosnt exatly sound glamorous, now does...

courier

job description

newsaper

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Lochoa You know when I was putting my resume together it was very hard! One thing that helped me explain my duties was to look at the job desciption. Google it! I did right now and found some cool stuff you can list... *operated an automobile, small truck, or van to...

15 Apr 10

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