ramonah

@ramonah (211)

Romania • Age 37

Joined myLot 15 years ago

why not?

Responses (132)

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Natural Childbirth

NATTYEMPRESS @NATTYEMPRESS (5) • United States 1 Apr 12

How many mothers on here have decided to have/had a natural childbirth? How was your experience and why did you choose to have a natural childbirth? I have chosen to do so because women have been having unmedicated birth since the...

childbirth

natural childbirth

unmedicated childbirth

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ramonah It's interesting to read such a thread. I don't have any children yet but I've always thought about choosing natural childbirth when the time comes, unless I really don't have a choice. I'm really glad I see quite a lot of women choosing this. For me, first of...

2 Apr 12

Depression

dandan07 @dandan07 (1906) • China 18 Mar 12

I feel depressed all the time since last September. It should be the last school year for me according to the academic calendar and I should be graduate from the college in this March. But i can not make it. Now my papers are...

depression

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ramonah To be honest I don't really know your case. I'd need more details to give an objective opinion. But I can however tell you my case if it helps in any way. I study architecture, 6 whole years. And it's not easy at all. After the first 3 of intense work I just...

19 Mar 12

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What will trigger a man to cheat?

larish @larish (2239) • Philippines 2 Mar 12

Is it a man's nature to cheat even if they have an almost perfect girlfriend/wife? I really don't understand why a particular guy will cheat his girl. One man will claim that he cheats because his wife is a nagger, another because...

cheating man

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ramonah It's not only a problem for men but for women as well. The "lousy" partner is not a trigger, it's a reason they use to cover the guilt. We are as animals and we always have the need to couple either with the same mate or a different one. The cheating or not...

2 Mar 12

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What do you get from your college education?

dandan07 @dandan07 (1906) • China 8 Feb 12

I will graduate from university soon. Now looking back the years I have spend in the university, I find that I have learn many things and then forget them. But the most important things I have got from school are friendship, the...

education

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ramonah I think it really depends on the profile of the university. I studied architecture. I didn't get many memories from college really. I'm in my last year and when I look back I have no fun stories to tell. But that's because I didn't have too much free time. I...

9 Feb 12

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What to do if someone near you want to borrow your money?

reinykwan @reinykwan (350) • Indonesia 8 Feb 12

Dear mylotter friends.. I Just have a friend who want to borrow some money from me, he know that I have enough money as he require. I often lend the money to him, but he return it too slow even some money not paid. Should I...

borrow the money

friend

money

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ramonah I have a built in principle about this. I lend money to anyone. Sometimes friends of friends, people I just meet, but I always ask when they will return them and I write it down. I always say it can even be a year, just give it back before or on that date. If...

9 Feb 12

how to react?

canetecheeryl @canetecheeryl (78) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

Hello everyone. I hope you are doing fine while reading this. My best friend celebrated her birthday yesterday unfortunately she doesn't receive any gifts or even a simple greetings from her boyfriend. She don't know what do. I...

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ramonah If it was on purpose than he is just being mean. If he knew about it and didn't greet I would really think twice before seeing him again, or at least have a serious talk to find out his reason. Or it might just be the fact he forgot. I will never be mad at...

9 Feb 12

Why do people Lie?

otakumarie @otakumarie (48) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

I really got to thinking myself that why do we necessarily have to lie to someone. I mean is it a necessary evil in our life to put up with? Well I do lie for some reasons and for some other times. why do we lie when we basically...

choosing

lying

lying for someone

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ramonah To be honest I tell the truth almost all the time to everyone. Especially to those I care about. And I expect it in return. Reasons? Well.. Because I think it's easier for me to have a clear conscious then to think about what I've said. Lies are hard...

9 Feb 12

It's all about the money money money???

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 8 Feb 12

Do you think a relationship would work without the luxury of money? Even if a person has all the good qualities of a gentleman like kindness, sincerity, honesty, hardworking and not lazy, etc. just like the usual ideal guy that...

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ramonah It's not all about money but it's not all about love. Like in all other things in this life, it's all about balance. Of course some people want money more than anything else but they can't ignore other qualities forever, even if you have all the money in the...

9 Feb 12

Why do you care?

AidaLily @AidaLily (1450) • United States 8 Feb 12

So I finally have a few moments to start another discussion and it is something that I do honestly question. Recently, I have been reading a lot more articles online, researching and doing mini surveys at a family center and...

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ramonah 1. I don't care. I even support interracial or inter-cultural relationships. People should be more opened, that way maybe more people would know more about other races or cultures and we would lose animosities. 2. I am not bothered by gay relationships. I...

9 Feb 12

what is the right age to marry someone?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

greetings to all my mylot users and my friends here,in your own opinion and to your experience,what do you think is the right age to marry someone or to be married?why?is money have a big role in marriage?why? because i have a...

marriage

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ramonah To be honest it's not really like this for everyone but in a majority of cases getting married means also having a baby soon enough. And a baby really needs stability. I think that's what it's about. Related to the age, I don't think there's a rule really....

9 Feb 12

Say WHAT?

