nzalheart

@nzalheart (2338)

India • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

The world around us is the reflection of our mind.

www.refreshtime.blogspot.com

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Torn between two friends

sunshinefame @sunshinefame (287) • Philippines 22 Sep 12

My friend always think she is right, she think she knows everything and she is good and kind...that's what she thinks of herself..we seldom see each other because we both are busy with our field of work. But one of her friend told...

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nzalheart Hi sunshinefame!!! Well its sad to hear what is going with your friends. But in this world, such things happen to many people. Its the bitter fact. Not all people are same. Some people are so much egoistic and never want to bow with other person. Your case...

23 Sep 12

Have you had your work stolen online?

favouredmost @favouredmost (256) • Kenya 21 Sep 12

I applied for a contract to write articles for the client and he asked for a sample which I provided. He liked the article and requested that I give him some time to give me a feed back. After ten days,he cancelled the contract....

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nzalheart Hi favouredmost!!! Yes, not exactly similiar, but something like that has also happened to me. I own a blog of chords of Nepali songs. In the blog, I have collected songs from various paper sources and some on my own and published on the site. Once I was...

21 Sep 12

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I am afraid of my friend's safety

micha5088 @micha5088 (554) • Malaysia 20 Sep 12

My friend is openly attacking this 'certain' religion. It is not that I never agree with her. I am just worried about her and her family's well being. She, being a mother to two young children should think of her family first...

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nzalheart Hi micha5088, Its really bad to hear that you are in such a situation. It not good to attack other religion. Every people have their won right to religion. You should really convince her not to do so and if you can't, you may take help from your friends or...

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Are computers more effective at decision making than humans?

PhillyDreamer @PhillyDreamer (3039) • United States 20 Sep 12

I just read a story on Yahoo, that companies are spending billions on computer software that uses algorithms to determine if someone is a good job candidate. It used to be a human making decisions like this, but apparently because...

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nzalheart Hi PhillyDreamer, I think it can be a effective way to determine if some is a good job candidate. But it depends upon the nature of algorithm they are going to use, the no. of factors they are going to consider. Determining the good job candidate not only...

21 Sep 12

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Once you lose someone, it's never exactly the same person who comes back...

avinash2506 @avinash2506 (22) • India 18 Sep 12

This is my observation and experience that no matter how that person is with you for the time you spent together but once that person is out of your contact or has parted the ways with you, and then if that person comes back it's...

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nzalheart Hi avinash2506, We can never expect the people to be same all the times. On the basis of time and circumstances, Everything is changing. Only one thing in this world is permanent and that is change itself. If the person comes back after some break ups...

18 Sep 12

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Do you think this is a good method for students?

youless @youless (112481) • Guangzhou, China 18 Sep 12

Today children's bag is so heavy because there are many books inside. In order to get rid of this burden, a school has a new method. That's the students study by the iPad. Do you think this is a good idea? Although iPad is so...

ipad

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nzalheart Hi youless, This is really an interesting topic to discuss. Great one... Any coin has two sides. There are always the good sides and along with it attached the negative sides of the same thing. I still remember carrying heavy bags in the old school days...

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How do finger nails grow so quickly?

Canellita @Canellita (12029) • United States 18 Sep 12

My nails are hitting the keys as I type and driving me crazy. It seems like I just cut them not that long ago and they are already too long again. Even at only 1/8 of an inch they are getting in the way. When I was younger long...

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nzalheart Hi Canellita, May be I sound dirty, but I don't remember trimming my hand nails so much. There is no specific gap between the two successive times I trim my nail. I trim my nail, whenever I see the nail cutter near me. At other times, I think I...

18 Sep 12

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today is a fruitful day

iwrite @iwrite (5034) • Singapore 17 Sep 12

Today happens to be my off day, and I set about doing some things today, I manage to accomplish quite a few things. I completed two blog post one on mister maker and entreprenuer mindset. Plus I went for an short walk and still...

fruitful day

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nzalheart Hi iwrite, Yeah, good to hear you had a fruitful day. Hope such days come again and again in your life and happy mylotting...

17 Sep 12

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People add you but never interact with you?

squallming @squallming (1775) • Malaysia 17 Sep 12

I believe most of you would have a Facebook account. For whatever reason it is, you must have been adding and being added as friends before. So what do you think about those people that add you as friend but never interact with...

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nzalheart Hi squallming, I have a friend list of about 800. I know almost all of them, but there are only few with whom I interact on facebook. And others, atleast I know them through friends or through some organizations. You may never know when you will need to...

17 Sep 12

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Must People always have their Revenge????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 15 Sep 12

As I look at the world, I see everyone wants pay back. At the first sign of discomfort, don't people want to strike back?? I see this in people, governments, and religion. Everyone demands pay back, punishment and condemnation of...

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nzalheart Hi bird123, How are you? I am responding to your discussion after years and I still remember you. Glad to see you are still here, I hope you are fine. Revenge is never a solution. It is the root of other problem. If we start to revenge others for their...

