ruths77

@ruths77 (21)

Australia • Age 47

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Bad body odour - would you tell them?

carmelbg @carmelbg (519) 23 Oct 09

If someone you knew had bad body odour would you tell them? If it was a work colleague, friend or family member would you be able to come out and tell them. I used to manage someone with bad personal hygiene and I had to have this...

bad body odour

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ruths77 Good for you to do that, not easy for me to do that. If it's not really close friends, I might tell them like pretending talk about a new product and smells so good and recommend them to try, but if it's very close friends, talk to them when they're alone and...

23 Oct 09

My Goodness, she is pregnant again

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 23 Oct 09

Hi There Dear Mylot Friends. I just had a talk with this officemate of mine. She said she is, again, in the family way. I mean, she is again pregnant, for the forth time. I told her, "gosh, again? don't you have some...

getting pregnant again

parenting

pregnancy

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ruths77 For me baby is a precious gift from God, but still people will see different way in different situations. But totally is not the baby fault, never the baby fault or God's fault. If some family can not afford to have big family, they should be smarter and wiser...

23 Oct 09

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I am not a mother, but if I were, I would not stand for this...

Andrealoves7and8 @rogue13xmen13 (14402) • United States 21 Oct 09

I am not a mother, I if I were I would not stand for seeing all of these innocent children getting abducted nearly everyday, kidnapped, tortured, and in many cases, killed. I live in the United States of America, and almost...

abductions

children

mother

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ruths77 I know people who could do that to kids are monster! they can't be human. Especially if their own parents who abuse their own kids, just can not believe that parents can do that. The law has to be a lot more stronger to those kind of monster, I agree should...

21 Oct 09

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Another Little Girl Missing!

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 21 Oct 09

A 7 year old girl walking home from school in Orange Park, Florida is missing. Why is this allowed to continue too happen in this day and age. Parents have to realize that no matter where you live in this world our kids are not...

walking home from school

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ruths77 Feel so sorry to all parents who lost their kids, it must be just the worst nightmare in life. I have 22 months old son and can not imagine if that happens to me, he's my life and can not live without him. I believe all parents feel the same way too....

21 Oct 09

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Morning or Night kids?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 21 Oct 09

My kids are morning people forsure! My younger kids like going to bed around 7pm, if they stay up much past that they're too miserable. All of my kids are usually up by 6am! My 6 year old son is usually up the earliest! He always...

children

morning or night

parenting

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ruths77 My toddler son, he's 22 months old and this 3 months he always up at 7am, go to bed around 8, latest would be 9pm. But he always have at least 1 hour nap everyday. Without nap, he will be so cranky in the afternoon. I guess 7am is allright but I'm not really...

21 Oct 09

would you call me selfish..???

gemini13 @gemini13 (333) • India 21 Oct 09

i live in a joint family,mine is a luv marriage,the family has accepted me ,i have a son everything is going on..but just don't like being with the in laws..b'coz the baggage is too heavy for me..it brings lot of emotional stress...

family

joint family

relationships

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ruths77 first of all, I don't think you're selfish. Never easy and very not good idea to live together with the in-laws after you got married. It doesn't mean that you don't love them but after you got married you need your own space to start build up your own little...

21 Oct 09

A friend online want me to meet in person but I don't want to meet him...

irene3184 @irene3184 (898) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

I have a friend whom I meet online and I feel uncomfortable with him because he is too demanding to meet me in person but I never trust him. We chatted before for sometimes online and we have shared ideas but now I don't hesitate...

meet in person

meet online

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ruths77 I think you do the right thing not to meet him in person especially by yourself. You only know him from online not in person so it's means you don't really know him. And seems that he's so pushy to ask you to meet him, if he's a nice person he will not be that...

20 Oct 09

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I lost my privacy

leahsmom @leahsmom (337) • United States 20 Oct 09

Since I had children I have no privacy I can't take a bath or use the restroom with one of the kids walking in on me. Does this happen to all mothers?

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ruths77 How old are your kids? I have a toddler but I still have my "me" time everyday, thanks GOD. Even sometimes I feel that I need more. But he always have at least one hour nap everyday so when he goes for nap then, I can have my coffee, shower and lunch. But when...

20 Oct 09

what my kids will become

sudharbhat @sudharbhat (93) • India 19 Oct 09

As a mother I always worried about my kids future. What will they become after growing up, whether they perform well throughout their studies and get a good job etc etc I always thinking. Sometimes I give it to their fortune, but...

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ruths77 Yes, I think all mothers have the same feeling, can not stop worrying about their kids, especially the future. My son only 22 months right now but I do worry sometimes what he'll become in the future. But I think all we can do right now is just try our best to...