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63755) • United States 8 Feb 12

I'm beginning to think my cats have grown THUMBS! Ethernet cables are normally a B!TCH to get loose, but tonight when we couldn't get online. The roomie checked the hook-ups and sure enough the ethernet cable...

cat

cats

internet

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ramonah Mine does it too but I caught her in the act. She chews on it. And by chewing she manages to press that small secure lever and plugs it out. My solution was rather odd but worked as it worked in other cases of pets chewing stuff in the house. I smeared a...

9 Feb 12

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Am i Crazy or Just Paranoid?

Bamboee @Bamboee (645) • United Arab Emirates 29 Jan 12

All my life I have lived in dreams, and wished that those dreams would some day come true. I pictured the perfect house, the perfect husband, the perfect family.. NOW I AM JUST GOING INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well...

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ramonah I don't want to seem against you.. but really.. you're a little paranoid.. Me and my hubs were together for 10 years before we got married. Lived 8 of those years together.. Been married for one year. We share almost everything, but some things we don't...

30 Jan 12

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I use wifi on my cell phone for Internet

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 29 Jan 12

I don't use the data on my phone to watch TV, use YouTube or use the Internet. The only time I use AT&T's data package is when I am away from home. If you have wifi at home for your computer you can go into settings on your phone...

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ramonah I only use traffic when I really really need to. Usually I don't need to because everywhere I go I can find some wifi zone to solve my problems. I love wifi at home and I do use it alot. I gave up my data plan. I sometimes use up something like 10-20 mb, every...

30 Jan 12

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Choose Between the TWO!

Emdjay @emdjay23 (1575) • Philippines 24 Jan 12

Hi guys, I just have a question in mind, if you were to choose something to dwell on what would you choose? is it WORK OR BUSINESS?.. Work means you'll go to office to do jobs and get paid monthly or whatever.. or you'll...

business

work

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ramonah It's harder to succeed in business, but it's much more rewarding. Business is more flexible. Some people can't handle rigid schedule, like me for example. I'd rather work for 24 hours in a row then take a day or two off then just keep a daily routine of 8...

25 Jan 12

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How is it p ossible to love someone and not like him? Puzzled.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163773) • Garden Grove, California 24 Jan 12

this was triggered by a comment in another discussion that had nothing to do with this topic. the young woman was talking about treasuring her boyfriend and always loving him but not liking him? I beg her pardon, you love...

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ramonah Well to be honest the term is unclear.. And it might have been used wrong. The case is maybe she got to love him but now he changed and she doesn't like him any more, but the old love is not something you can just wipe off. Maybe it was an episode, she...

25 Jan 12

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what are the vegetables that youn use to hate that you can tolerate now?

Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker @CaptAlbertWhisker (32745) • Calgary, Alberta 24 Jan 12

Until now I was wondering why American kids hates brocolli cause its actually delicious if stirfried Chinese style (I know Americans steam them) and those kids might consider brocolli delicious once they experienced eating...

childhood

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ramonah I used to hate eggplants. In any form of cooking. Now I like them in any form. About broccoli, I used to hate them too because of the smell when boiled. Until I discovered stir fried which makes them great really. I used to hate mushrooms, forest mushroom,...

25 Jan 12

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What gives your life purpose?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 8 Jan 12

What is really important to you in your life. For me it is making sure that I keep my priorities straight.I think that at times I get sidetracked. There are always so many things to get done in a day and seems never to be enough...

purpose

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ramonah My life has purpose when I share it. I'm pretty young though, so don't have a growing family yet, but I base my life on my relationship. I mean, if my love life goes well I can do everything else with my eyes closed, even without planning, and it always goes...

9 Jan 12

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... haissst! She's a woman now!

Lhenni @Lhenni (1242) • Philippines 9 Jan 12

My 10 year old daughter was calling me just a while ago, she's inside the bathroom. She asked me why there's blo*d in her undies! Uh uh! I can't help it! She's a woman now *sigh! I had my first mensrual at age 14. She's just...

adolescent

menstrual period

puberty

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ramonah I was 12, and being raised by a lone father it was not easy. I was also on a camping weekend in the mountains so it was really unforgettably awful.. :) but we got over it by improvising. It hurt really bad though.. I had to stay in the tent the whole weekend....

9 Jan 12

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Inception......Lets go Deeper

ankitgarg_pec @ankitgarg_pec (117) • India 22 Dec 11

When I first watched Inception, I could not really understand the theme of the movie fully. I have to watch it 3-4 times before I can say what the movie is all about. Another movie with which puzzled me and forced me to watch it...

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ramonah Mr. Nobody with Jared Leto puzzled me more than anything. Even after the third watch I still have doubts about bits and pieces. The Fountain with Hugh Jackman was also mind bending. The Prestige, not as puzzling but I had to watch it twice to get the...

23 Dec 11

Can a Mother Be Justified in Giving Her Baby/child for Adoption?

Mercedes @mercedes2053 (136) • Davao, Philippines 22 Dec 11

She has just delivered her first baby out of wedlock...and she is confused. She does not know how will she bring up her baby, knowing she has no job, her parents have forsaken her. Here comes a couple who does not have a child....

adoption

baby

mother

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ramonah I think it depends on the case, and in the worst of cases she is really justified. If she's poor, maybe she'd rather have that baby live well and healthy than keeping it with her and who knows what might happen and where they both end up. Other case I can...

23 Dec 11