17 Sep 12

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What's your attitude to others negative comments?

xiaopinggai @xiaopinggai (483) • China 17 Sep 12

If somebody say,money to him is what water to fish,then there will be a comment on him,he is a mammonist. But if you say i don't like money at all ,others will laugh at you for they thought you are an untruthful person. Or some...

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nzalheart Hi xiaopinggai, There is always contradiction in what is good and what is bad depending upon where the thing is been talked, in which society the thing is been talked, or with what type of person the thing is been talked. People grow up in their own...

17 Sep 12

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I tell you, this internet speed is become so fast!!!.

riyauro @riyauro (6421) • India 16 Sep 12

Hey guys I had problem with net connection since it was very slow and had to wait to a page to open. but from yesterday it has become so fast that in a click the whole page opens and I am loving it. Now I have to speed up in...

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nzalheart Hi riyauro!!! We have a ADSL connection with the speed of 196 Kbps in our home. There are two things that matter in the speed of internet access. One is the access time and other is the amount of data your internet connection can fetch each time. The access...

17 Sep 12

Learning not to pass on the pain.

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 15 Sep 12

How tempting it is to pass on the pain. Someone hurts us we want to hurt them, to 'get our own back' or perhaps worse to hurt some other person or animal. This permeates all cultures and nations. But passing on the pain just...

pain

pain absorbers

revenge

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nzalheart Hi urbandekay, When someone hurts us and we want to hurt them. This is non other than ego. The ego that the person hurted me and now I want to make him feel the same. You may do something for that person and then that person feel the same again rather than...

17 Sep 12

You are dependent on acceptance, you know?

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 10 Feb 12

Many things in life we do because that would be or because someone says so. Small I was addicted opinions. And so I left and now. Some addicts. People who inject us with the opinion of those around us, about us. We no longer live...

acceptance

box

dependent

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nzalheart Hi didi13, It is really an encouraging opinion. This is the thing that has ever happened to each and every one of us. Its great that, You pointed it out and let us realize the fact. Everyone in this world is interconnected. When we live in this world,...

17 Sep 12

How can you enjoy life?

nita04 @nita04 (268) • Philippines 17 Sep 12

How can you enjoy life when you have so much responsibility towards your work, family, others who are depending so much of you. Every time I think of going somewhere or spent a little for myself, I would readily say, "Oh it is a...

dependent

enjoy life

family

so much responsibility

spent a little time for myself

work

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nzalheart Hi nita04, Like your friends say, "Give time to yourself", its the best thing in my opinion. The best way to learn to enjoy life is to learn to live in the Present. To learn to enjoy the things, we do. If we keep thinking of something else, where we are...

17 Sep 12

annoying co-workers and how do you deal with them?

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 16 Sep 12

They're everywhere, they will always be existing and they're ready to take you down anytime. How do you deal your noisy, annoying co-workers who always make fun of you at work in an offensive level that it pisses you off? Do you...

annoying coworkers

how you deal with them

pradeep

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nzalheart Hi resy21curapika!!! The way you mentioned already, "They're everywhere". If they are everywhere, then what is the solution. The solution is not obviously to fight with each one of them and ruin the self status in the company. Or if you do so, we fall into...

17 Sep 12

It is more likely to fell asleep especially when the weather is good.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 16 Sep 12

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, For the past few days, the weather here in the Philippines is somehow good. The wind started to be cool as the month of "Ber" has started. In addition, a slight rain has been occurring due to a...

cool

fell asleep

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nzalheart Hi airasheila, Currently, here in Nepal, its raining and the weather is too cool. If I was at home in such a weather, I would have been on bed with tea and then close my eyes listening to the sounds of strikes of raindrops. I am just missing to do so...

17 Sep 12

Internet connection is now restored!

Canellita @Canellita (12029) • United States 14 Sep 12

I just spent several frustrating days trying to get online and get things done with only spotty access, and one day with absolutely no access at all. What a drag! The new modem arrived right away thankfully, and it took very...

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nzalheart Hi Canellita, We are just too much attached to using internet in our daily lives. In fact, it seems as if, it is impossible to spend days or nights without the internet connection. In my case, I use monthly subscribed ADSL connection. Sometimes, I forget...

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I just hate facebook timeline.. more

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 15 Sep 12

it doesn't let me see the older posts and just keeps on loading.. I prefer the very first layout of facebook, it was simple, not to crowded and it can load lots of stuff in your page for posts even many weeks before.. I wonder why...

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nzalheart Hi lady1993, The similar case is with me. I am not very much comfortable with the current timeline system in facebook. Like you said, I feel difficult to see the most recent updates, most recent comments and likes. Everything just seems to messed up, don't...

15 Sep 12

You can't please everyone

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

You can't please everyone , so why worry ? No matter how you do things rightly still in other's eyes it is nothing. Pleasing mom in the family , still you are not the best but it is big sister. So why felt sorry and neglected....

desirable

moral

right

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nzalheart Hi Angelpink!!! Yeah its the universal truth, you cannot please everyone. May be we can please some people for some moment, but not forever. And yes, why worry then? And why feel sorry and neglected. Everyone have their own feelings and own perceptions of...

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