rane0328

@rane0328 (129)

United States • Age 39

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I can't understand my mom

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

Often times...I don't understand my mom. All I see is how she treats us the wrong way. She gives us and buys us all we need and what we want and sometimes she just buys us things because she wants to yet I don't feel the real love...

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rane0328 U can't understand her, and u dn't deserve what she does to u. Look sometimes adults can act more childish about things then kids.. and it sounds like ur dad loves u alot and maybe she is a little jealous of that... or maybe she is just aggrivated, its hard to...

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How do you treat your sister?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

I have a younger sister. I'm 12 yrs. older than her. I love her yet I don't know how to make her feel that all I want for her is to grow upright and persevere unlike me who has been brought up not really in the right way 'cause...

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rane0328 Well honestly the best way is to lead by example... u do the things u wish she would be doing... soon she will probebly catch on and do them too

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How do you express your anger?

rychelle314 @rychelle314 (285) 30 Jun 08

I think of really morbid scenarios since I can't lash out or do anything physical. I try to go away for awhile until my anger has subsided. Somehow it helps me control my temper. Although I do know that it could have some negative...

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rane0328 i used to b quick to fight although since i had my kids i have gotten alot more patient and i usually walk it off or go relax in a warm bath until i have cooled down

30 Jun 08

Okay should I Confront

pixiedustforyou2008 @pixiedustforyou2008 (2422) • United States 25 Jun 08

Should i confront a guy that i have been living with for 2 months about what he has been saying about me???? This is what he has been saying about me: He could digest his food better if i wasn't at the dinner table and that he...

confront

friendship

relationships

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rane0328 ok first question is why in the world r u still living with him?????? I mean that just don't seem right in its self. But yeah if i were you i would comfront him b/c ten to one what u r saying he said is all hear say and might not actually b tru. so calmly ask...

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We love each other..but..We can't be together..

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

Have you experienced of being in love with your best friend?..You do have the same feeling..but still being best friends..because you both in a relationship..you're both committed with someone else..and belongs to someone else's...

friendship

love

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rane0328 Yeah i know exactly what u mean, its hard but all i can tell ya is do what your heart tells u. If u r still with the other guy then take it as a sign, b/c if it really was love u and your friend would be together.. maybe deep down their is something u don't...

30 Jun 08

Do I Need To Put My Baby On A Diet?

eihdra @eihdra (3115) • Philippines 27 Jun 08

My 9 month old is overweight. He weighs as a 1 year old and a half does. My sister said to lessen his bottle feeding and cut down on baby foods. I tried it for a few days but It kinda made him irritable because he couldn't get...

obese

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rane0328 at one my son weighed 50lbs and now he is sixs and only weighs 62lbs he is tall and skinny, ur baby will be fine just continue feeding him like u normally do.. i know when my little boy was one he looked like a rolly polly, and i was really scared he would be...

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What name would you give your next baby?

clowdine @clowdine (1402) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

For you guys who will soon have a baby or those who are planning, what name would you give your next baby? As for me, I would rather choose something that has religious significance. Sadly, some parents don't care if their...

babies

names

parenting

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rane0328 Well my first child is named Zackary Blake my second is Brice Josiah, and if i had anymore.. it would be Jase Xzavier for a boy and Brynn Arianna for a girl.. i just go by the ones that sound good i guess

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Why do women let their' husbands tell them what to do?

RebeccaLynn @RebeccaLynn (2256) • United States 30 Jun 08

And please don't tell me that the Bible says for women to be submissive because what it really says concerning marriage is 'submit yourselves one unto the other' So let's not go there. The problem is this. My best friend allows...

controlling husbands

overly submissive wives

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rane0328 ok lets look at another referance in the bible then, it says that men are the head of women and christ is the head of men.. we were created for men as helpers... or what not it says that right as god was about to create eve... that is why

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Does racism still exist?

shamsta19 @shamsta19 (3224) • United States 28 Jun 08

Now I don't want to start any arguments but I want to know your opinion. Recant events and discussions have led me to post this topic and I wanted to know the general consensus on the subject. I have my own personal opinions but...

race

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rane0328 We have made some progress but there is still alot of racism, a whole lot here in the south where i am from.. and not that far from home if u know what i mean, i hate being around the older ppl in my family b/c its "n***** this and n****** that" and i am not...

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Who was your rolemodel in life?

CliffShep @CliffShep (40) • United States 28 Jun 08

Just asking a simple question. I would like to know who you would consider to be you're role model and why?

learning

life

questions

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rane0328 my grandmother was my role model.. she was a good wife married for 46 yrs, had and raised 6 kids, and was all around a great person, strong, wise, patient all the things i only can hope i will be she was a gr8 person and i hope i can b just like her and b...

29 Jun 08

Did you choose natural childbirth or a c-section? Pain killers or not?

madebyrobyn @madebyrobyn (616) • Australia 28 Jun 08

I was able to have all of my children naturally but I was induced. I also chose not to have any painkillers during my labour and delivery. I was lucky enough to not have to have a c-section and I must say that I would not choose...

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rane0328 i have had two kids my first i had at age 17 i had natural child birth with no pain killers and he was born in the bathtub at the local birthing center and my second was natura childbirth with no pain meds but he was born at the hospital

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i want my husband out of my life!!!

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

last night i talked to my husband and i told him maybe it would be better if he'll be out of my life for good.. i returned my wedding ring and say im sure i would be a better person if he leaves.. he's the one whos making my life...

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rane0328 then why don't u leave and find somewhere to go if u don't wanna b with him anymore.. move in with a friend or family member.

29 Jun 08

when was the last time that your husband tells you how much he loved you?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

me? when we first lived in together and that was a year ago and it hurts

love

relationships

wife

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rane0328 my husband tells me everyday sometimes several times a day

28 Jun 08

I love my son!! I'm scared to get pregnant again :(

squirt051305 @squirt051305 (381) • United States 28 Jun 08

I am a new mother...I just had my beautiful son in May. Being a mother is the greatest thing in the world. It's amazing how much you love this baby inside of you before you even meet him/her. I was sick for the first 5 months of...

getting pregnant

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rane0328 some women dont get sick after the first child maybe u will b one of the lucky ones i didn't get sick with either of mine. and besides usually after about 4 months or so u will forget about all the sickness u had with ur son.. and will b more keen on the idea

28 Jun 08

the debate of right and wrong.. homosexuality is it a choice? is it a sin?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

i started reading discussions and caught up with this issue of homosexuality.. the writer said homosexuality is a sin but she encourages it she said it is wrong and its a choice.. others say its not for its in their genes and...

debate

homosexuality

sin

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rane0328 hmm well i beleive its a sin... and its a choice no one is "born gay" lmao..... god made women for men... but i don't judge them i figure they have to pay for their sins not i so live and let live.

28 Jun 08

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Places to Live

mollyrose @mollyrose (414) • United States 28 Jun 08

I really want to live near the ocean along the east coast of the US. I am looking into Virgina, North Carolina, South Carolina but don't know what places are safe for raising a child, good job opporunites, shopping, places to see....

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rane0328 i think that NC and VA are absolutly beautiful... SC on the other hand is extremely boring i live in savannah ga and go to SC often.. lots of family there.. the best place in SC however is charlston very historical... Savannah is very historical as well guess...

28 Jun 08

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