mansha

@mansha (6298)

India • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Be the change you want to see happen in the world.

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Was I really selfish being sad when it's my husband's birthday?

mrsroxas @mrsroxas (78) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

Yesterday was my husbands birthday. In the morning he sent me a text message from work that he will go out and drink after shift. He always wanted me to go with him whenever he goes out with his friends or office mates, but I...

family

husband

love

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mansha after enduring that evening with a headache and then being told you are selfish, I would have kicked him back...and you are still being understanding and talking, believe me you are so mature...and forgive me but I must say his behaviour was selfish...if it...

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are you usually let others around you do right things?

yadiancry @yadiancry (1) • China 11 Jul 09

when you found others around did the things not right, were you tell them the right thing that how to do?

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mansha I make choices for myself and try to do the right thing, and hope others realise what is to be done by watching, sometimes that's the only thing you can do and then what is right by you may not be right by them, each person's reality is different for example,...

27 Aug 12

Why do people...

sanjo0679 @sanjo0679 (225) • United States 8 Oct 08

take things so seriously. They make mountians out of mole hills. I don't get it. They get all worked up over minor issues, for instance, what's that neighbor up to? Who cares? It's nobody's business except the neighbor's. People...

attitude

life

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mansha I don't get to know the latest gossip until its all done and over with, but I do get it , when you say why don't people mind their own business. May be its their nature to enjoy, recently I read somewhere that people who secretly admire other person's life...

27 Aug 12

That busy body II

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 21 Aug 12

So yesterday I posted about the busy body on our street. I did not know that in yesterday's paper in the police blotter that it stated that she had been fined for negligent calls, disruption of police duties (cops have to check...

life

neighbors

police

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mansha that's typical attention seeking behaviour she should get a life and needs to undergo some kind of therapy for sure. I feel pity of her, imagine she has nothing else to occupy her mind except keeping a close watch on neighbours...may be you should get her on...

27 Aug 12

Can you still write properly?

sbrn11 @sbrn11 (415) • India 26 Aug 12

My mom told me to write something on a piece of paper, and i was unable to write properly like i used to write in school and college. But the same thing i typed on my Computer within 1-2 minutes. Since now a days we are...

writing

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mansha ha ha ha..me too me too, I hate writing on paper now, really lazy about it and you can make me type anything and everything, wish had learned shorthand too that would have made it so easier. I have been using computers since 2002 and I am now stuck with word...

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Does religion play an important role in the relationship?

sharryCD @sharryCD (121) • China 27 Aug 12

I have a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend. Actually they had a wonderful time and led a harmonious relation. The girl was a Christian, bacasue of this, that boy became interested in this religion and wanted to enjoy...

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mansha its matter of adjustment, I know few couples who belong to different religion and have kids who believe in both the religions. SO they have taken a high road and not allowed to let religion interfere in their relationship so its always the way how you...

27 Aug 12

Homesickness! :(

RSantos026 @RSantos026 (288) • Philippines 26 Aug 12

I'm in a unit rental house alone and I am homesick, Ohh.. I think this is one of the hardest problem of a students especially if you live in a province but you need to go in city for your studies. I missed the thing I usually do...

homesick

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mansha Well my lot is always there, its hard initially to stay away from home but you will get used to it in three months or so, then this will feel more like home and you would love and learn at your campus. Make lot of new friends and learn to be independent and...

27 Aug 12

Motor-Girl

vanessa11 @vanessa11 (296) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

Good day myLotters! Do you have a friend or girlfriend who's hobby is riding motorcycle? What do you think of them? I dreamed of having a motorcycle when I was in college, but my parents disagree because it is more prone to...

motorcycle

motorgirl

ride

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mansha Congrats on your ride ...just wear helmet and stay safe, I too am scared of bikes but then as you said its matter of control on any vehicle. I love girls on bike...All the best and stay safe.

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just growing older or growing wiser?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 26 Aug 12

I sent several emails to my son yesterday but received no reply so phoned him on the speed dial he had put on my phone. I was proud of myself for not getting upset when he explained that he could not come to see me today ,.He was...

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mansha How mature and nice, it will certainly improve your relationship with him and woman in his life, its best to let go a little , everyone hates a nagging and intruding mother in law...and I too have a son and I dread the day I will have to let him go too bit...

