nerein

@nerein (283)

United States • Age 46

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Why do you think it is so hard to let go of anger?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 21 Dec 12

Almost everything and everyone knows that we as individuals spend more time being angry and stubborn than letting go of the anger. Why do you think it is so hard to do that? We hear about how life would be easier, and we would be...

anger

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nerein As we all know anger is a natural emotion. It comes and goes like every other emotion. I personally believe that most people can not let go because they are constantly surrounded by the things or one's that make them angry. As well I also believe that most...

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we had a fight

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 31 Aug 12

last night I was talking to my boyfriend and we had a fight over the fact that I didn't want him to come and sleep at my place. I told him that my father was in town and if he was brave enough to face him in the morning than he...

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nerein Well it sounds like your boyfriend just did not get the point. It sounds like he was maybe jealous that your father was going to be there with you and not him. Now even though it is nice to have someone in your arms sometimes some people do use that to get...

1 Sep 12

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The earth

moveadlung76 @moveadlung76 (671) • Malaysia 31 Aug 12

The Earth Provides Enough Only For Man's Need But Definitely Not Enough For Man's Greed Yes..is very true for the quote above...that this earth can provide you what you want but if you are too greed, this earth will be...

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nerein Yes I do definitely agree that we do need to save the trees to save the Earth. As well we do need to start saving our other resources so that we can save the Earth as well. But one thing that we do need to do is to also clean up the Earth because a clean earth...

31 Aug 12

Who Am I? Mean to you

visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

Hi there, For sure this is not the title of Jackie Chan movie before. Also this is not a survey or getting your opinion. My idea for this is - what really meant to you this question if somebody asking "who am I?" talking to...

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nerein Who am I? What are the things that are known as me? One of the things that are known as me is I am a non violent person. As well I am someone who would give you the last bit of money I have. I am someone who will listen to anything you have to say. I am...

6 Jul 12

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How could I not be offended?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 6 Jul 12

Maybe I am wrong to be offended, but the more I think about it, the more it bothers me. I may be reading a little more in to this but I really can't help it. I know that my daughter's b/f is young and I try to remind myself of...

personal questions

rude

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nerein I personally would personally agree with you. I mean how much money one makes is not another persons business. He should have had the respect not to ask. As well if he asks you again how you make tell him it is none of his business. As well tell him that he...

6 Jul 12

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Why does it have to be like this?

ladysilver @ladysilver (370) 6 Jul 12

I wonder if this happens only to me or does someone else have similar life experience?Whenever I get in trouble,the first who hear my cry for help are poor, sick, someone who needs help even more than me.It's such a shame,I can't...

help

life

people

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nerein My life goes the same way. Whenever I need help it is usually the poor and the sick and those who need help more than I do who usually hear my cries. I also find that those who are strong and powerful do see, they just ignore. They ignore because they are...

6 Jul 12

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have you ever been so busy you do not know what to do first?

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

Today. That was it. It was just so many things i need to accomplish, glad i was able to follow my system of working and put it all in steps so i could get all reports done right on time. I am feeling quite proud even as i was...

work

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nerein I have been in many situations where I have had so many that I did not know what to do first. Now I don't really have a system that I use. Usually what I do is I will work on one thing first until get exhausted with it. Or go until something changes and I have...

6 Jul 12

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Feelings towards responders of discussion

nicanorr @nicanorr (1789) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

Grateful, happy, excited, thankful, puzzled, elated, surprised, funny is the mix of the foregoing feelings I have in my heart the following hours or day after posting a discussion. For whatever the feeling is, I'm always grateful...

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nerein As far as how I feel when people respond to my posts depends how they respond. Now don't get me wrong I like it when people respond period. It the actual response they leave determines how I feel. When people are pleasant, I feel happy. When people tell me my...

5 Jul 12

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Unsupportive Friend

WumpyPPancakes @WumpyPPancakes (117) • United States 5 Jul 12

I find myself sometimes feeling like I've outgrown this friend who has been my friend for a decade. As the years have passed, I am starting to see that this person maybe very self-absorbed when it comes to her problems and not...

differences

friendship

unsupportive

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nerein It is a shame that there are friends that are like. Ultimately people like that usually care about only what they want. You have told how you felt about everything that she has done. You have told her how she cares for these losers more than her friends and...

