melkbremomof2

@melkbremomof2 (116)

United States • Age 55

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Can you control your drinking?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 11 May 09

Whenever I go to party with a bunch of friends, they seems want to enjoy the moment, and won't consider the consequence. I knew that I was on the party, but somehow I have to control my drinking too. Most of them wants to salute a...

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melkbremomof2 Well it is to bad that you could not have as much fun, but congratulations for being the responsible one. Because of you, everyone got home safely!! YOu can be proud of that at least. Maybe you could suggest choosing a different designated driver each time you...

11 May 09

Friend or more???

bobinger26 @bobinger26 (15) • United States 11 May 09

So, as a male of 27 years old, I've had experience in dating. I've done it all...the quick romance, taking your time, sleeping arrangements, love, engagement, I've done it all. Well, close to everything anyway, obviously I haven't...

abstinence

dating

relationships

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melkbremomof2 Wow, it sounds like things are going well so far. I don't think it is bad at all. Maybe she wants to make sure you are really interested before it goes any further intimately. Maybe she has had a bad experience in the recent past. It sounds like you are both...

11 May 09

how to stop ...?

darbas_namie @darbas_namie (326) • Lithuania 11 May 09

i have a son 1 year 5 month.. and i still b_r_e_a_s_t_f_eeding.. i want to stop, but i do not know how.. he never drink from a bottle and never takes a dummy.. he sleeps with me and when he wants a bre_ast than he takes.. he hates...

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melkbremomof2 I have commented above on the suggestions given there. They are very good. As far as sleeping in his own bed. If it is not something that he has ever done, you might try sitting in his room as he falls asleep, maybe near him or close by in a rocking chair or...

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to all moms...

jcbelle @jcbelle (152) • Philippines 9 May 09

Hi, I am seeking an advise on how to organize a less expensive party and yet elegant. My daughter is turning one year old this coming July 20, 2009. It is my first time being a mom and as well as preparing a kid's party for my...

baby party

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melkbremomof2 Although it is true that your daughter will not remember the party, I know how I felt about my precious ones turning 1. Your are lucky that your daughters birthday is in the summer so you can have the party outside and that keeps from messing up your house too...

11 May 09

Possible life extinction in the next asteroid collision to earth?

Azaerus @Azaerus (820) • Philippines 11 May 09

Last 2002 or somewhat 2003,an asteroid almost hit our planet earth.We are very lucky that in some way the asteroid lost track and didn't hit earth..but sometime in future,I've read 2012,an asteroid the size of the moon will...

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melkbremomof2 Hey, anything is possible!! If it is going to happen, its going to happen. I'm sure we won't feel a thing. I'm glad I konw where I'm going when my earthly life is over!! :D

11 May 09

Do you consider this a bad omen to our future?

TRWilliams02 @TRWilliams02 (349) • United States 11 May 09

So here is the situation... I am planning what is said to be one of the happiest days of my life, the day I marry my best friend. For starters, I have learned that you shouldn't take on the stress of planning your own wedding but...

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melkbremomof2 I understand your concern over wearing a ring that represented a rough marriage. But, what you have to remember, and think about, is how much you love this man that your marrying and how much he loves you. You two will make or break your marriage not a ring.

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Whom do you love more, your father or mother?

yonkie @yonkie (440) • Philippines 11 May 09

Being the second daughter of the family, I feel insecure at times. I am always compared to my sister. It is my sister that is better than me in terms of so many stuffs. With this insecurity, it is only my father who will defend...

insecurity

mother or father

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melkbremomof2 I love my parents the same, but I am a bit closer to my mom than my dad. My parents divorced after I got married and my father had had an affair. I went through a period of time where I didn't like him to much, but I have accepted the situation and both of my...

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love at first sigt

ajlysay @ajlysay (24) • Philippines 11 May 09

Do you belive love ay first sight

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melkbremomof2 I'm not sure actually. All I know is when I met my husband, I new he was the man I was going to marry and I did. It has been 15 years now!!

11 May 09

Work...

imajerseygirl @imajerseygirl (433) • United States 11 May 09

The story goes, been sitting at home, with no work for almost a year now. Sent my resume out to everywhere you could imagine, even if I didn't qualify, I tried. I finally got a phone call for an interview but really don't want the...

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melkbremomof2 Well, if it isn't worth the travel time and gas, It may not be worth it. And if it isn't something you want to do... Well that is tough. My husband has been laid off for almost 3 months now, and he is taking a job that is between 3-4 hours away, but he is...

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If you did something wrong.....

ebook_freak @ebook_freak (1511) • India 11 May 09

will you be honest to yourself and to all the people concerned with the issue? Or will you simply tell lies to escape. Or if the thing is replaceable like a lost pen, will you secretly replace it? I usually do the first and the...