20 Oct 09

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How have you understood that you are getting old?

borhan @borhan (1338) • United States 20 Oct 09

The age grows naturally. but the realization of persons about it takes place in various ways. one day your some cousin is meeting you and telling you ' oh! since when your hairs started getting grey? that day once you looked at...

old

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ruths77 Since I have this gorgeous son, somehow I feel getting old. Especially when you realize what have you been through, your journey in life, then got married and have a child then seeing your child growing up sooo quick. Everyday looking at him growing make me...

20 Oct 09

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To spank or not to spank?

ChaoticBeauty @ChaoticBeauty (263) • United States 20 Oct 09

I have heard of this movement going on across our "great" nation of parents who think it's wrong to punish a child with spanking. In fact, there are states with laws against such discipline in public places. Does anyone besides me...

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ruths77 I have a very hyper toddler and starting show a lot more tantrums. I did slap little bit in the hand sometimes, but then actually felt guilty after I did that, not feel proud as mother to do that. I actually believe that child no need to get hurt to learn...

20 Oct 09

Will you give money to the beggar?

sasalove @sasalove (1709) • China 20 Oct 09

My answer is yes. Every time when I am waiting for the bus, I always give the petty cash to the begger if I have. I just think that one dollar will not change my life, but the beggar. I heard a lot of tricking story of the...

beggar

money

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ruths77 I know many stories about the beggar who is actually pretending to look very poor but actually they're just too lazy to get a job. But for me in the end it's all back to us, if we really sincere want to help other people no matter how much and even probably...

20 Oct 09

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happiness is just a state of mind...

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

they say there are some people who are extremely rich but are not happy. they also say that there are poor men who live their lives one day at a time and are happy with their lives. I guess happiness means different things to...

happiness

life

live

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ruths77 I think the happiness is about whole thing in your life, inside and outside from you and your life around you. But the one thing is totally true is you can not buy the happiness with money at all, it's not about physically thigs in this world, for me is more...

20 Oct 09

Shouting at children makes them stubborn

bamrahkirti @bamrahkirti (1821) • India 19 Oct 09

I am a strong believer in Feng shui and often visit a friend of mine who is a Feng shui expert.Yesterday we were discussing about kids and she told me that till the age of 7 children should be treated like God and they should be...

behavior

children rude

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ruths77 I have one toddler, he's very hyper, I do shout to him sometimes especially when he showed the tantrum. I don't proud of what I'm doing, I love him very much, he's my life and soo proud of him. I know I have to be extra patient with kids, I know they need be...

19 Oct 09

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Why do some mothers abandon their kids?

jules67 @jules67 (2788) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

I was able to watch one episode on Oprah, mentioning that the percentage of mothers abandoning their kids is even higher than any other crime. Correct me guys if I am wrong. I have been reading a lot of articles discussing...

abandoned kids

mothers

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ruths77 after you decided to have kids, we all should know that we will need to do sacrifices, life would be change totally but doesn't mean will turn to be a bad life. I know everybody have different kind of life experiences or background. I don't know her life, but...

19 Oct 09

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difficult to earn in mylot!

luffy7 @luffy7 (817) • Singapore 18 Oct 09

i post about 10 comments 2 days ago, but when i sign in today. my earnings only increase by 1 cent? does anyone have the same problem with me? i remember when i post in mylot few months ago, i didnt have such problem, is it...

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ruths77 thank you for all this infos, I am new here and still wondering how much I will get per post, or is it per lines?

19 Oct 09

What to do with a friend who's a complete flirt?

aixshaonline @aixshaonline (600) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

Ever since high school, I had my own group of girl friends. We are 6 in the group, me being the latest addition (I only started getting close to them around 3rd year high school). We've all had our ups and downs, but we managed to...

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ruths77 It seems you and friend have tried all the friends what for, but if she can not take it, then it's all up to her, she's not a baby anymore so sometimes all you can do is just let her live the way she likes and learn herself from her own mistakes. You and...

19 Oct 09

Help me Please!

Laur25 @Laur25 (12) • United States 18 Oct 09

I'm new to MyLot and I'm not really understanding how this whole thing works money-wise. I understand the concept on what your supposed to do. I'm not understanding how the money making part works. I'm not sure if I'm not looking...

what your supposed to do

work from home

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ruths77 I am new as well in this, i really do hope this system will really work to earn extra cash from home, as so many of data entry from home are scam.

19 Oct 09

Is it okay to preached the Bible at public places?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

Last Friday while riding a bus from work, three well-dressed people stand-up and begin preaching the Bible. As the bus is too noisy, the man speaking cannot be heard that much. While the two other guys are busy talking to their...

bible

preaching

public places

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ruths77 I know it's their right to do what they want or believe as long not force other people to listen or follow their belief, if they really would love to spread or share their belief they should more show it through their lifestyle and their contributions to other...

19 Oct 09