5 Jul 12

Should I reveal paypal account number to any site or any person?

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 1 Jul 12

Is it safe to submit my paypal account number to any site about which I am not sure if it is legit or scam or to reveal it to any person whom I do not know personally and the friendship is merely online just like in mylot or...

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nerein When on a website that asks for PayPal verification if they ask for anything more than the address don't do it. Websites that ask for PayPal verification will only ask for the address. If the website asks for anything more than that they are a scam. As far as...

5 Jul 12

When you problem solve!

halfbloodace @halfbloodace (587) • Philippines 13 Jun 12

When you solve your problems, do you follow a system?Do you have questions for yourself and for the problem in order to solve it? They say questions will solve the problems. If so, are there any good questions to ask about our...

solving problems

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nerein I kind of have a system that I use to solve problems. It is kind of weird, cause what I do is I split the two sides of my brain up. Then between the two sides I ask a series of Dialectic and or Logical question's. Within asking these I seek to find a common...

13 Jun 12

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Never forget to appreciate someone important to you.

SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3527) • Davao, Philippines 12 Jun 12

Hello, MyLot users! I've just experience another bout with my father regarding our new computer. You see, yesterday evening, two technicians came into our house to install it's OS. My only work for them was only that because I...

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nerein I know what it is like not to appreciated by family and some friends. Yes it does hurt, especially if the person is close to you. One thing that I have learned is that sometimes you just have to walk away from those people. Now I am not saying never talk...

13 Jun 12

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Mylot addict, very good for me!

alberello @alberello (4752) • Italy 4 Jun 12

And yes, it is true, when I am on holiday, I even want to work here at Mylot. And, the thing that may seem strange, is that, I am compelled to write to the site with the smartphone! On the contrary, at home that I have a modest...

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nerein I myself am becoming more of a my lot addict everyday. Intact I have started using mylot on my android phone. It works pretty well on my android phone. I like being able to write on mylot anywhere I am at. Being on mylot is becoming more fun to be on. I am...

4 Jun 12

After a first date......then what

innocents_lost @innocents_lost (1026) • Canada 4 Jun 12

Okay I have had this discussion with a few people and everyone's answers and reasoning is always different so I'm putting it out there for all of you. You go on a first date with someone now you feel everything went really well...

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nerein First off never jump right in both feet first. Very seldomly does that ever work out. As well if the guy starts sending multiple texts especially every 5 or 10 minutes then that's a guy you want to stay away from. As well you said that you plan everything a...

4 Jun 12

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i feel like i am at the end of the world!!!

salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 4 Jun 12

Hi everyone, i dont knw how to start, i dont feel normal at all, recently i have become more irritated and agitated even to a slighted problem, first i used to deal with situation calmly and with a level head, now its the...

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nerein Now I myself have gone through many times. I do believe that isolation for a short period of time is okay. Everyone needs time alone to isolate, just make sure you stay in isolation for to long. As well as far as the meditation, I would suggest that you listen...

4 Jun 12

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A friend, that's all I need.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 31 May 12

Good day Fellow Mylotters, For the past few days, I feel so alone and sad. That, no matter how I am trying to get in touch with my old friends whom can I still communicate with but it seems they don't have the time to talk...

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nerein Just like others here on mylot, including yourself, I have been in the same place you are in right now. I have done the same things that have for people. In the end they either ignore me like your friends do to you. One thing that would suggest to you is...

31 May 12

Being single

whateveritmaybe @whateveritmaybe (22) 31 May 12

Almost all of my friends have their boyfriend or girlfriend and sometimes I feel like I'm being left behind but a part of me says that theere is no need for me to feel alone or worthless just because I don't have that special...

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nerein I would definitely agree with you on that. For along time I thought I was alone and being left behind. As well yes it was because everyone else had someone. Then I started taking a look around, when I saw everyone, I saw most of the couples arguing about...

31 May 12

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What would you like to dream tonight?

ladyhemingway @ladyhemingway (965) • Philippines 23 Apr 12

I love it when I still remember my dream when I wake up in the morning. One of my favorite dreams are about my childhood. The places I have lived, the playmates I have met, and the people who I no longer get to see often...

choose your dream

dream

sleep

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nerein I would dream about camping in the woods, along a spring. Spending Long days fishing in the spring.

23 Apr 12