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melkbremomof2 Oh, it is so hard to admit when you have done something wrong! I want to tell the truth and admit to it. I am more able to do that as an adult. As a child it is hard because you are scared of loosing privileges and things. As an adult you should accept the...

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how much sleep do you get?!

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 11 May 09

sleeping is really good and i love it! i sleep 6-8 hrs everyday plus an hour in the afternoon!mmmmmmmmmm! how about you? how much sleep do you have? good day!

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melkbremomof2 I get anywhere from 5-7 hours. When everyone goes to bed, then I stay up for a while and have a little "me time". But, I usually stay up too long so I am a little sleep deprived. I try to catch up on the week-ends.

11 May 09

Who is your best friend and why?

Informer @Informer (802) • India 9 May 09

We all have so many friends but there are few whom we like the most, we like to spend time with them, they are called our best friends. So, who is yours?

friends

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melkbremomof2 I would have to say my husband. He is a wonderful, loving, supportive man. He doesn't judge and does everything he can to support our family. He is a wonderful dad too. He is always there when we need him.

11 May 09

Money issues

imajerseygirl @imajerseygirl (433) • United States 2 May 09

I have a question and need some advise. I don't want to seem selfish and I am not, at least I don't believe I am. In my household there is my husband that only works, and there are 5 people counting him. Typical story, bills,...

advise

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melkbremomof2 No I don't think you are wrong. I do and always have believed that you need to take care of your family first. How can you help someone else out if you can't take care of yourself first? Why would you risk not being able to provide and take care of your own...

11 May 09

Do you floss?

angelajoy @angelajoy (1825) • Philippines 10 May 09

I've heard that flossing causes the teeth to have gaps. Is this true? Do you floss every day or not?

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melkbremomof2 No, I'm pretty sure that floss can not cause gaps in between teeth. I'm not an avid flosser, but I do it more on my front teeth, than the back. My husband pretty much flosses after every meal, and he doesn't have any more gaps than he originally had.

10 May 09

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To All the Moms. - Mamas Test - Happy Mothers Day

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 10 May 09

A mother was out walking with her 4-year-old daughter. She picked up something off of the ground and started to put it in her mouth. Mom took the item away from her and asked her not to do that. 'Why?' her daughter asked....

mama

pass

test

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melkbremomof2 LOL That is adorable. I will have to share that with some of my non-myLot friends. I never heard it before. Happy mothers day all! I guess it is officially the day after, but I hope all you mom's had a great day!!!

10 May 09

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"To be or not to be" regarding celebrating Mother's Day.

Gynnie Ann @gadnynj (74) • Bayonne, New Jersey 10 May 09

By the time I was born, my parent's marrage was broken, then my mom join this radical Christian religion with very strick doctines. When all is told my mom ended up raising 4 children all by her self with no financial support from...

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melkbremomof2 So sorry to hear how your life was growing up. I can not imagine saying such horrible things to my children. They are the most important things in the world to me. Even if I say things out of anger, and nothing compared to your mother, but it hurts me as well....

10 May 09

Happy Mothers Day to all the Moms out there, I wish...

Loverbear @Loverbear (4918) • United States 10 May 09

I just celebrated Mother's Day with my BF. It was great! It wasn't the presents or the anticipation that we're going out to dinner, it was the fact that he recognized the fact that I am a mother. It's something my own daughter...

long winded discussions

missing mom

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melkbremomof2 HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Lovebear!!! I am so sorry that you have gone through this with your daughter. I would never dream of treating my mom the way your daughter has treated you. Thank goodness for your BF. I am glad you had a good day. I spent my day with my mom,...

10 May 09

is it possible in life to never have any problems?

mitchii @mitchii (154) • United States 10 May 09

im wondering if this could ever happen a person with not one problem, whether its credit card debt, failing relationships, health problems,not having enough money to do important things,depression ,drug problems things of that...

life

problem

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melkbremomof2 I can't imagine how you could not have any problems in your life. No matter how hard you try. Even if you don't cause the problem, someone else could cause one for you. And your right, money does not mean no problems.

10 May 09

woman keeps mothers body in bedroom so she could collect checks

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 10 May 09

http://shrinkify.com/pvh it amazes me how many people do this! seems like its always in the news now! how do these people live with corpses? i mean wouldnt the smell eventually become too much? this lady was stealing her social...

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melkbremomof2 Well maybe that is why all the cats were there. I am surprised that the neighbors weren't complaining about the smell. I have no idea how she could stand to keep the body in there that long. After 6 years though maybe the smell wasn't that bad, but at some...

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