raimavillanueva

@raimavillanueva (37)

Australia • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Drama Queen

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Relationship Counselling

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 3 Mar 07

Have you ever had any type of r'ship couselling? Like marriage counselling? Do you think it's worthwile or just a waste of money. Some people say 'if you're in love then you don't need any counselling but if you're having problems...

marriage counselling

relationship counselling

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raimavillanueva yes counselling helps, but most of the times evaluating oneself and understanding each other help solve the problems.

4 Mar 07

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Wedding ring always worn on the third finger? Is it true? Why?

zugedanit @zugedanit (1958) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

Wedding ring always worn on the third finger? Is it true? Why?

ring

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raimavillanueva oh! i always thought it should be worn on the fourth finger! now it wont fit my third... *sigh*

3 Mar 07

Do You Think That All Wedding/Engagement Rings Should Be Diamond?

biwasaki @biwasaki (1745) • United States 25 Feb 07

I'm just curious, do you think a wedding/engagement ring should be diamond? Or would another type of stone be acceptable?

diamonds

engagement ring

wedding ring

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raimavillanueva not necessarily...especially if you dont have the budget for it... it is much better to have a diamond ring though *wink*

3 Mar 07

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Can people who commit suicide go to Heaven?

eeseharden @eeseharden (603) • United States 26 Feb 07

This question hits very close to home for me and I want to find out how some of you understand this to be. My great uncle recently shot himself after suffering for the past 3 years with cancer. He left a note to my great aunt...

death

heaven

suicide

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raimavillanueva The bible says to love your body as it is created likewise the body of God...But i also know God is forgiving...Just pray for the soul of your uncle.

3 Mar 07

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Death - Are you going to be cremated or put in a box?

Jewels @Tetchie (2932) • Australia 24 Feb 07

Ashes to ashes......Have you made a choice of what you want done with your remains when you permanently close your eyes.

death and dying

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raimavillanueva I think i want be in a coffin,i dont know..some times i wanna be cremated...actually now that you asked, its hard to decide...hahaha

3 Mar 07

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Have you ever lost people who are really close to you?

arvee17 @arvee17 (730) • Philippines 3 Mar 07

Have you ever lost people who are really close to you? i just remember that the year 2002 was the roughest year i had in my life. My boyfriend at that time, my male best friend and my close friend at work all died at the same...

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raimavillanueva im so sorry about your losses... sometimes life really played tricks on us...just keep your faith to the Lord, he'll guide you through.

3 Mar 07

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What age when you loved someone of opposite gender

sunny1984 @sunny1984 (639) • India 2 Mar 07

mine was 14yrs

love

repationship

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raimavillanueva I had my first boyfriend at 13...such a nice feeling to be inlove at a a young age...I still laugh to those foolishness ive done :)

2 Mar 07

Do you believe in love at first sight?

gatorfb2004 @gatorfb2004 (38) • United States 27 Feb 07

It's the old cliche "love at first sight". Do you believe in love at first sight? Or do you think love takes time? Personally I don't believe in it. What do you think and why? (feel free to share stories)

love

love at first sight

relationships

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raimavillanueva No, I dont. If you met someone for the first time u would possibly get attracted, but never in love... falling in love is a process, you have to know the person very well in order to love him/her.

27 Feb 07

My best friend is in love with my husband?

xelissa @xelissa (776) • New Zealand 27 Feb 07

Yesterday, my husband said that my best friend confessed to my husband the she was in love with him and tried to crack onto him. He said he didn't feel the same way and walked away, and then told me what happen. I saw some clues...

relationships

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raimavillanueva Go find yourself a new bestfriend now...If she were really your friend, she didnt have to ponder her feelings for your husband. The first time she realised she's falling inlove with your man, she should've prevented it from getting deeper. Dont hesitate, you...

27 Feb 07

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Is it right to stay in amrraige that is unhappy just for the kids?

SheraPop @SheraPop (84) 27 Feb 07

I want out of my marriage... I took my vows seriously and promised to stay for better or worse to the man I married... but he has changed and if I were stood in front of this man at the alter I would laugh and say No Way!!! We...

relationships

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raimavillanueva It is not always right to stay in a marriage just for the kids sake...Sooner or later it will reflect on them. You cant show them that a family should look like what you have right now.

27 Feb 07

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Should I stop believing on a happy marriage.....

maribel1218 @maribel1218 (3085) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

I can't really start to type what should I put here I'm out of words and I felt I was not in myself today. I just want to hear my friends on myLot and read thier advices sorry guys I can't say anything I'm a bit...

marriage

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raimavillanueva If youre starting to stop believing in happy marriage then u are also starting to lose belief on ur relationship..

27 Feb 07

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Do you approve of fix marriage?

p3halliwel2005 @p3halliwel2005 (3156) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

I have heard of fix marriages..This are when parents of different children decided their kids will marry each other when they grow up so they would be in-laws..When the kids grow up the parents of this children arrange for their...

marriage

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raimavillanueva Usually chinese and muslim people practise fixed or arranged marriages...For the royal families, they want their children to marry same royal blood to preserve the monarchy...they sometimes marry their own cousins. Others arrange their children's marriage for...

27 Feb 07

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Are u mature to advice me

sunny1984 @sunny1984 (639) • India 26 Feb 07

Hey friend! I am going to get marreid soon.I would like to tell you that I had an affair with a girl before a few months ago, I want ur advice thatshould i tell this thing to my wife after marriage or it should be a secret only,...

relationship

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raimavillanueva its better if u tell her now rather than finding it out from other persons...fidelity is very important in a marriage that's why u have to start anew...goodluck!

26 Feb 07

Would you call it cheating?

lirael @lirael (501) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

My former boyfriend now-turned-husband and I have a peculiar habit: Whenever we watch a movie we always makes it a point to buy food first from a food chain before entering the movie house. We always prefer food from the outside....

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raimavillanueva Although cinemas earn from the snacks their sell, majority of their profits of course came from the tickets..Dont feel guilty about buying food outside the cinema coz trust me, they earn very good ;)

26 Feb 07

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New movie called 'Pregnant in America'.

astromama @astromama (1221) • United States 26 Feb 07

Hi, I just heard about a new movie entitled 'Pregnant in America' that is about just that. American women normally birth in the hospital, and 98% of the babies born in this country are drugged. The movie trailer says that...

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raimavillanueva Well, it is still the mother's decision if she'd opt to these drugs during labor...Ive just given birth to my daughter last month and I had emergency C-section. I must say that if not for Nitrous oxide and pethadine, I may not be as relaxed as ever through...

26 Feb 07

I hate Love...

unpretty14 @unpretty14 (63) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isn't it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this...

love

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raimavillanueva "I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love" ~Mother Theresa~

26 Feb 07

love or career

redhill_07 @redhill_07 (11) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Ive been in a relationship for 5 years now. My boyfriend and I were planning to get married since last year but due to unavoidable circumstances we opted to settle down this year. However until now we still dont go into planning...

career

love

settle down

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raimavillanueva Think about it carefully, we can only give advises of different sorts but it is solely yourself who could decide.. Consider this, long distance relationships most usually dont work out.

25 Feb 07