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Screaming toddler

Paper_Doll @Paper_Doll (2373) • Philippines 26 Aug 12

I really haven't had a good sleep yet. We still have two unpaid bills so I took effort to finish a job last night and took me until four in the morning to finish it. Since it is a holiday, I thought that I can have a good sleep...

screaming toddler

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mansha Its hard for kids to stay inside stuck up due to rains, plus they then need constant activity to occupy their free time. Its bad that you are trying to catch up on your sleep, isn't maid looking after the child and why she had to bring them to your house in...

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Have you ever been in a basketball fight?

betterdays @BetterDays4Me (3777) • Philippines 26 Aug 12

When I was young, me and my 5 brothers are very much into basketball. We would play neighborhood basketball and even sometimes play friendly games with other teams from other locations. Basketball is such a rough game and...

fight

fist

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mansha Oh the games and fight..life is such fun when we are young, or atleast when we feel young because several people I know never got out of that mindset of being sore loosers. I miss those fights , its real bad to grow up and be wise about everything, that time...

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I want to break up with my boyfriend

chexzy09 @chexzy09 (30) • Philippines 26 Aug 12

I want to break up with my boyfriend.I realized I would never want to marry a disrespectful man like him.He is so strict. He gets mad easily. he blackmail me i. I no longer love him. He doesn't want to break up and insists that...

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mansha If you are so afraid of him and his reaction that means its not a healthy relationship and is emotionally draining. Do end it and may be you can ask a friend to come by and help you out of the mess he creates later, just keep him on speed dial, if you are...

27 Aug 12

How much can a Person take in Life

Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 12 Jul 12

Like a lot of People here Life has been hard on me From the age of 5 years old it was cruel to me, since my divorce 9 years ago I have had my tough takes but it got a bit easier even though at times the past haunts me at times...

life tough easier

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mansha hang in there Gabs...we all get through because life is like that always pushing us down but what she doesn't realise is we are made of harder stuff. I too have been going through tough times lately,worst is when you fin there is no home to go to no shoulder...

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Who should control how and when we die?

Eucalyptus @Eucalyptus (151) 27 May 12

Suicide is a very political issue; a debate that remains to be heard throughout the world. Suicide and euthanasia are subject to both legal and political control. If I live in London, no one could help me die; yet if I live in...

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mansha well doesn't it defeat the purpose of suicide, if you need help to commit suicide then its like arranging your own murder , I am not against committing suicide its a personal decision, one can choose to die and is free to die when and where. But forcing...

27 May 12

Are you in favor of teachers showing favoritism in school?

abatencila @abatencila (970) • Philippines 21 Mar 11

My daughter is in the 6th grade and graduating. When she was in her 4th grade, I noticed that this teacher really favors one of her student, I'm so disappointed. She keeps on choosing the very same girl for every occasion, not...

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mansha yes it happened to us and it always happens even now. there was always some other kid everyone liked. its not appreciation of talent but just favoritism and it leaves me sad each time, as other kids start getting neglected and for new things first chance is...

21 May 12

Stomachache... Ok.... Get to the Hospital and Get Me Someone to Play With!

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 21 May 12

Hi friends and lotters After the past few days at the hospital (my aunt and her brain tumor), finally there was some good time that I could spend at my dad's place yesterday. For those who dont know, I am suffering...

nnocence

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mansha This is hilarious and so sweet. He did put two and two together here. My daughter has simply refused to learn kathak dance, she went to kathak classes last year for ten days and now she says its so simple one two three four and she has learned all there was to...

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One hell of a week

Toni @toniganzon (72281) • Philippines 20 May 12

Saturday a week ago, my son complained of a stomachache. But he wasn't that in real pain because he was still playing and eating. Saturday night he wasn't able to sleep, i checked his temperature, no fever. He and his dad went to...

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mansha pain due to appendicitis is like that, doctor should have checked for that too, but may be didn't expect this for a child so young. when my brother in law got the pain we also treated him at home for three days before rushing him to hospital. It was scary. I...

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are girls weird or really sensitif ?!!

westiti @westiti (26) • Morocco 20 May 12

The other day I was with my girlfriend at the beach and we passed a very good day, we swimed together, lunched together and we played together, it was was beautiful. My little friends and I have a good habit is to chat each night...

girls love romance beach

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mansha In our culture its other way around,m we wash guys feet and guys are not supposed to , but its real sweet that you did what you did. Every girl like to be pampered thats all,and for her taking care of her ion that way made her feel; special, but if it was me I...

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